Saying Hello To Mindless, Random, Hookups!

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    Jul 22, 2012 9:04 PM GMT
    So many gay men go through a 'slutty' phase , then they experience a weird sexual burnout period..then they withdraw...and then they prioritize monogamy..!!

    What phase are you going through??

    A) Novice/ Prudish?
    B) Slutty?
    C) Totally Fucked out?
    D) Withdrawal, currently celibate and ready for monogamy?
    E) You bounce back and fourth between A,B,C and D..??

    Very interested to hear what you have to say...Anocxuicon_biggrin.gif

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    Jul 22, 2012 10:04 PM GMT
    good one,i'm gonna choose "D" but definitely not ready for monogamy either!
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    Jul 22, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
    F) uninterested in sex, a relationship, dating, hookups or anything else that relates to two parties becoming more then just friends.

    Hell, I can't even be bothered chatting a guy up these days, they just don't hold my interest at all... where are the intelligent guys who know how to have a conversation????
  • BloodFlame

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    Jul 22, 2012 11:45 PM GMT
    hmm interesting question. I don't really know. I mean, I hardly ever act slutty... In order for me to be into guy to "play" with, I at least would want to get to know them beforehand.

    I guess I am at D but I'm not looking for a serious relationship yet. I just m not interested in hooking up right now. I mean, I do have my "hot moods" but I take care of it myself and I am doing just fine with that right now.
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    Jul 23, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    Thanks for your objective input..means a lot to me...you know..gays are progressive beings...always searching !!...i know i am !
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    Jul 23, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidF) uninterested in sex, a relationship, dating, hookups or anything else that relates to two parties becoming more then just friends.

    Hell, I can't even be bothered chatting a guy up these days, they just don't hold my interest at all... where are the intelligent guys who know how to have a conversation????


    D)..going through a withdrawal period ..
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    Jul 23, 2012 2:42 AM GMT
    E.) I bounce through all these... its survival of my heart, brain and body... I have phase through the a, b, c, ... etc and back again... I don't hide it, or make special excuses for it... I just do what I have to do. Now I sound like the ladies I work with... lulz!
  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 23, 2012 2:59 AM GMT
    Definitely "D"....icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:03 AM GMT
    R) Wasting time on RJ waiting for death
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:03 AM GMT
    G) Too busy with duties. Ready to shag like a randy monkey.
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    n8698u saidG) Too busy with duties. Ready to shag like a randy monkey.

    So ..B..Slutty!!..Cool!!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:12 AM GMT
    i'm still in the virgin phase
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:15 AM GMT
    I'm not sure I understand how this topic is particular to gay men. And humans are progressive beings not just gay men!
  • paramoore

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    Jul 23, 2012 3:19 AM GMT
    Here is what I have to say to all of my random hookups:

    Hi! Good to see you again! I have to say that I am sorry that I was so drunk. I will be the first to admit that I get a bit forward when I drink. Normally, I am not that guy, though I am still an awesome guy that I think you will like. But because of the circumstances of how and where we met and what we did, that will likely color our future (if any) relationship. Sorry. I threw myself at you because you are pretty much a boner maker, and the normal me would love to have a relationship with you, but I know I killed that possibility by acting like a whore. So all I can ask is please try to be civil and nice with me, and I will give the same to you. I still think that you are awesome, but I am ashamed by my behavior, but I REALLY DO wish you well on whatever you decide to do. Take care.
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:19 AM GMT
    Anocxu said
    n8698u saidG) Too busy with duties. Ready to shag like a randy monkey.

    So ..B..Slutty!!..Cool!!icon_biggrin.gif


    No. Quality, not quantity. I'm just horny and haven't had an outlet for a few months...weeks...

    How 'bout them Tigers?!?!?
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    paramoore saidHere is what I have to say to all of my random hookups:

    Hi! Good to see you again! I have to say that I am sorry that I was so drunk. I will be the first to admit that I get a bit forward when I drink. Normally, I am not that guy, though I am still an awesome guy that I think you will like. But because of the circumstances of how and where we met and what we did, that will likely color our future (if any) relationship. Sorry. I threw myself at you because you are pretty much a boner maker, and the normal me would love to have a relationship with you, but I know I killed that possibility by acting like a whore. So all I can ask is please try to be civil and nice with me, and I will give the same to you. I still think that you are awesome, but I am ashamed by my behavior, but I REALLY DO wish you well on whatever you decide to do. Take care.


    Maybe not the time and place for this, though very heartfelt!
  • paramoore

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    Jul 23, 2012 3:22 AM GMT
    eurofreak said
    paramoore saidHere is what I have to say to all of my random hookups:

    Hi! Good to see you again! I have to say that I am sorry that I was so drunk. I will be the first to admit that I get a bit forward when I drink. Normally, I am not that guy, though I am still an awesome guy that I think you will like. But because of the circumstances of how and where we met and what we did, that will likely color our future (if any) relationship. Sorry. I threw myself at you because you are pretty much a boner maker, and the normal me would love to have a relationship with you, but I know I killed that possibility by acting like a whore. So all I can ask is please try to be civil and nice with me, and I will give the same to you. I still think that you are awesome, but I am ashamed by my behavior, but I REALLY DO wish you well on whatever you decide to do. Take care.


    Maybe not the time and place for this, though very heartfelt!


    Well, somebody has a drinking problem. So .... that.
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:27 AM GMT
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    lilTanker saidF) uninterested in sex, a relationship, dating, hookups or anything else that relates to two parties becoming more then just friends.

    Hell, I can't even be bothered chatting a guy up these days, they just don't hold my interest at all... where are the intelligent guys who know how to have a conversation????

    Perth


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    The question at hand: I'm at E, except I haven't been a novice in years.
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    n8698u said
    Anocxu said
    n8698u saidG) Too busy with duties. Ready to shag like a randy monkey.

    So ..B..Slutty!!..Cool!!icon_biggrin.gif


    No. Quality, not quantity. I'm just horny and haven't had an outlet for a few months...weeks...

    How 'bout them Tigers?!?!?


    How about a puppy ????

    (messin with you)icon_redface.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    paramoore saidHere is what I have to say to all of my random hookups:

    Hi! Good to see you again! I have to say that I am sorry that I was so drunk. I will be the first to admit that I get a bit forward when I drink. Normally, I am not that guy, though I am still an awesome guy that I think you will like. But because of the circumstances of how and where we met and what we did, that will likely color our future (if any) relationship. Sorry. I threw myself at you because you are pretty much a boner maker, and the normal me would love to have a relationship with you, but I know I killed that possibility by acting like a whore. So all I can ask is please try to be civil and nice with me, and I will give the same to you. I still think that you are awesome, but I am ashamed by my behavior, but I REALLY DO wish you well on whatever you decide to do. Take care.


    And after about the 25th time you have the speech memorized and don't have to bring along a piece of paper anymore to read it!icon_razz.gif
  • paramoore

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    Jul 23, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    See ... someone gets me.
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:31 AM GMT
    As a teen I started out in phase D because I was taught to value monogamy. Then I realized how the current sex driven gay culture was and I was influenced/seduced into phase B, but then I quickly shifted to phase A in my bitterness. Then I went back to being true to myself and yet again found myself in phase D. I think Im comfortable here.
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:43 AM GMT
    New guy to RJ... Somewhere between A and B, but closer to A.
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
    A). I'm far too nervous and restrained to let myself slip into B) no matter how much I may want to.
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    IceBucket saidA). I'm far too nervous and restrained to let myself slip into B) no matter how much I may want to.


    Wow - I wasn't nearly as specific in my post, but this is exactly how I would put where I lie in greater detail.