What is it with GAY MEN and THEIR narcissism!

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    Jul 19, 2012 3:47 PM GMT
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqKL3TlOzJ0&feature=plcp

    Is this a fucking joke? A video about yourself walking on the beach? Are all gays this pathetically narcissistic and vain????

    This is amusingly SAD.
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    Jul 19, 2012 3:53 PM GMT
    I don't get it ... where do you see any where that, that guy is gay ... and this is the internet age, so it just looks like a little self-promotion video for a dating site ... nothing wrong with that ... and trust me, I've see more narcissistic straight men, than gay men
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    Jul 19, 2012 3:56 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidI don't get it ... where do you see any where that, that guy is gay ... and this is the internet age, so it just looks like a little self-promotion video for a dating site ... nothing wrong with that ... and trust me, I've see more narcissistic straight men, than gay men


    Came off a gay profile, so he is gay and aparently married to his partner and just looking for friends.

    Narcissism to the MAX. Hey guys I am married , respect that. Here is a video of me parading around in my underwear, but respect the fact I am married.

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    Jul 19, 2012 3:58 PM GMT
    Isn't this what we discover about the vast majority of all mankind when we allow anyone and everyone with a video camera to post anything and everything they want on YouTube? We get to see how stupid and shallow we all are, how uncreative and boring the vast majority of people really are. Prior to cell phones and public phone conversations, we had no idea how stupid and vacuous most peoples phone conversations were, but those days are long gone.
    No, this new world is a joyous place. There is little mystery left. If you walk around in public or view most videos created by most people, you will find that many many people have been raised to believe they are a lot more interesting than they really are.
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:04 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidIsn't this what we discover about the vast majority of all mankind when we allow anyone and everyone with a video camera to post anything and everything they want on YouTube? We get to see how stupid and shallow we all are, how uncreative and boring the vast majority of people really are. Prior to cell phones and public phone conversations, we had no idea how stupid and vacuous most peoples phone conversations were, but those days are long gone.
    No, this new world is a joyous place. There is little mystery left. If you walk around in public or view most videos created by most people, you will find that many many people have been raised to believe they are a lot more interesting than they really are.


    Bingo. If this is suppose to be a turn on, then I don't want to live on this planet anymore.

    The hottest guys are the ones who know they are hot, work hard at themselves, feel NO NEED to flaunt it , DON'T, and treat everyone with respect. They flaunt their hobbies and interests and talent, not their bodies, their looks and their sexual desires.

    Thats what is hot to me. Getting to know someone, and finding commonalities because lets face it, beauty really is skin deep. Once thats done, then what?

    This video was such a huge turn off, its not even funny.
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:06 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidPrior to cell phones and public phone conversations, we had no idea how stupid and vacuous most peoples phone conversations were...

    I've often said "Twenty-five years in Manhattan and I've yet to hear a cell phone conversation worth eavesdropping on."
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:11 PM GMT
    I have observed that a high/low ego with little to no Self-Worth is particularly prevalent in gay men (myself being a prime example). If we have no Self-Worth we are more or less forced to live within our egos. A high ego is arrogance and pride. A low ego is arrogant self-criticism and self-pity. Ultimately both being based upon self-centered fear.

    Not that it doesn't happen in heterosexuals, but homosexuals don't necessarily have similar psychosocial stages as their counterparts (Erikson). We either grow or we become stagnant.

    These are hallmarks in human development, and if one stage is corrupt the next will be corrupt and so forth.

    Remember, humility is seeing one's defects or fears and loving them, nothing more and nothing less. That's where the ego is not.



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    Jul 19, 2012 4:13 PM GMT
    deltalimen saidI have observed that a high/low ego with little to no Self-Worth is particularly prevalent in gay men (myself being a prime example). If we have no Self-Worth we are more or less forced to live within our egos. A high ego is arrogance and pride. A low ego is arrogant self-criticism and self-pity. Ultimately both being based upon self-centered fear.

    Not that it doesn't happen in heterosexuals, but homosexuals don't necessarily have similar psychosocial stages as their counterparts (Erikson). We either grow or we become stagnant.

    These are hallmarks in human development, and if one stage is corrupt the next will be corrupt and so forth.

    Remember, humility is seeing one's defects or fears and loving them, nothing more and nothing less. That's where the ego is not.





    Very well said, however, this really makes it bleak for finding a suitable mate. That being said, thankfully, the world is overpopulated and somewhere, someone for me exists!
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:15 PM GMT
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    deltalimen saidI have observed that a high/low ego with little to no Self-Worth is particularly prevalent in gay men (myself being a prime example). If we have no Self-Worth we are more or less forced to live within our egos. A high ego is arrogance and pride. A low ego is arrogant self-criticism and self-pity. Ultimately both being based upon self-centered fear.

