Jocks for twinks?

  • sk2010

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    Jul 19, 2012 8:18 AM GMT
    why is it so hard for me to find a masc jock that is attracted to me! lol
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    Jul 19, 2012 1:19 PM GMT
    There are guys out there that will be your type and will be attracted to you. There are so many different likes and dislikes in the gay world, there is someone for every type.

    Allow me to be shallow for a minute because unfortunately many people are that way. If you find that "jocks" aren't attracted to you, why don't you start working out? The more I workout, the more attention I get. Pretty plain and simple. But only do it if that is what you want to be
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    Jul 19, 2012 1:21 PM GMT
    who knows. I don't get attention from anyone, no matter how much I work out. And then I think, maybe it's cause I'm a redhead, maybe it's cause i'm poz, maybe im too tall, maybe im too old. It could just be your confidence. That plays a big part. How you carry yourself. I could probably benefit from my own advice icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:09 PM GMT
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:13 PM GMT
    Find someone who's into you and buy him a gym membership icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:16 PM GMT
    ohboy saidFind someone who's into you and buy him a gym membership icon_biggrin.gif


    Until he realizes how muscular he's become and drops the OP for someone more on his level.
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:30 PM GMT
    Stuttershock said
    ohboy saidFind someone who's into you and buy him a gym membership icon_biggrin.gif


    Until he realizes how muscular he's become and drops the OP for someone more on his level.


    You guys are brutal lol
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:35 PM GMT
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  • calibro

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    Jul 19, 2012 2:44 PM GMT
    because your profile is blank
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    Cus most twinks act like girls.
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    Jul 19, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    Because definitions of "twinks" - and "jocks" - vary.
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    Jul 19, 2012 3:13 PM GMT
    Alpha13 saidCus most twinks act like girls.


    agreed!

    it is stereotyping a fair bit but, i am masculine guy, i like masculine men. im sure it varies but i put in so much effort in the gym and with my diet, and all that good stuff. i kind of think my partner should too. plus a big strong beefy guy is always a turn on icon_smile.gif

    its just a case of meeting your type, go to clubs where the masc guys hang out, all that kind of stuff.

    alternatively,

    SQUAT TILL YOU PUKE MOTHERFVCKER!!!!!
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    Jul 19, 2012 3:16 PM GMT
    running11 said
    Stuttershock said
    ohboy saidFind someone who's into you and buy him a gym membership icon_biggrin.gif


    Until he realizes how muscular he's become and drops the OP for someone more on his level.


    You guys are brutal lol


    I'm sure they'll grow toward each other by the time one gets all mascular and stuff
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    Jul 19, 2012 3:29 PM GMT
    LIEV saidtumblr_m79ii2wjrW1r7fqob.gif


    icon_lol.gif Nice

    but i agree with jackrabbit108..
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    Jul 19, 2012 3:46 PM GMT
    Alpha13 saidCus most twinks act like girls.

    This^^

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    And this ^^
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    Jul 19, 2012 3:55 PM GMT
    Everyone is different, people have different likes and dislikes. You will find one eventually lol. Some bigger guys want guys smaller than them, as in less muscle mass..
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    are you sure that's the issue and not something else?....
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    Jul 19, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    lucky_sevn said
    Alpha13 saidCus most twinks act like girls.


    agreed!

    it is stereotyping a fair bit but, i am masculine guy, i like masculine men. im sure it varies but i put in so much effort in the gym and with my diet, and all that good stuff. i kind of think my partner should too. plus a big strong beefy guy is always a turn on icon_smile.gif

    its just a case of meeting your type, go to clubs where the masc guys hang out, all that kind of stuff.

    alternatively,

    SQUAT TILL YOU PUKE MOTHERFVCKER!!!!!


