Desperate, jaded, or level-headed?

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    Jul 27, 2012 1:11 AM GMT
    Obviously, I can't ask which of the three you are because the only desireable choice is level-headed. But what about the other gays you have met? Would you say there's an even spread? Or do gays tend to gravitate towards one of the options?

    If you want, feel free to elaborate!

    As for myself, I would say that the level-headed category is lacking in members.
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    Jul 27, 2012 5:28 AM GMT
    Most gays I know are fabric wise, but fashion oblivious.
    That said, I do not know very bright gays, but many are fun.
    The gays I have seen depicted on screen have been jaded and stupid, which makes me think that gay writers in los angeles are both.
    Desperate gay men are often desperate for a short period of time, realize what it is getting them and quickly grow out of it.
    Or become jaded.
    Still, funny when drunk. That's why I love my gays.
  • mybud

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    Jul 28, 2012 9:02 PM GMT
    If a guy is desperate it usually stems from a lack of self-esteem and confidence...that desperation leads to clingy actions and reactions...A guy becomes jaded after multiple interactions with others who are so self centered about their needs being fulfilled,they lack the capacity to share and give...The jaded guy ends up wary that true love exists...Level headed individuals see through the crap and fake intentions of others...They rationalize more with their mind and less with their cock...They are comfortable with their inner and their outer ...level head guys are keepers...
  • FireDoor211

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    Jul 28, 2012 9:23 PM GMT
    I'll be honest, I'll tell u I'm jaded. I tend to attract desperate guys who wanna throw themselves at my feet 2 sentences into a conversation. I think I'm too jaded for a level headed guy, and well... What the hell ate 2 jaded guys going to accomplish? Lol
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    Jul 28, 2012 9:58 PM GMT
    <~~Level headed.

    But I think you need to add "tainted" to your list. I've seen too many friends become tainted(corrupted) by the dark side of gay life. Hahah now I sound jaded.lol
  • FireDoor211

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    Jul 28, 2012 10:03 PM GMT
    Well, wouldn't level-headed be a little desperate and a little jaded all at once?
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    Jul 28, 2012 10:16 PM GMT
    I'm not level-headed at all. It's kinda lop-sided.
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    Jul 28, 2012 10:55 PM GMT
    Not always level- headed. I tend to go for the big picture ideas but forget there are details and steps to get to that end result. The absent-minded professor syndrome.

    I dont think I am jaded but I do like a good sense of humor assuming its not to harsh and too acerbic in its wit.