Would you hook up with your best friend?

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    Jul 21, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    If it goes bad, you know it might ruin a good friendship. But.. on the other hand if it goes good you might have found your soul mate. Would u take that risk?
  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 21, 2012 3:00 AM GMT
    My best friend is like a brother to me. And that'd be incest. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:01 AM GMT
    I did three porn flicks with my best friend. We still talk regularly on the phone (he lives far away with his wife and two kids).

    To answer the OP, yes.
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:05 AM GMT
    No. If my best friend was someone I wanted to have sex with, he'd be my boyfriend.
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:21 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidNo. If my best friend was someone I wanted to have sex with, he'd be my boyfriend.
    Some things are better left alone.
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:39 AM GMT
    Lima3016 saidIf it goes bad, you know it might ruin a good friendship. But.. on the other hand if it goes good you might have found your soul mate. Would u take that risk?


    I was soooo tempted to once. It's strange, I never knew how sexy my best friend was until I actually "LOOKED" at him...when I really "looked", I would look at him with gazing eyes and the sexual tension would be through the roof. So I kinda got butterflies around him but I knew it wasn't a smart idea...so I said nah
  • easterndude69

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    Jul 21, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    No, I'm not attracted to my best friend. Still, he is a good friend, I just would never imagine doing anything sexual with him.
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    I never really thought about that. He's cool and crazy but i don't look at him like that
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:53 AM GMT
    No.
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    BlackCat90 said
    Lima3016 saidIf it goes bad, you know it might ruin a good friendship. But.. on the other hand if it goes good you might have found your soul mate. Would u take that risk?


    I was soooo tempted to once. It's strange, I never knew how sexy my best friend was until I actually "LOOKED" at him...when I really "looked", I would look at him with gazing eyes and the sexual tension would be through the roof. So I kinda got butterflies around him but I knew it wasn't a smart idea...so I said nah
    Smart move, it would never be the same.
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:59 AM GMT
    No omg. What is with people thinking sex overrides friendship. Only in those who were never really honest to begin with would fall for such a carnal pleasure over an almost guaranteed everlasting friendship.
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    Jul 21, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    Seeing that my best friend is a girl...probably not. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 21, 2012 4:03 AM GMT
    workitout saidNo omg. What is with people thinking sex overrides friendship. Only in those who were never really honest to begin with would fall for such a carnal pleasure over an almost guaranteed everlasting friendship.
    Sex isnt everything, i do agree.
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    Jul 21, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    Those I considered to be my best friends in life were the ones I thought I'd be partnered with for life.
  • Karl

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    Jul 21, 2012 4:56 AM GMT
    my best friend is a girl icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 21, 2012 4:57 AM GMT
    ya no my best friend is a girl... not gonna happen
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    Jul 21, 2012 5:06 AM GMT
    Would never take that risk..ever..!!
  • Jerebear

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    Jul 21, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    I've been with two of my best friends.

    With the first one there wasnt any weirdness after, and it became something we did every time we were around each other. We grew apart over time though and saw less of each other, and the sex stopped. We are still on good terms, but no longer close friends.

    The second one was like 5 years after that. It happened a year into our friendship. There was always this weird sexual tension even though we both knew we were completely wrong for each other, and I think we both knew it would happen eventually. It only happened once and it affected the friendship negatively at first. We didnt see much of each other for a few months, but when we started hanging out again, our friendship was much stronger because we had gotten all of that tension out of the way, and we could be open and honest with each other instead of constantly playing a crazy game of is-he-does-he-will-he-should-i-what-if.

    We're like brothers now, he's truly a friend for life.
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    Jul 21, 2012 5:28 AM GMT
    I'd cuddle with a best friend. But nothing sexual. Like no kissing, getting hard or feeling. Just hugging and holding for comfort.
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    Jul 21, 2012 5:31 AM GMT
    Seeing as my best friend is my partner.. yes. I would definitely hook up with my best friend. Repeatedly, until he bleeds from his ass.
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    Jul 21, 2012 5:31 AM GMT
    Jerebear saidI've been with two of my best friends.

    With the first one there wasnt any weirdness after, and it became something we did every time we were around each other. We grew apart over time though and saw less of each other, and the sex stopped. We are still on good terms, but no longer close friends.

    The second one was like 5 years after that. It happened a year into our friendship. There was always this weird sexual tension even though we both knew we were completely wrong for each other, and I think we both knew it would happen eventually. It only happened once and it affected the friendship negatively at first. We didnt see much of each other for a few months, but when we started hanging out again, our friendship was much stronger because we had gotten all of that tension out of the way, and we could be open and honest with each other instead of constantly playing a crazy game of is-he-does-he-will-he-should-i-what-if.

    We're like brothers now, he's truly a friend for life.


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    Jul 21, 2012 5:32 AM GMT
    My friends are all straight dudes so no
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:30 AM GMT
    guyathome74 saidI'd cuddle with a best friend. But nothing sexual. Like no kissing, getting hard or feeling. Just hugging and holding for comfort.


    HA! Did that with my friend who is straight but lives in Korea. I'm not sure but I don't think it's weird to cuddle with another guy in Korean culture because we sure did and that's when thoughts started running through my mind. He's like 6'0 and very athletically built with some of the best, smoothest legs I've ever seen. It was a cold rainy day so we spooned on the couch (me being the little one) and my legs were in between his so my mind was going CRAZY! but I kept it together and to be honest, I have no idea how I did........Hell the whole thing was HIS idea icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 21, 2012 11:56 AM GMT
    I sleep with two of my best friends on a regular basis. Great friendships.
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    Jul 21, 2012 12:17 PM GMT
    My best friend is my flat mate n although we flirt like nothing else n yes there's some major sexual tension between us, we both decided that we wouldnt go there. We have even had guys ask us for threesomes but yeah we won't do that either.