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Hey guys,
I have a growing problem:
When I try to shower after the workout I get always a hard or a semi hard on when I dress off my clothes. So I try to be alone when I shower or I shower not. This is not because I am turned on, it just happens...

The same problem with my boyfriend, when I am with him, even if we only watch tv without any sexual happening, I always have a hard on when we have body contact. Even after cumming, it stands hard till sleep...
I tryed to think about bad things or total turn offs, but the most time this won't help.

Whats wrong with that, if no one says anything at the gym if they even notice who cares. Dude id love to see a guy at the guym sporting some wood.

i have the same issue, i guess i just thing about boning everyone in the gym lol

doesn't sound like a problem to me...I've met some of my best fuck buddies while sprouting wood in the shower at the gym, lol

It is not a gay gym and I suppose that no one else is gay there...

beeez ya complain' or beeeez ya braggin' ?

I think it's great you sprout a boner at the gym shower. Enjoy it. My advice is to not be looking around cruising other guys when you get one. This way, most guys, gay and straight, will kinda understand it just happens.

Being the (arguably) absolute hunk that people say i am (lol) when I go into the shower, I keep my eyes down and don't look at anyone. If the 12 showers are being used, 11 of the guys are staring straight at me and it's embaressing to be surrounded by boners.

No shit.

It happens - so just make very little of it - maybe casually carry your towel in front of you as you head back to your locker. Any guy who is really checking you out thoroughly may be "family" anyway!

KissingPro said...Being the (arguably) absolute hunk that people say i am (lol) when I go into the shower, I keep my eyes down and don't look at anyone. If the 12 showers are being used, 11 of the guys are staring straight at me and it's embaressing to be surrounded by boners.

No shit.

it's the cross u have to bear in life, son!

tommysguns2000 saiddoesn't sound like a problem to me...I've met some of my best fuck buddies while sprouting wood in the shower at the gym, lol

or just watching tv with best bud who has an itch, then next thing u know ur sucking each other dry, asking WTF WHY'd WE WAIT?

I'll be in his wedding lol and she loves me[ if she only knew]. Agree no problem

Young men your age are raging with hormones, and your reaction is normal. Pity the older guy when that reaction finally dies out, and has to depend on Viagra. Longer in length for longer in life is the goal, so rejoice while ye may.

And your BF should be pleased at your reaction to him. Registering strongly on another guy's Peter Meter is the most sincere form of gay flattery, since it's one of most difficult things to fake.

But, stiffies in the shower can be embarrassing, depending where you are and the mix of guys around you. I had that problem big time in HS, decades ago when it was less cool than today, and believe it or not I'd play certain of my piano pieces in my head to distract and relax myself.

So you might want to look into and practice different types of relaxation therapy, that you can use in the gang shower. Everyone has their own formula, like my music for me, so you'll need to experiment on your own.