Jul 26, 2012 7:57 PM GMT
Alright so I am at a stand still so I thought I would get others advice. I am 23 y/o and I had been a bottom my whole life. When I was 20, I was working out and I decided I was going to try to be a total top. I started dating a guy who was, as I am sure you can follow, a bottom. I quickly found out that I am just a power bottom or something. Aggressive but I just cant keep that ship hard. Our relationship advanced and he still wanted to be together so he wanted to be the top. I was fine at first but now it’s three years later and sex is almost non existent. I honestly just think he is a bottom at heart. But I don’t know. We fight all the time and I am always having to say, “I am sorry.” He is 4 years older than me. I am becoming emotionally drained and my patience with him is almost gone. Every help book or professional on Gay relationships say just stick together, but damn... I am 23 and have non passionate sex about every 2 months. When we go out to the clubs I get hit on on the time and I miss it. But then I think, the grass is always greener on the other side right? So what do you guys think? Should I stay with him, a well educated successful professional, or should I leave him due to the emotional toll its taking on me?