What would u do?

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    Jul 29, 2012 12:09 AM GMT
    Two of your best friends are a couple. One is cheating on the other, would u tell other? if u do, u know your friendship with the friend may be over. On the other hand if u dont tell and if the other friend finds out you knew about it. Your friendship with other friend may be over also. Best course action for this situation is to stay out it, and WARN! the cheating friend to leave u out of it. So i ask u, what would u do?
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    Jul 29, 2012 12:12 AM GMT
    I would talk to the person cheating. I'm sure that's how they would do it on that show called Friends.icon_lol.gif
  • Jerebear

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    Jul 29, 2012 12:14 AM GMT
    The cheater might be endangering the health of your other friend. In my opinion, you are obligated to tell your other friend. Give the cheating friend an oppurtunity to tell his partner on his own first though.
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    Jul 29, 2012 12:16 AM GMT
    Jerebear saidThe cheater might be endangering the health of your other friend. In my opinion, you are obligated to tell your other friend. Give the cheating friend an oppurtunity to tell his partner on his own first though.
    U got a point, this is a tough one!
  • Jerebear

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    Jul 29, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
    Lima3016 said
    Jerebear saidThe cheater might be endangering the health of your other friend. In my opinion, you are obligated to tell your other friend. Give the cheating friend an oppurtunity to tell his partner on his own first though.
    U got a point, this is a tough one!


    Yup, wouldn't want to be you right now
  • toybrian

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    Jul 29, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    Lima, first I would confront the one cheating and ask why? If not a good answer then let the other know about it somehow and risk the friendship and hope for the best. Would feel more b ad if I lost the friendship because I kept quiet..
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    Jul 29, 2012 5:35 AM GMT
    A while back I was out with some friends, but one stayed home because his gf wasnt going. She was supposed to study and he didnt want to go out with out her. Sure enough she was "studying" at the same club with some random dudes. I did tell him right then and there where she was, since I was only good friends with him.
    But I would debate next time. Depending on the friend, Id talk to the cheater first and convince him/her to come clean.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 29, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    Depends who the real friend is and whether or not they are really just acquaintances. If you really are close, close friends with both of them, then more then likely it something you confront the cheating one about first. If you are not that close, and you are really just good acquaintances, then really it is not any of your business.
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    Jul 29, 2012 6:13 AM GMT
    Talk to the cheater first about his cheating. Tell him to come forward. (in a better world); if that doesn't help, tell the friend being cheated on, at risk of losing one of both of their friendships.
  • Karl

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    Jul 29, 2012 6:16 AM GMT
    I'll have a conversation with the cheater and advise him , hope he changes his mind.
    If he stills want to be a cheater , I'll tell his partner the truth .
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    Jul 29, 2012 6:21 AM GMT
    Karl saidI'll have a conversation with the cheater and advise him , hope he changes his mind.
    If he stills want to be a cheater , I'll tell his partner the truth .
    As someone who has seen his fair share of cheaters, this is always greatly appreciated* HUGS for being So Awesome! icon_cool.gificon_cool.gificon_cool.gif
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    Jul 29, 2012 6:38 AM GMT
    What ever happened to good ol' blackmail..??
    Id be like.. "listen".. "i want a bucket of KFC every friday for the rest of my life".."or else"...The economy folks...the economy!!