Anyone Here Who DOESN'T Use The Hotlist?

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    Aug 08, 2008 1:03 PM GMT
    I made the decision not to hotlist guys anymore and it's driving me crazy!!

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    Aug 08, 2008 3:25 PM GMT
    I haven't got anyone there. Not saying that none of you are hot, but I don't stay drooling over profiles. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 08, 2008 3:28 PM GMT
    I haven't hotlisted anyone.
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    Aug 08, 2008 3:30 PM GMT
    ... but i have e-mailed guys from time to time to let them know how hot they are to me icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 08, 2008 3:46 PM GMT
    I've been on this site since 2006 and so far, I've only hot-listed one person....only because I think he's cute and his personality based on his comments here in the forums usually makes me smile or chuckle.

    Several guys on here have caught my eye, but I have this insane fear if I "hotlist" them, they'll think I'm a dirty old man or something....icon_redface.gif

    Sometimes, its best to admire from afar, I suppose.
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    Aug 08, 2008 4:53 PM GMT
    Logical note: Not hotlisting them does not mean you are not a dirty old man.... (:
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    Aug 08, 2008 5:06 PM GMT
    NoNameGuy saidI made the decision not to hotlist guys anymore and it's driving me crazy!!


    I used to hotlist as a lazy man's booklisting...

    but I didn't like that people knew I was eyeing them

    (and I don't think I'm hot enough to be running around hotlisting people I think are hot)
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    Aug 08, 2008 5:08 PM GMT
    If I were single I would hotlist. It isn't that I don't find many people here oh so very hot, but that function seems flirty and I don't want to be that guy.
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    Aug 08, 2008 5:09 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidIf I were single I would hotlist. It isn't that I don't find many people here oh so very hot, but that function seems flirty and I don't want to be that guy.

    Hmmm...I guess I am "that guy" then!
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    Aug 09, 2008 12:25 AM GMT


    We don't use it. Same reasoning as our MunchingZombie
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    Aug 09, 2008 12:29 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidIf I were single I would hotlist. It isn't that I don't find many people here oh so very hot, but that function seems flirty and I don't want to be that guy.



    Im that guy tooicon_biggrin.gif I was hotlisting before I got in a relationship and I have continued too while im in one. Im not blind damn it!!!!! I like looking at guys. But thats were it stops.
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    Aug 09, 2008 12:35 AM GMT
    Hmm... I guess I have sort of an unexamined rule to not hotlist anyone under 30, because they'll probably think it's creepy.
    For the other guys, I guess it's just a sort of a "wink." I never actually go to the hotlist and troll it or anything.
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    Aug 09, 2008 12:36 AM GMT
    When I say "that guy" I just mean I don't want to feel like I am being that guy. Using the hotlist makes me feel that way, though I certainly find tons of guys to be hot. Use your hot list with abandon gentlemen.
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    Aug 09, 2008 12:53 AM GMT
    I'm right there with the BrainMuncher...

    ...and I don't want y'all to think I like guys or anything. Cuz that would be gross and stuff, right?
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:10 AM GMT

    Doug leans over and whispers to Bill,

    ("WTF this is a gay site?!?")
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:13 AM GMT
    Who said anything about liking guys? Hotlisting them just means we think they're hot. I mean, come on. Just cause we're guys doesn't mean we can't tell if other guys are hot or not....
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:16 AM GMT
    I agree with Caesar. To me hotlisting is the equivalent of thinking "that guy is hot."

    Not everyone is here for raunchy, oily hookups you know.
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:18 AM GMT
    Since we are all straight men who hotlist to admire straight dudes...

    anyone wanna play gay chicken?
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:18 AM GMT
    hot guys on here are a dime a dozen (not that that's a bad thing...), so i dont even bother.
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:19 AM GMT


    Oh gosh, we'd never take an issue with that. Hotlist away! It's different things to different people.
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:21 AM GMT
    I've got a strictly platonic, hetero-type man-crush on you, Munchies. Wanna have a bromance?
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:24 AM GMT
    Bro, wanna funnel... something? Brah?
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:26 AM GMT
    Dude, I'm so there. I'm like seriously stoked for it. Lemme just finish bangin' this chick first, a'right brah?
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:27 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidWhen I say "that guy" I just mean I don't want to feel like I am being that guy. Using the hotlist makes me feel that way, though I certainly find tons of guys to be hot. Use your hot list with abandon gentlemen.


    Wow I am a flirt, I never would have thunk it. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 09, 2008 1:33 AM GMT
    Speakina chicks, can I mix any you lovely ladies a ruffie-tini? Don't worry, Ima gentleman. I'll put your top back on when i'm done.