Assuming some of you have been through this phase...

  • Mr_anonymous

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    Jul 22, 2012 2:55 AM GMT
    Alright soooooo every time i get drunk (generally by myself...yes bad. like now btw) i get these funny urges especially watching porn...with wife not around. Urges to suck dick and have something in the ass. Not totally straight up, but for example watching a girl give head and noticing the dick is quite nice...and perhaps focusing a bit more on it rather than the girl itself doing the job.

    The thing is, when i sober up it does not look so appealing. So i've checked out gay porn...it didn't repulse me, but i got to say it wasn't that appealing either. Good looking dudes banging each other...ok, but mans ass is so ... i don't know most of the time its kinda hairy and square. Nothing like Alexis Texas for example...and absence of tits is somewhat offsetting. I like them a lot(or maybe iam telling that myself on purpose, ive lost track by now). Feemale body is so much more perfectly sculpted.

    Back to the topic i am a big fan of watching blowjob/glory-hole clips.Maybe because my wife don't suck dick...who knows.

    Ok where was i going with this, o yeah so, I am half way there in to making piece with myself that i am gay until i look at a guy and try to imagine banging him...that gets weird...to the point that i start thinking who could i possibly think this would be fun. But the above don't sit right with me...i mean if i am gay should that be a problem? I was raised in a household where i was taught it was ok to be gay.....perhaps because my mom had those type of feelings in her past...with that said, i guess my judgement is somewhat impaired considering i was taught that here is nothing wrong with it. I absolutely love seeing big pouty lips half way down a perfectly shaped head(too graphic for a straight guy?)

    Anyhow did anyone experience this kind of thing at any point?
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 22, 2012 2:59 AM GMT
    I know a guy just like you, and he has his wife fuck him with a strap on. Try that.
  • Mr_anonymous

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    Jul 22, 2012 3:02 AM GMT
    Lol she will never go for that, she wont even blow me and youre bringing up strap-ons. So you think its possible to take it in the ass and still somehow not be gay. Or does one thing not have anything to do with the other
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 22, 2012 3:05 AM GMT
    Go beat off .. you'll get over it
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 22, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    Mr_anonymous saidLol she will never go for that, she wont even blow me and youre bringing up strap-ons. So you think its possible to take it in the ass and still somehow not be gay. Or does one thing not have anything to do with the other


    Yes, I think it's possible. The way you describe your attraction to woman over men makes you seem straight, or bi.

    You should tell your wife you want to get more kinky. Honesty is best... But you don't need me to tell you that.
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    Jul 22, 2012 4:12 AM GMT
    Stop drinking.
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    Jul 22, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    It's pretty common, you seem bi-curious.
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    Jul 22, 2012 4:24 AM GMT
    Shocking, I know; however, a lot of gay men are not into like the butt sex. Just an idea: may want to do a little more research, other than porn; although most gay sex is exactly like how it's depicted in all the Titan Videos.
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    Jul 22, 2012 4:38 AM GMT
    Mr_anonymous saidLol she will never go for that, she wont even blow me and youre bringing up strap-ons. So you think its possible to take it in the ass and still somehow not be gay. Or does one thing not have anything to do with the other


    After sex, when the trust and pillow talk are at their best, ask her what kinds of "boundary stretching" activities she would like to try. Toss a "crumb" out for her regarding a bisexual three-way and see if she goes for it. Sometimes it takes baby steps to get your partner to go places with you. If she refuses all experimentation...it's time to have a conversation about renegotiating your vows.