Did you ever have a girlfriend

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    Jul 29, 2012 1:09 PM GMT
    Last time I had a girlfriend was when I was 16. She recently contacted me on facebook and sent me this song, sayng it reminds her of me.

  • Generaleclect...

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    Jul 29, 2012 1:14 PM GMT
    For less than a week in the 9th grade, yes. She asked me out, haha.
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    Jul 29, 2012 1:39 PM GMT
    Yes. A couple. They did not work out. I wonder why....... lol.
  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 29, 2012 2:53 PM GMT
    For a little while in 7th grade, I would hang out with one girl quite a bit, and when I made it to first base, I knew for sure that it wasn't for me. icon_eek.gif
  • FireDoor211

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    Jul 29, 2012 2:56 PM GMT
    Quite a few.
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    Jul 29, 2012 2:57 PM GMT
    Nope. I'm all gay and have been gay since my first memories. I told my mom when I was three that I was going to marry He-Man when I grew up.
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    Jul 29, 2012 3:07 PM GMT
    Yeah, never worked out.. Lol
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    Jul 29, 2012 3:24 PM GMT
    Yea all the way till I was 24 or so. I had a bf and a gf at the same time...that was the straw that broke my back
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    Jul 29, 2012 3:27 PM GMT
    Kalifornication saidYea all the way till I was 24 or so. I had a bf and a gf at the same time...that was the straw that broke my back


    Yep, me, too (after breaking up with a girl that I loved).

    I was in a two-year relationship with a girl. I loved her and it was an excellent relationship in every way. But due to her father hating black people, it ended. She married a nice white guy shortly after that.

    And I followed a different path. icon_lol.gif
  • dtx1

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    Jul 29, 2012 3:46 PM GMT
    Yes. We started dating our senior year in high school and continued through the first three years of college. At that time, I began *telling myself* that she wasn't the right one for the long haul, and so I ended the relationship. In reality, she is a great person and would have been a wonderful wife. Of course, in hindsight, I now see that there was a deeper psychological process taking place when I ended the relationship. It wasn't that she was not 'the right one,' but rather that no woman was going to be the one. It took another 6+ years to figure this out.

    Along the journey of life, seems like most of us eventually get where we need to be. But some of us take the scenic route to get there.
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    Jul 29, 2012 3:49 PM GMT
    yeah, but only up until sex was pretty much required or expected and allowing the relationship to continue would have gotten uncomfortable with questions about why i didn't want to have sex with them. never actually did the deed with a girl, and don't really have any regrets about it. works for some, but not for me.
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    Jul 29, 2012 3:51 PM GMT
    DaasNope. I'm all gay and have been gay since my first memories. I told my mom when I was three that I was going to marry He-Man when I grew up.


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  • Timbales

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    Jul 29, 2012 3:53 PM GMT
    Yes, a couple of girlfriends. I was on love with one of them and hoped it would get serious, but she had other plans.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 29, 2012 3:56 PM GMT
    I've had 3 serious girlfriends (only one bf). None of the girlfriend relationships lasted longer than a couple of years. I think with all of them, it was the time they would have become much more serious, but for obvious reasons, I didn't really want to go there. I wasn't ready to accept who I am, but knew that wasn't my thing.
  • whmature

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    Jul 29, 2012 4:06 PM GMT
    Never. In my deep heart, I am attracted to men, but there is still a doubt whether it is gonna work out with a female. Just get a serious spiritual burden- being afraid of hurting any girls.
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    Jul 29, 2012 4:09 PM GMT
    Of course. Women are wonderful. I have never understood the almost unsaid rule by some gay men that women should have cooties and must remain off limits forever.
    They are not the enemy. Many of my closest and best friends are female and actually, some of my best sexual experiences have been with women. So there.
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    Jul 29, 2012 4:11 PM GMT
    For a while in college, but then I was still trying to figure life out and it didn't last that long.
  • FireDoor211

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    Jul 29, 2012 4:20 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidOf course. Women are wonderful. I have never understood the almost unsaid rule by some gay men that women should have cooties and must remain off limits forever.
    They are not the enemy. Many of my closest and best friends are female and actually, some of my best sexual experiences have been with women. So there.


    I like your way of thinking!
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 29, 2012 4:24 PM GMT
    this is an excellent song
    wild a crazy times
    ya, had a few of them back in HS
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    Jul 29, 2012 4:24 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidOf course. Women are wonderful. I have never understood the almost unsaid rule by some gay men that women should have cooties and must remain off limits forever.
    They are not the enemy. Many of my closest and best friends are female and actually, some of my best sexual experiences have been with women. So there.


    I can like women just fine without ever wanting to penis them.
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    Jul 29, 2012 4:25 PM GMT
    My wife would never let me, so I went with guys instead! icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 29, 2012 4:26 PM GMT
    Am a greedy bi so yes lol
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    Jul 29, 2012 4:28 PM GMT
    Daas said
    smartmoney saidOf course. Women are wonderful. I have never understood the almost unsaid rule by some gay men that women should have cooties and must remain off limits forever.
    They are not the enemy. Many of my closest and best friends are female and actually, some of my best sexual experiences have been with women. So there.


    I can like women just fine without ever wanting to penis them.

    So what?
    Is that your definition of the value of everything, whether yoy would want to "penis it?"
    Shallow. You ever have a fine meal and say to your date, "that was some really good burger, I liked it so much, I penised it when you wasn't lookin..."
  • swall1963

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    Jul 29, 2012 5:22 PM GMT
    Yes, in high school Junior and Senior year, it was a very open relationship. We both liked guys and even shared. Also another in college.
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    Jul 29, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    I have and had many female close friends but just 1 girlfriend and 2 other encounters (not counting 10 years in a relationship with a practicing bi guy, but I was just into him, not them).

    Back in junior high I think it was, or maybe 6th grade?, with my girlfriend we frequently double dated another couple. I only did heavy petting with the girl. The guy on the double date and I wound up having sex. Oooops.

    In early high school at one of our many parties, one of my female good friends and I were heavy petting in one of the bedrooms where there was another couple of friends in bed with us. The guys body was touching mine as he was heavily petting the girl he was with which got me totally hot. I put such a hickey on the girl's neck that she had to wear a scarf for about three months. Ooooops.

    In early days of college I let a female seduce me during a night of partying. I wound up hard from her rubbing on me and then from under the covers she got through my clothing and managed to slip me inside her. Ewwwww. The entire feel of it was all wrong.

    Girls are icky.