    Not that it doesn't happen in heterosexuals, but homosexuals don't necessarily have similar psychosocial stages as their counterparts (Erikson). We either grow or we become stagnant.

    These are hallmarks in human development, and if one stage is corrupt the next will be corrupt and so forth.

    Remember, humility is seeing one's defects or fears and loving them, nothing more and nothing less. That's where the ego is not.





    Very well said, however, this really makes it bleak for finding a suitable mate. That being said, thankfully, the world is overpopulated and somewhere, someone for me exists!


    Pain is our greatest teacher. Find someone who's made it through lots of pain.
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:16 PM GMT
    deltalimen said a high/low ego ... A high ego is arrogance and pride. A low ego is arrogant self-criticism and self-pity. Ultimately both being based upon self-centered fear.


    Hmmm, that dichotomy does sound like a not insignificant number of guys on this site.
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:16 PM GMT
    He looks bored, lonely, disillusioned and like he's trying to make the best of his situation using youtube... beats sitting around miserable all day hating, I tell you what. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    I thought the video was kind of cute.
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:23 PM GMT
    Daas saidI thought the video was kind of cute.


    You're kidding right? We are not talking about the guy's looks, we are talking about the pathetic showing off like he has something to prove.
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:24 PM GMT
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    Daas saidI thought the video was kind of cute.


    You're kidding right? We are not talking about the guy's looks, we are talking about the pathetic showing off like he has something to prove.


    Not to mention he sent me cock pics... hmmm.... PATHETIC
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:26 PM GMT
    Derp said
    Derp said
    Daas saidI thought the video was kind of cute.


    You're kidding right? We are not talking about the guy's looks, we are talking about the pathetic showing off like he has something to prove.


    Not to mention he sent me cock pics... hmmm.... PATHETIC


    Yeah, he's an attention whore, and the amount of work that went into that was... telling. But if that's who he is then he should own it. If what you are is someone who gets off on attention then, go for it I guess.
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:27 PM GMT
    i like it when people own it....

    my facebook art page has an album called

    "gallery of narcissism"

    https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.157136510975396.31261.155493221139725&type=3

    i photograph lots of other things, but self-photos go there.

    it's kinda like haiku....what you can do with an image you take yourself...so you can only get so much in frame.

    but vanilla narcissism is dull
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    be kind .... you may be his age some day too ... we are all born with different personalities and everyone lives in a different mental state ... it is just being hateful when you condem people for being different and they are not harming anyone ... really, are you that fragile that you were harmed by his video and his pics ... after all it seem you likely received his email off of some adult gay dating site or something... to each their own ... no need to me mean and hateful about it ... just delete his email and ignore him
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:50 PM GMT
    It's because of Vogue dancing.

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    Jul 19, 2012 4:54 PM GMT
    Daas saidYeah, he's an attention whore, and the amount of work that went into that was... telling. But if that's who he is then he should own it. If what you are is someone who gets off on attention then, go for it I guess.
    The opposite of attention whore is attention robbing whores... what xtians deem Grace Robbers, better known as the Peanut Gallery. Oddly enough, the Robbers want direct attention too... just not for doing it the typical way. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:55 PM GMT
    Girl, what did you say? Sorry, I was looking at my reflection in a spoon.
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:57 PM GMT
    I really enjoyed the production values!

    He's practically a wallflower compared to this tard (and yes, he's an RJ member):


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    Jul 19, 2012 4:59 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidbe kind .... you may be his age some day too ... we are all born with different personalities and everyone lives in a different mental state ... it is just being hateful when you condem people for being different and they are not harming anyone ... really, are you that fragile that you were harmed by his video and his pics ... after all it seem you likely received his email off of some adult gay dating site or something... to each their own ... no need to me mean and hateful about it ... just delete his email and ignore him


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    Jul 19, 2012 5:00 PM GMT
    Have you seen the top forum threads on Real Jock? Most are pure vanity and nothing more. The others have little to do with fitness or health. LOL
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    Jul 19, 2012 5:00 PM GMT
    Derp saidhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqKL3TlOzJ0&feature=plcp

    Is this a fucking joke? A video about yourself walking on the beach? Are all gays this pathetically narcissistic and vain????

    This is amusingly SAD.


    The video is cheesy, but the OP is being overly dramatic. "Are all gays this pathetically narcissistic and vain????" Are you??? there's your answer!
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    Jul 19, 2012 5:01 PM GMT
    endo saidI really enjoyed the production values!

    He's practically a wallflower compared to this tard (and yes, he's an RJ member):




    that kinda reminds me of MadTV