Tops are gross?

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    Jul 18, 2012 7:54 PM GMT
    so i am a bottom. i have never topped and for some reason dont particularly want to. but i would if my partner really wanted me to, and i dont find it wrong or gross in any way.

    however a friend of mine told me that he thinks topping is disgusting!! and he could NEVER do it!! i thought this was wierd and unusual but he says alot of his friends agree.

    personally i find this a little unbelievable, i have never run into anyone who had a problem with me bottoming, even guys who usually dont top icon_biggrin.gif

    what do you guys think? surely you dont think its gross right?
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    Jul 18, 2012 11:45 PM GMT
    Please tell me your'e taliking about your straight friends??!!.. I'm trying to process the logic or psychology behind this !.. There are only a hand full of gay couples that don't involve penitration in their sexual routines...So if your'e telling me there are bottoms that love getting topped..but think its "disgusting"..it sounds a litttle off to me..
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    Jul 19, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidPlease tell me your'e taliking about your straight friends??!!.. I'm trying to process the logic or psychology behind this !.. There are only a hand full of gay couples that don't involve penitration in their sexual routines...So if your'e telling me there are bottoms that love getting topped..but think its "disgusting"..it sounds a litttle off to me..


    no gay friends! this is what amazed me, he was saying something that he does and enjoys but thinks is gross to do. wierd, i didnt think anyone would agree. but then i have never asked anyone else icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 12:14 AM GMT
    I just think if your'e a bottom..and it takes a top to please you..you shlould at least be grateful..At times gay men can be strange superficial creatures..icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 12:20 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidI just think if your'e a bottom..and it takes a top to please you..you shlould at least be grateful..At times gay men can be strange superficial creatures..icon_neutral.gif

    ^^^^^^
    agreed. i wish i was more "vers" but its bottom for me lol
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    Jul 19, 2012 1:04 AM GMT
    I'm mostly on the top side of things..but once in a while i have to get "Man handled"..just to knock me back to humility...Versitile sex is more fun ! (in my opinion).either that or i'm getting older and choosing my partners more wisely!
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    Jul 19, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
    I suspect there's something scatological going on in the minds of these gay guys who find topping to be disgusting. A lot of us have hang-ups regarding the anus and excrement. I used to have these hang-ups especially in the beginning when my then boyfriend knew nothing about douching. He even told me I was wasting my time thinking about wearing a condom for, he thought, none would fit me ( and I'm not bragging). If the bottom preps properly, that issue should not arise. Otherwise, I don't get the problem. How can you be OK with bottoming yet find topping disgusting or gross? Believe me for guys who love azz, topping is not an issue - as long as the bottom is "considerate". How can you have one without the other? Ying-Yang!! Is that why there seems to be so many more bottoms out there than tops?