Anal sex and us: why don't more of us do it?

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    Jul 18, 2012 3:04 PM GMT
    There are many stats out there that indicate about 50%, if not less, of intimate couples practice anal sex. It is something we see so much in gay adult industry, so it must be something that is fascinated and fantasized often among the gay men, yet only less than a majority seem to actually embody the experience.

    Why do you guys think anal sex is so widely watched, yet hardly ever practiced in gay community? No judgements here, anything can be a good answer here ;)
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    Jul 18, 2012 3:12 PM GMT
    I don't know what planet you are living on. I love buttseks!
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 18, 2012 3:15 PM GMT
    My boyfriend and I have anal sex. I thought most gay couples did. For me I am usually the bottom and it took getting used to and finding each other's comfort zones, but it's the ultimate act and it's mind blowing the connection we feel. It is making love. Everything else feels more like just kinky foreplay.
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    Jul 18, 2012 3:23 PM GMT
    stevee90 saidThere are many stats out there that indicate about 50%, if not less, of intimate couples practice anal sex. It is something we see so much in gay adult industry, so it must be something that is fascinated and fantasized often among the gay men, yet only less than a majority seem to actually embody the experience.



    *citation needed
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    Jul 18, 2012 3:25 PM GMT
    You're obviously making this up icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 18, 2012 3:38 PM GMT
    'Cus it hurts. Duh.
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    Jul 18, 2012 3:40 PM GMT
    Isn't the butt the same place that poo comes out of? Seems to me ou are asking for trouble.
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    Jul 18, 2012 3:44 PM GMT
    Omg, have you ever experimented with sex? There is so much more than just plugging a man's ass to good sex, and making love. A man's body is a landscape of beauty, mystery and places to experience the most intimate moments... the ass is fine, but this is far from the best anyone is missing!
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    Jul 18, 2012 3:47 PM GMT
    I love doing that with my man. I know all gay couples don't but I feel they are denying themselves something really really awesome.
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    Jul 18, 2012 4:03 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidIsn't the butt the same place that poo comes out of? Seems to me ou are asking for trouble.


    But dem gays like to eat da poo poo.
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    Jul 18, 2012 4:09 PM GMT
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    smartmoney saidIsn't the butt the same place that poo comes out of? Seems to me ou are asking for trouble.


    But dem gays like to eat da poo poo.


    OK that made me laugh. I've had that thought before going down on my partner. No matter how well he cleans or rinses, there's always gonna be some microscopic poop molecules still hanging around down there.

    Then I mentally shrug and eat his ass like a cannibal.
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    Jul 18, 2012 4:40 PM GMT
    I am very much an ass man so I enjoy everything about it. Proper douching and washing are a given whatever area youre playing in, ladies.... I don't know that everyone is built to get the most out of bottoming. I think everyone's physiology is different enough that there isn't always enough pleasure nerves around the prostate to make taking another man inside an overwhelmingly pleasurable experience.
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    Jul 18, 2012 4:53 PM GMT
    Daas said
    endo said
    smartmoney saidIsn't the butt the same place that poo comes out of? Seems to me ou are asking for trouble.


    But dem gays like to eat da poo poo.


    OK that made me laugh. I've had that thought before going down on my partner. No matter how well he cleans or rinses, there's always gonna be some microscopic poop molecules still hanging around down there.

    Then I mentally shrug and eat his ass like a cannibal.


    now we have 3 things in common
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    Jul 18, 2012 4:55 PM GMT
    i suspect that the activities in porn for straight people also wouldn't match the actual couple stats. because alot of other things that can be the main event in real life just seem like foreplay in video...because.....people think of sex as about procreation....so the fuck of some type must be present or people feel like they didn't get their full package
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    Jul 18, 2012 7:57 PM GMT
    For those who have been asking for citation, here you go icon_rolleyes.gif

    http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/not-all-gay-men-have-anal-sex

    http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/10/111018155226.htm

    (same study as above): http://www.wisconsingazette.com/breaking-news/study-anal-sex-least-common-love-making-activity-among-gay-men.html

    http://www.good.is/post/gay-sex-is-not-anal-sex/

    Even wikipedia knows that anal sex isn't popular among gay men icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 18, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    The studies you cited reported sexual activity by gay men "during their most recent sexual event."

    That doesn't mean that fewer than 50% of gay men practice anal sex. It means that anal is not what we do every time we have sex. Which shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone.
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    Jul 18, 2012 8:53 PM GMT
    hhmm. i dont know about those stats. i dont personally know of any gay men who absolutely dont do anal. i know a few who prefer other things but the odds of 50% i think are slim. prob just a headline study
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    Jul 18, 2012 9:20 PM GMT
    What? Most gay guys I know do anal?...

    Not having anal sex in someone's most recent encounter doesn't mean that they do not participate in it at all.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 18, 2012 11:15 PM GMT
    I know straight men that do anal