singles saidok, sorry but my experiences been plenty with younger guys approaching me, as if I am a magnet to their silly fantasy's.
I highly doubt it when 40+ people talk about all these younger guys approaching them. I know a lot of young gay guys. Very few would go for someone 40+, and if they were to, they're trying to score a car or something along those lines.
Also, are these guys muscular, or not? I highly doubt they are fit.
As a member of that 40+ group, I share your skepticism. I see posts like this and immediately think, "dream on.". If you're 40+ and have 20-somethings beating a path to your door, you're probably telling them you're rich (which is dubious) and they're nothing but a gold digger. Nice situation there.
I don't dismiss the fact that there are some younger guys that really have a thing for older guys, but to hear some older guys tell it, they struggle to juggle their social calendar to accommodate all these hot young studs throwing themselves at them. Sigh!!