What happens when you receive a compliment?

  • Phoebuz

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    Jul 19, 2012 12:20 AM GMT
    Hello guys,

    This is my first post here at RealJock and I wanted to ask you guys a question.

    When you receive an online message (for example here at RealJock or Grindr or whatever other online cruising site) and the sender compliments you about a physical feature, lets say the send says "You got such a wonderful hair" or "you got cute eyes", or "Your smile could melt someone", what do you think about that person?

    Does receiving a compliment from a random someone makes you not like that person or think he is maybe desperate or something?
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    Jul 19, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
    Phoebuz saidHello guys,

    This is my first post here at RealJock and I wanted to ask you guys a question.

    When you receive an online message (for example here at RealJock or Grindr or whatever other online cruising site) and the sender compliments you about a physical feature, lets say the send says "You got such a wonderful hair" or "you got cute eyes", or "Your smile could melt someone", what do you think about that person?

    Does receiving a compliment from a random someone makes you not like that person or think he is maybe desperate or something?


    Hey, welcome to RJ! I'm flattered, but get shy about compliments in general.
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    Jul 19, 2012 12:29 AM GMT
    i dont really think its desperate unless its like "i wanna be in you" or something like that. but these things get to you if you overthink it. i think its nice if someone tells me im good looking, but i am no less or more likely to chat to someone based on what they think of my appearance.
    nothing wrong with an ego massage every now and then icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 12:33 AM GMT
    Phoebuz saidHello guys,

    what do you think about that person?


    I think they're a nice person giving a compliment and I just say thanks icon_smile.gif

    Does receiving a compliment from a random someone makes you not like that person or think he is maybe desperate or something?

    No, I just think of it as me catching their eye and them letting me know it. Just consider it a nice gesture. At least they're saying something nice about you than negative icon_smile.gif I wouldn't read too far into it as being more than what it is, a compliment.


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    Jul 19, 2012 12:53 AM GMT
    Say thank you and find something nice to say about the other person. That should be enough for common courtesy.
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    Jul 19, 2012 1:12 AM GMT
    I pop a woody and get the keyboard sticky.
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    Jul 19, 2012 1:17 AM GMT
    It's a random compliment; an opportunity to get to know someone new. icon_wink.gif

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    Jul 19, 2012 1:21 AM GMT
    Phe..You have great abs !icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 1:39 AM GMT
    If it's just a random compliment, I take it that way. Someone who is desperate does a lot more than give a single compliment. They come on strong and relentlessly.

    If I give a compliment, it's only meant to be something nice that might bring cheer the recipient. I'm not expecting anything in return. It certainly doesn't mean that I want to date or sleep with the guy. It makes me feel good to say something nice about someone else, so I do get something good out of it too.
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    Jul 19, 2012 1:53 AM GMT
    I twerk.
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    Jul 19, 2012 1:57 AM GMT
    Anduru saidI twerk.
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    Compliments are always great to receive if its sincere. Just avoid those hidden profiles who send you emails with no subject line. I just deleted one like that today.
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:04 AM GMT
    BlackCat90 said
    Phoebuz saidHello guys,

    what do you think about that person?


    I think they're a nice person giving a compliment and I just say thanks icon_smile.gif

    Does receiving a compliment from a random someone makes you not like that person or think he is maybe desperate or something?

    No, I just think of it as me catching their eye and them letting me know it. Just consider it a nice gesture. At least they're saying something nice about you than negative icon_smile.gif I wouldn't read too far into it as being more than what it is, a compliment.





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    Jul 19, 2012 2:06 AM GMT
    I think it's really nice and I always write back to thank them (unless it's something creepy).
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:20 AM GMT
    I send them my n00dz
  • TrentGrad

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    Jul 19, 2012 2:20 AM GMT
    I'll let you know when it happens. ;) LOL
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:30 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI pop a woody and get the keyboard sticky.


    And just how big of a mound is plastered on top of the keyboard? It's a wonder you can type at all.
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:33 AM GMT
    in_this_corner said
    paulflexes saidI pop a woody and get the keyboard sticky.


    And just how big of a mound is plastered on top of the keyboard? It's a wonder you can type at all.
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    in_this_corner said
    paulflexes saidI pop a woody and get the keyboard sticky.


    And just how big of a mound is plastered on top of the keyboard? It's a wonder you can type at all.
    1898120-tpu_keyboard_protector_683.jpg


    A seasoned vet...this ain't your first rodeo. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:52 AM GMT
    I get angry and punch them out.
  • disasterpiece

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    Jul 19, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Everytime I receive a compliment I shit a turquoise butterfly.
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Claystation saidI send them my n00dz
    That reminds me! Time to get naked!
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:54 AM GMT
    JR_RJ said
    Claystation saidI send them my n00dz
    That reminds me! Time to get naked!
    Yer late.. been that way for hours.
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:54 AM GMT
    JR_RJ said
    Claystation saidI send them my n00dz
    That reminds me! Time to get naked!
    Pics or it didn't happen.
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:58 AM GMT
    It all depends. When someone says you're hot or sexy it's like whatever; they could be saying that to anyone. When they say something specific about you that they put a little more effort into. Then yes, it's nice to hear compliments.