Aug 09, 2008 4:26 PM GMT
This is a spin-off from the "should I ask him these things" thread by guy0680.
Guys had crushes on me in the past. If they felt comfortable telling me, I encouraged it because unrequited love is already a drag. What usually happened was we talked it out whenever it came up (cough, haha), USED HUMOUR AND WARMTH and things gradually settled down. Eventually the guy'd get snapped up and I'd sometimes wistfully wonder why I didn't feel that special feeling for him, as he waltzed off into the sunset with his partner.
In 0680's thread, he felt big feelings for a guy already dating someone, for starters. He wanted to ask the guy a few questions. The responses were basically DON'T. I suggested making humourous statements instead of questions. To avoid repetition, go look at his thread here..
....so what do YOU do when a friend has a crush on you?