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Has a guy that you cared about ever reduced you to tears and why?
Whether bad breakup or just something mean or cheating.

FUCK


NO

TheBizMan saidFUCK


NO

(that's telling)

I cried a couple of times
1 died
another put a love spell on me ... but I broke it

No.

I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

Yep. And thats all I am gonna say.

Sure did. A few times, and a few boys.

Yeah... It was pathetic, in a melodramatic way lol.

To make a long story short, I met this boy 3 weeks before going back to my hometown (which was 3 500 miles away). We were both totally conscious that it was a relationship with an expiration date, but still...

When I left his appartment for the airport, it was raining outside. I smiled to him and as soon as the elevator doors closed, I sighed very deeply and tears started running through my cheeks.

I tried to keep it inside, but the moment I was outside, under the rain, walking away, I was literraly crying out loud like a huuuge baby.

Good times !

Crying is for sissy. A real man seeks revenge.

ConfederateGhost saidCrying is for sissy. A real man seeks revenge.

Yeha, but what about when there's nothing to venge ?

Yes, but I was being foolish.

Come see me and trust me, I will find something for you to venge.

Disasterpiece said

ConfederateGhost saidCrying is for sissy. A real man seeks revenge.

Yeha, but what about when there's nothing to venge ?

Oops, just looked the topic post.
Why, eh?
Well..

I had a small cry just yesterday, after reading a post by a fellow who explained his lover died suddenly after 8 short years together.

Before Bill:

I cried when I had to send a man away years ago, because he couldn't help himself (wouldn't work, liked his drugs, mooched off of everyone) and he liked on again off again relationships.

I cried when men I greatly admired and carried crushes for died horribly of the Great Plague.

I cried when some men fell deeply and madly for me and I felt nothing other than friendship, and I felt the resultant hurt I caused by being unable to reciprocate.
I cried when the man I loved so much in the late 70s turned out to be an excellent and polished liar.

OK, whew! That's enough.

Once, unfortunately.

yup

meninlove said
Oops, just looked the topic post.
Why, eh?
Well..

I had a small cry just yesterday, after reading a post by a fellow who explained his lover died suddenly after 8 short years together.

Before Bill:

I cried when I had to send a man away years ago, because he couldn't help himself (wouldn't work, liked his drugs, mooched off of everyone) and he liked on again off again relationships.

I cried when men I greatly admired and carried crushes for died horribly of the Great Plague.

I cried when some men fell deeply and madly for me and I felt nothing other than friendship, and I felt the resultant hurt I caused by being unable to reciprocate.
I cried when the man I loved so much in the late 70s turned out to be an excellent and polished liar.

OK, whew! That's enough.

Anocxu: *****Fills his tub with water..reaches for a razor blade******

ConfederateGhost saidCome see me and trust me, I will find something for you to venge.

Disasterpiece said

ConfederateGhost saidCrying is for sissy. A real man seeks revenge.

Yeha, but what about when there's nothing to venge ?

"Anocxu: *****Fills his tub with water..reaches for a razor blade******"

Whatever for?

intrigued,

-Doug

Yes.

I cried too much in the 80s. I don't have any tears left.

yes.
It kinda exploded out of me half way through airport security. I had to get my stuff, go back to the unsecured part of the airport and get everything under controll in the bathroom. I didn't even care how humiliating the situation appeared to be. After I regained my composure, I made it through security without any problems. again.
I think crying can be a great way to express great loss. I've always found it very cathartic. It allows me to get all the strong emotions out, and then once the tears stop, I feel much more level headed and prepared to make un-emotional decisions, which is pretty helpful since there are probably some things that need to be decided concerning the reason I was brought to tears in the first place!

Never cried tears, but been pretty emotional and depressed over a couple.

Yep. I thought that I had loved him (I didn't). I was just sad that he left and I had no one to be close with.

DudeInNOVA saidNo.

I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

It can really go either way. Sometimes the guys aren't worth crying over, or you might have not been that into him.

sure