Engaged?

  • Imaxsean

    Posts: 17

    Jul 25, 2012 10:03 AM GMT
    Hey guys.
    I came here a while ago and I decided to stay. For one, there are many beautiful bodies on here :*). While on the other hand, I like reading others' stories, to experience their happiness and sadness and to know how others live their life out there.
    So here is my story, I met this guy online by a match-make of another friend of mine. We've been talking on and off in a very superficial way for over a year. We talked far less than you guys could ever imagine. "how have you been?" "have you eaten?" sort of things, sometimes joking around, while never in a soulmate way. In the interval, we nearly stopped getting in touch coz i thought he was not interested in me. Why would i always try to kiss someone else's ass. Until a car accident happened to him, which i knew also from the friend that i mentioned above. He was hurt pretty badly, even now he's still getting physical therapy. So after the accident, i asked his conditions in the manner of a friend. We began to talk to each other again. Sometime after, i heard his step-mother passed away due to some cancer. I felt more for him for all the unfortunes. In the whole time being, i had been sending him messages, telling him to stay strong and to take good care of himself, for his both mentally and physically hurt, offering my support in a virtual way. Then it came to my graduation, i flew to another city far, far from him. before i left, i left him a message telling him that although my getting away meant nothing to him(we've never really met each other), but i could always be a good listener and a person to be turned to. He wished me well and asked me to keep him updated of my telephone number if I'd ever want to change it. So after i settled, we talked more, he showed me his pictures of his recovery, then we kinda talked deeper and deeper, he asked me if i wanted to get married in the future, i told him that i did only if with the one that i love. He said he felt the same way, then suddenly and totally unprepared, he suggested that we two should get married. I asked him if he was being serious, he said he was. then i agreed to the idea. He also said if i ever wanted to travel back, i could stay at his house. He also added the marriage would happpen at least in three years and now we should totally concentrate on our work. We also planned on going to the USA next year...
    Since then, we've come down to calm again and never talked. Now I'm just so intrigued and desperately wanting to be with him and even more lonelier when being alone. I even stopped jerking off for him. Sigh, how can i get back to the old track again now that this travel and marriage thing are burning in my mind...
    Thanks for reading my jabberings. Hope the post makes sense coz I couldn't write any better in this language. Any suggestion would be heartfully appreciated.
    -Sean

  • Buddha

    Posts: 1767

    Jul 25, 2012 10:23 AM GMT
    Xavier1989 saidHey guys.
    I came here a while ago and I decided to stay. For one, there are many beautiful bodies on here :*). While on the other hand, I like reading others' stories, to experience their happiness and sadness and to know how others live their life out there.
    So here is my story, I met this guy online by a match-make of another friend of mine. We've been talking on and off in a very superficial way for over a year. We talked far less than you guys could ever imagine. "how have you been?" "have you eaten?" sort of things, sometimes joking around, while never in a soulmate way. In the interval, we nearly stopped getting in touch coz i thought he was not interested in me. Why would i always try to kiss someone else's ass. Until a car accident happened to him, which i knew also from the friend that i mentioned above. He was hurt pretty badly, even now he's still getting physical therapy. So after the accident, i asked his conditions in the manner of a friend. We began to talk to each other again. Sometime after, i heard his step-mother passed away due to some cancer. I felt more for him for all the unfortunes. In the whole time being, i had been sending him messages, telling him to stay strong and to take good care of himself, for his both mentally and physically hurt, offering my support in a virtual way. Then it came to my graduation, i flew to another city far, far from him. before i left, i left him a message telling him that although my getting away meant nothing to him(we've never really met each other), but i could always be a good listener and a person to be turned to. He wished me well and asked me to keep him updated of my telephone number if I'd ever want to change it. So after i settled, we talked more, he showed me his pictures of his recovery, then we kinda talked deeper and deeper, he asked me if i wanted to get married in the future, i told him that i did only if with the one that i love. He said he felt the same way, then suddenly and totally unprepared, he suggested that we two should get married. I asked him if he was being serious, he said he was. then i agreed to the idea. He also said if i ever wanted to travel back, i could stay at his house. He also added the marriage would happpen at least in three years and now we should totally concentrate on our work. We also planned on going to the USA next year...
    Since then, we've come down to calm again and never talked. Now I'm just so intrigued and desperately wanting to be with him and even more lonelier when being alone. I even stopped jerking off for him. Sigh, how can i get back to the old track again now that this travel and marriage thing are burning in my mind...
    Thanks for reading my jabberings. Hope the post makes sense coz I couldn't write any better in this language. Any suggestion would be heartfully appreciated.
    -Sean



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    Jul 25, 2012 12:48 PM GMT
    Terrible terrible idea..
    You sir are feeding into a fantasy...
    Yeah..have you met him face to face yet..??..not clear..
    Texts and e-mails are not foundation for marrige..
    You have to spend a considerable amount of time with this guy before you make this decision..come on..???

    You gave up jerking off..??
    I read your opening post and it so .."unrealistically euphoric"

    Meet the guy..
    Date for a year..
    see what happens...
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    Jul 25, 2012 2:33 PM GMT
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