Getting a hard on in the gym shower...

  • collinan

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    Aug 07, 2008 1:07 PM GMT
    Hey guys,
    I have a growing problem:
    When I try to shower after the workout I get always a hard or a semi hard on when I dress off my clothes. So I try to be alone when I shower or I shower not. This is not because I am turned on, it just happens...
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    The same problem with my boyfriend, when I am with him, even if we only watch tv without any sexual happening, I always have a hard on when we have body contact. Even after cumming, it stands hard till sleep...
    I tryed to think about bad things or total turn offs, but the most time this won't help.
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    Aug 07, 2008 3:44 PM GMT
    Whats wrong with that, if no one says anything at the gym if they even notice who cares. Dude id love to see a guy at the guym sporting some wood.
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    Aug 30, 2008 9:11 PM GMT
    i have the same issue, i guess i just thing about boning everyone in the gym lol
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    Aug 31, 2008 1:15 PM GMT
    doesn't sound like a problem to me...I've met some of my best fuck buddies while sprouting wood in the shower at the gym, lol
  • collinan

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    Aug 31, 2008 2:08 PM GMT
    It is not a gay gym and I suppose that no one else is gay there...
  • rnch

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    Aug 31, 2008 4:13 PM GMT
    beeez ya complain' or beeeez ya braggin' ? icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 31, 2008 5:36 PM GMT
    I think it's great you sprout a boner at the gym shower. Enjoy it. My advice is to not be looking around cruising other guys when you get one. This way, most guys, gay and straight, will kinda understand it just happens.

    Being the (arguably) absolute hunk that people say i am (lol) when I go into the shower, I keep my eyes down and don't look at anyone. If the 12 showers are being used, 11 of the guys are staring straight at me and it's embaressing to be surrounded by boners.

    No shit.
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    Aug 31, 2008 7:01 PM GMT
    It happens - so just make very little of it - maybe casually carry your towel in front of you as you head back to your locker. Any guy who is really checking you out thoroughly may be "family" anyway!
  • rnch

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    Aug 31, 2008 10:00 PM GMT
    KissingPro said...Being the (arguably) absolute hunk that people say i am (lol) when I go into the shower, I keep my eyes down and don't look at anyone. If the 12 showers are being used, 11 of the guys are staring straight at me and it's embaressing to be surrounded by boners.

    No shit.
    it's the cross u have to bear in life, son! icon_cool.gif
  • PRDGUY

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    Aug 31, 2008 10:28 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saiddoesn't sound like a problem to me...I've met some of my best fuck buddies while sprouting wood in the shower at the gym, lol




    or just watching tv with best bud who has an itch, then next thing u know ur sucking each other dry, asking WTF WHY'd WE WAIT?

    I'll be in his wedding lol and she loves me[ if she only knew]. Agree no problem
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    Sep 12, 2008 5:49 PM GMT
    Young men your age are raging with hormones, and your reaction is normal. Pity the older guy when that reaction finally dies out, and has to depend on Viagra. Longer in length for longer in life is the goal, so rejoice while ye may.

    And your BF should be pleased at your reaction to him. Registering strongly on another guy's Peter Meter is the most sincere form of gay flattery, since it's one of most difficult things to fake.

    But, stiffies in the shower can be embarrassing, depending where you are and the mix of guys around you. I had that problem big time in HS, decades ago when it was less cool than today, and believe it or not I'd play certain of my piano pieces in my head to distract and relax myself.

    So you might want to look into and practice different types of relaxation therapy, that you can use in the gang shower. Everyone has their own formula, like my music for me, so you'll need to experiment on your own.
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    Mar 11, 2010 6:19 PM GMT
    I have this very same problem... In fact, this guy I'm seeing asked me to go swimming with him and I'm afraid I can't. I don't want to be walking around with a stiffy amongst mothers and childrens and elderly people. It's so wrong. I feel so retarded. Now I'm running out of excuses of why I don't want to go swimming with him. What can I do?
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    Mar 11, 2010 7:03 PM GMT
    I don't think it's a problem nor would I be embarassed if I got a raging hard on in the gym locker room or shower. If your a healthy male it happens even when you are not sexually excited. I've gottem wood in a gym locker/shower room a guy looked but said nothing...I guess even str8 men are impressed with a big dick or a nice dick. It a sign of strength and vitality
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    Mar 11, 2010 7:09 PM GMT
    darksaiyan saidI don't think it's a problem nor would I be embarassed if I got a raging hard on in the gym locker room or shower. If your a healthy male it happens even when you are not sexually excited. I've gottem wood in a gym locker/shower room a guy looked but said nothing...I guess even str8 men are impressed with a big dick or a nice dick. It a sign of strength and vitality

    You are correct, it just happens, and more sophisticated men know this and ignore them. When I was a kid in high school 45 years ago, however, it was every boy's nightmare in the gang shower, or the Y swimming pool where we had to go nude, that your buddies would not let you live down. Time, place and culture are everything in these matters.
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    Mar 11, 2010 7:30 PM GMT
    Lately it seems I sport wood as soon as I step into the shower. So much that I get hard when it rains!

    If the guy next to my shower wants to look, go right ahead and look. Most guys at my gym are worried that someone is going to their kibbles and bits that they make fools of themselves changing in and out of their clothes.
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    Mar 11, 2010 7:40 PM GMT
    PRDGUY said
    or just watching tv with best bud who has an itch, then next thing u know ur sucking each other dry, asking WTF WHY'd WE WAIT?

    I'll be in his wedding lol and she loves me[ if she only knew]. Agree no problem


    Hmmm.... This sounds fucking hot. icon_twisted.gif
  • rnch

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    Mar 11, 2010 8:34 PM GMT
    collinan saidHey guys,
    I have a growing problem:
    When I try to shower after the workout I get always a hard or a semi hard on when I dress off my clothes. So I try to be alone when I shower or I shower not. This is not because I am turned on, it just happens...
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    The same problem with my boyfriend, when I am with him, even if we only watch tv without any sexual happening, I always have a hard on when we have body contact. Even after cumming, it stands hard till sleep...
    I tryed to think about bad things or total turn offs, but the most time this won't help.
    ah yes, those were the days....years ago i was JUST like you, collinan. i wish i still had your "problem"! enjoy it while it lasts. icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 11, 2010 11:07 PM GMT
    geesh, can't you people control yourselves?
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    Mar 12, 2010 3:28 AM GMT
    That is always an issue for me. Thats why I stopped showering a the gym.
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    Mar 18, 2010 7:12 PM GMT
    There are a couple of things to make yourself go down, so to speak! Try thinking of your old aunt Harriet or maybe your ugliest teacher or professor. If that doesn't work, think of the ugliest guy or girl you can imagine, being naked and smelly. It'll go down!

    Caution: Just don't vomit!
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    Mar 18, 2010 10:38 PM GMT
    CAJock753 saidThere are a couple of things to make yourself go down, so to speak! Try thinking of your old aunt Harriet or maybe your ugliest teacher or professor. If that doesn't work, think of the ugliest guy or girl you can imagine, being naked and smelly. It'll go down!

    Caution: Just don't vomit!


    I used the same technique, back in the day when it was an issue. I had this large female pysch professor who was physically unappealing to the extreme. I used to chant her name in my head when I had to shower at the gym. Worked like a charm every time!