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Listen Gay's!

if you can change one thing about yourself what would it be? For me, it would be my big ass!

So....you want the white picket fence, with your man coming home to your freshly baked cookies every day....and you're attracting douche-bags for some reason.

So you are having a similar problem with various guys? The common factor in all that is you. So you need to do some introspection as to what you are doing and/or saying that attracts these types. As the problem most likely lies with you in this case.

I think I can tell whats going on or at least from my perspective since maybe we're two of a kind:

You want that white picket, happy with kids a dog, a cat, house, (ironically) American dream type thing with a guy. Perhaps the problem is that you want it too much that you come off clingly. If you're like me, a guy is nice to you for five minutes and then you already think you're going to marry him. Perhaps not consciously but you get that good feeling that maybe you found this great guy and your going to have so much fun together doing couple stuff and you get the point.

It smells of desperation unfortunately which turns guys into douchebags. I do it with every guy whose nice to me. I can't ever seem to learn my lesson.

And to answer your question, if marriage was just based on looks (since I don't know you) then the answer is yes.

TellMeMoar saidSo you are having a similar problem with various guys? The common factor in all that is you. So you need to do some introspection as to what you are doing and/or saying that attracts these types. As the problem most likely lies with you in this case.

So true sexy!!

TellMeMoar saidSo you are having a similar problem with various guys? The common factor in all that is you. So you need to do some introspection as to what you are doing and/or saying that attracts these types. As the problem most likely lies with you in this case.

^^^^^^^^^^^^
THIS

jemaime saidListen Gay's!

if you can change one thing about yourself what would it be? For me, it would be my big ass!

Stop doing ducklips and you'll look like less of a dildo.

OP changed the original post from what it was (which was pretty harmless: a question about how to not attract the wrong guys).

LAME, OP, LAME.