Would u take offense?

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    Jul 21, 2012 2:24 PM GMT
    If a guy buddy listed u on here instead of hot list. Not going to call any names on here. But i was ridiculed for that.
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    Jul 21, 2012 2:25 PM GMT
    Nope, I could care less if an internet buddy thinks I'm hot or not.
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    Jul 21, 2012 2:26 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidNope, I could care less if an internet buddy thinks I'm hot or not.


    This
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:18 PM GMT
    I dont 'hot ' list ANYONE here.. there isnt a need.
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    Jul 21, 2012 3:21 PM GMT
    If someone hotlists me, I take it as a compliment and thank the person. Personally I rarely hotlist anyone anymore.
  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 21, 2012 3:26 PM GMT
    People need to learn to chill out about most things. The things people get offended about on this site literally boggle my mind sometimes. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • jeepguySD

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    Jul 21, 2012 3:38 PM GMT
    I am not offended when someone adds me to his buddy list, but unless he and I have actually chatted and become "buddies" it does confuse me. It seems odd when I am buddy listed by guys who have never so much as said "hello" to me, much less taken the time to get to know me as a buddy.

    However, I suppose being buddy listed, or especially hot listed (which happens very rarely to me), is flattering, and I take it as a compliment.
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    Jul 21, 2012 5:17 PM GMT
    that's retarded.
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    Jul 21, 2012 5:17 PM GMT
    Bunjamon saidPeople need to learn to chill out about most things. The things people get offended about on this site literally boggle my mind sometimes. icon_rolleyes.gif
    Well said!
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    Jul 21, 2012 5:42 PM GMT
    I'm not allowed to Hot List or Buddy List anyone anymore - - going back over two years. My s.o. has a terrible temper and I don't want any more trouble or physical rows.

    Just kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:03 PM GMT
    Nope. Happy to get either!
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:06 PM GMT
    Either one is great
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 21, 2012 6:10 PM GMT
    I prefer well thought out photo comments and/or detailed love letters.

    j/k, either way is fine with me. (:
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:34 PM GMT
    lolwut?

    People are way too sensitive. Hot listing or buddy listing should be taken as a compliment, nothing more. I've been un-hot listed and un-buddy listed, and I still don't take offense. It's just a list. If you're really friends with someone, you know. You don't need a list to tell you.
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:34 PM GMT
    Not at all. In fact the buddy listing is a hell of a lot more flattering.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 21, 2012 6:41 PM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidlolwut?

    People are way too sensitive. Hot listing or buddy listing should be taken as a compliment, nothing more. I've been un-hot listed and un-buddy listed, and I still don't take offense. It's just a list. If you're really friends with someone, you know. You don't need a list to tell you.


    You've been un-hotlisted?
    Sheesh, I guess it's true that fans are fickle.
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:45 PM GMT
    I takes what I's can gets around here. That being said, I only reciprocally buddy list people I've talked to extensively and feel are, you know, actual buddies.
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:49 PM GMT
    Are you forgetting ..??..
    The guy could totally ignore you !
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    (What part of it were you ridiculed for??)
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:51 PM GMT
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:53 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidYou've been un-hotlisted?
    Sheesh, I guess it's true that fans are fickle.
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    Yes, I always have a good laugh at that one. I usually assume that it's something smartassy that I've said. I rarely check to see if I'm still hot listed, but it's funny when I do and I notice that someone is missing. icon_lol.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 21, 2012 6:55 PM GMT
    Would never take offense..... athough it is a little odd to have somebody "buddy list" you when you've never seem them before. I take it that they'd enjoy getting to know me as a buddy..... and thats cool too.
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    Jul 21, 2012 6:58 PM GMT
    Bwahahahahahaha!!!!!
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    Jul 21, 2012 7:39 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidWould never take offense..... athough it is a little odd to have somebody "buddy list" you when you've never seem them before. I take it that they'd enjoy getting to know me as a buddy..... and thats cool too.
    i know i figured it was kinda odd to get mad over a simple thing such as this.
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    Jul 21, 2012 7:40 PM GMT
    I wouldn't get offended...

    But I do raise my eyebrows when someone "buddy lists" me and it is someone that I have never seen, spoken to, or interacted with before.
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    Jul 21, 2012 7:47 PM GMT
    Totally, I am taking legal recourse as of right now for mental agony.