    Good advice.
    I get a lot of daddies though...
  • sk2010

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    Jul 19, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    hahaha, this was entertaining to read. well im a twink, and i definitely do not act like a girl. not that theres anything wrong with that. i think i just need to put myself out there more. guess i'm just still learning the ropes of this dating thing. barely came out so i'm still in that odd state of limbo i suppose. i don't know if that makes sense
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    Jul 19, 2012 7:27 PM GMT
    I think it's just that everyone is attracted to something different. I was at my gym and there was a very tall very built handsome rugged guy working out with his "friend" who was a very frail, thin, small, effeminate young guy. He was so effeminate that I was sort of embarrassed to get undressed in front of him. I know that's wrong but that's how I felt at the time. So--different strokes, as they say.
  • TroyAthlete

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    Jul 19, 2012 7:30 PM GMT
    sk2010 saidhahaha, this was entertaining to read. well im a twink, and i definitely do not act like a girl. not that theres anything wrong with that. i think i just need to put myself out there more. guess i'm just still learning the ropes of this dating thing. barely came out so i'm still in that odd state of limbo i suppose. i don't know if that makes sense


    You need to become a jock if you want to date jocks. Gay gays tend to date guys who are like them. Masc jocks tend to be attracted to masc jocks. If you don't hold yourself to your own standards of attractiveness, you're going to find gay dating very, very cruel.
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    Jul 19, 2012 7:34 PM GMT
    Aress said
    lucky_sevn said
    Alpha13 saidCus most twinks act like girls.


    agreed!

    it is stereotyping a fair bit but, i am masculine guy, i like masculine men. im sure it varies but i put in so much effort in the gym and with my diet, and all that good stuff. i kind of think my partner should too. plus a big strong beefy guy is always a turn on icon_smile.gif

    its just a case of meeting your type, go to clubs where the masc guys hang out, all that kind of stuff.

    alternatively,

    SQUAT TILL YOU PUKE MOTHERFVCKER!!!!!


    Good advice.
    I get a lot of daddies though...


    hhmm jealous icon_evil.gif
    i never do/did or rarely anyway. they all either think im straight or, i get countless "twinks" trying to get me to top them. it sucks i am a bottom, as in only a bottom i dont want to top anyone, migt do but havent yet. I NEED A TOP DAMNIT TOOOOOOOOOP!!! big manly, strong, hung dominant top. but im too masc for it apparently *rant....

    anyway im happy now so thats what counts lol.

    and to the OP thats like my problem too
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    Jul 19, 2012 7:35 PM GMT
    Maybe cuz you are that shallow? Have you considered guys that you like rather than just guys you like the look of?
    Also "attracted to me" makes it sound like you want him to make the first move. Sweep you off your feet and treat you like a princess. Not likely to happen.
  • sk2010

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    Jul 19, 2012 7:40 PM GMT
    TroyAthlete said
    sk2010 saidhahaha, this was entertaining to read. well im a twink, and i definitely do not act like a girl. not that theres anything wrong with that. i think i just need to put myself out there more. guess i'm just still learning the ropes of this dating thing. barely came out so i'm still in that odd state of limbo i suppose. i don't know if that makes sense


    You need to become a jock if you want to date jocks. Gay gays tend to date guys who are like them. Masc jocks tend to be attracted to masc jocks. If you don't hold yourself to your own standards of attractiveness, you're going to find gay dating very, very cruel.


    na, i don't really want to be a jock. i've started working out again, but my goal isnt to get large like a muscle dude, just toned. i think i was just venting a momentary sense of frustration. but i get what you are saying.
  • sk2010

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    Jul 19, 2012 7:44 PM GMT
    grofte saidMaybe cuz you are that shallow? Have you considered guys that you like rather than just guys you like the look of?
    Also "attracted to me" makes it sound like you want him to make the first move. Sweep you off your feet and treat you like a princess. Not likely to happen.


    hahaha, i don't consider myself shallow, but i do have my preferences. i could see how that could sound like i want someone to "sweep me off my feet" (lol) but i really don't. i don't need a white knight to to save me. haha. i think i've just been frustrated due to my current, for lack of a better term, relationship status.