Jul 21, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
If it goes bad, you know it might ruin a good friendship. But.. on the other hand if it goes good you might have found your soul mate. Would u take that risk?
DudeInNOVA saidNo. If my best friend was someone I wanted to have sex with, he'd be my boyfriend.Some things are better left alone.
Lima3016 saidIf it goes bad, you know it might ruin a good friendship. But.. on the other hand if it goes good you might have found your soul mate. Would u take that risk?
BlackCat90 saidSmart move, it would never be the same.Lima3016 saidIf it goes bad, you know it might ruin a good friendship. But.. on the other hand if it goes good you might have found your soul mate. Would u take that risk?
I was soooo tempted to once. It's strange, I never knew how sexy my best friend was until I actually "LOOKED" at him...when I really "looked", I would look at him with gazing eyes and the sexual tension would be through the roof. So I kinda got butterflies around him but I knew it wasn't a smart idea...so I said nah
workitout saidNo omg. What is with people thinking sex overrides friendship. Only in those who were never really honest to begin with would fall for such a carnal pleasure over an almost guaranteed everlasting friendship.Sex isnt everything, i do agree.
Jerebear saidI've been with two of my best friends.
With the first one there wasnt any weirdness after, and it became something we did every time we were around each other. We grew apart over time though and saw less of each other, and the sex stopped. We are still on good terms, but no longer close friends.
The second one was like 5 years after that. It happened a year into our friendship. There was always this weird sexual tension even though we both knew we were completely wrong for each other, and I think we both knew it would happen eventually. It only happened once and it affected the friendship negatively at first. We didnt see much of each other for a few months, but when we started hanging out again, our friendship was much stronger because we had gotten all of that tension out of the way, and we could be open and honest with each other instead of constantly playing a crazy game of is-he-does-he-will-he-should-i-what-if.
We're like brothers now, he's truly a friend for life.
guyathome74 saidI'd cuddle with a best friend. But nothing sexual. Like no kissing, getting hard or feeling. Just hugging and holding for comfort.