How many partners makes you promiscuous?

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    Aug 08, 2008 8:33 PM GMT
    Can you count the number of guys you've f*cked?

    Your number of partners and how "special" the sex is are not necessarily related. Sex is as special as we make it. For some people, that means exclusivity, for others, casual sex, and for many, an amalgam of both.

    Sex is special when it takes me where I can't go alone - and I don't just mean orgasm. When I'm with a bf, I'm certainly not thinking about my past sledmates, and I doubt he is either.

    If you're doing it right, you're fully in the moment, losing count, as it were. So what do you think?

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    Aug 08, 2008 8:41 PM GMT
    Well I rarely fucked, but I could probably make a pretty good guess how many I have had sex with.

    I don't know if there is a lower limit you have to reach to get the gold star for promiscuity.

    I think it is safe to say that if you are sleeping with a different guy every weekend then you would be considered promiscuous.
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    Aug 08, 2008 8:43 PM GMT
    6,409.

    Any more than that and you are a big whore.
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    Aug 08, 2008 8:45 PM GMT
    jprichva said6,409.

    Any more than that and you are a big whore.


    Well I would have to live about 500 years and be single to get to that level! Whoredom and I will never be acquainted I guess.
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    Aug 08, 2008 8:46 PM GMT
    Well my first boyfriend put it into perspective (He was 27 and I was 1icon_cool.gif while he was my first, I was his 270 something. It initially shocked me, but after a while the number didn't matter any more because we were with each other. That's the way I approach my relationships: when I'm with someone I am monogamous, but if I'm single, I'm casual about it. Sex can be either fun or can be an intensely intimate experience, depending on how you look at who you're with.

    I've run into past tricks while with my current boyfriend, and while I'm cordial with them, I definitely let it be known that I'm with my boyfriend and nothing will happen. If they're cool with it, we all usually hangout and have a good time, or if not, their loss.
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    Aug 08, 2008 8:51 PM GMT
    How many does it take? Three

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    Aug 08, 2008 8:53 PM GMT
    jprichva said6,409.

    Any more than that and you are a big whore.



    Um, define "big."
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    Aug 08, 2008 8:56 PM GMT
    sigh
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    Aug 08, 2008 8:59 PM GMT
    jprichva said6,409.

    Any more than that and you are a big whore.


    so judgmental...and i resent being called big.
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:02 PM GMT
    I think whoredom is relative. If you're someone who values sex as something more than a casual enounter, than you probably stick to only a few partners. If you're someone who likes to express themselves sexually with no want/need for commitment, you might have a higher number. The big mind fuck is that sex is everywhere we look. TV, movies, advertisements, gay workout sites. Yet, (America anyway) has been preaching monogamy is the only "proper" way to have sex.

    The important thing is to not betray yourself. Have sex with 10,000 people if that's what you want. Or don't have sex at all. As long as you're being true to who you are, you're not doing anything wrong.

    (Insert the shooting star and "The More You Know" music here).

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    Aug 08, 2008 9:03 PM GMT
    I think if you can fill a school bus beyond capacity, that probably qualifies as somewhat squirrely.
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:07 PM GMT
    jprichva said6,409.

    Anymore than that and you are a big whore.


    Well thank god for that! One Conservative count was about 4,000. But that could of been 6,000. I'm sure by 1,000 I'd stopped counting. Just don't call me late, for dinner.

    But One also worked in a bathhouse, and was very popular. So it was Ones community service to please. plus One was able to do this without becoming sick, or making anyone ells sick!

    One would not call a guy whom has a diffrent partner every weekend a whore (not unless he charges. But then marriage is nothing more than legal prostitution!) One would call em single.

    Oh my count for this year is: 0

    Oh father Christmas. I've truly been good this year!
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:15 PM GMT
    I've lost count as well as names.... Oh well!
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:18 PM GMT
    Once you've used up your ten fingers, you're a whore in my book.

    So, I'm definitely a whore--a reformed one, though icon_lol.gif.
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:18 PM GMT
    Reminds me of the line by Andi McDowell in Four Weddings and a Funeral, "More than Princess Diana, less than Madonna. I hope."

    I have a feeling I've exceeded Madonna's numbers, but that's just a guess.
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:21 PM GMT
    a1972guy saidI've lost count as well as names.... Oh well!


    Couldn't say how many either...but I do remember SOME names.
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:22 PM GMT
    BlkMuscleGent saidOnce you've used up your ten fingers, you're a whore in my book.

    So, I'm definitely a whore--a reformed one, though icon_lol.gif.


    And hear I thought it was once you've used up your ten fingers AND ten toes.
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:24 PM GMT
    a1972guy saidI've lost count as well as names.... Oh well!


    lol. I did not know more than half their names to forget. icon_redface.gif
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:27 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]Pattison said

    lol. I did not know more than half their names to forget. icon_redface.gif[/quote]

    One certainly has been around.
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:40 PM GMT
    JustJohn said[quote][cite]Pattison said

    lol. I did not know more than half their names to forget. icon_redface.gif


    One certainly has been around.[/quote]

    most of it was at one place. But then there was the night clubs, and that could get one doing it at home, or somewhere new.

    But One was young, with a great body. Funny thing is. All One ever wanted was one. But a lot of this was before Aides hit the media, and free love was alive and well. A lot of it was in the first few years of Aides hitting the media too.

    But One also had a good catholic mum, whom enjoyed pulling me out of the bath, and then whipping One with power cords; how the nun where to teach her the finner art of torture; these good christian women! Then at the age of five some young guy got One to suck his cock. So One looked at this as tender touch; love.

    One now knows sex does not = love. Neither of my two long term relationships foundations are built on lust, but friendship first.

    But if one has been around, then One has been around. I regret nothing. It all has helped Me too become One. Some may say this is wrong! But I say: to deny it would be wrong! Yes I've made mistakes, But I learn from them too.

    I had a lot of fun in my youth, but is this not what being young is all about. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 08, 2008 9:58 PM GMT
    When you start having to break the number down
    into subsets of what you DID with what guy...

    Then you're a WHORE!!!

    Call me icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 08, 2008 10:08 PM GMT
    I heard the term "WHORE" was originally created circa 1669 A.D. by old jealous nuns with sand in their Va Jay Jays!!

    Present day the term has been adopted by jealous bitches and queens with sand in their Va Jay Jays!!

    A.K.A..... A lot... icon_smile.gif lol.
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    Aug 08, 2008 10:12 PM GMT
    I vaguely remember some names and faces. But numbers?

    What is this fuzzy math?


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    Aug 08, 2008 10:24 PM GMT
    BlkMuscleGent saidOnce you've used up your ten fingers, you're a whore in my book.

    So, I'm definitely a whore--a reformed one, though icon_lol.gif.


    What if you have extra appendages??? Guess you're LUCKY!!! icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 08, 2008 10:31 PM GMT
    a1972guy said
    BlkMuscleGent saidOnce you've used up your ten fingers, you're a whore in my book.

    So, I'm definitely a whore--a reformed one, though icon_lol.gif.


    What if you have extra appendages??? Guess you're LUCKY!!! icon_lol.gif


    Well then I can count to 25.