Preference or racist

  • bigtits

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    Jul 29, 2012 6:59 PM GMT
    saw this profile on another ..do you think it's racist or just his preference?


    32, 5'9", 134lb, 28w, Slim, Blond Hair, Some Body Hair, White, Looking for Friendship, 1-on-1 Sex.

    Just checking to see what is out there. I am a very oral person who is incredibly turned on by muscles. I may be somewhat reserved at first until you get to know me.
    I am not attracted to anyone black, I don't care how light your skin is.


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    Jul 29, 2012 7:00 PM GMT
    Racist.
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    Jul 29, 2012 7:02 PM GMT
    Adam4Adam?
    I've seen opposite profiles of black guys who refused white guys or guys of different races who refused Asians altogether.
    It would be hard to judge whether or not he is actually a racist. Just because I don't want to have sex with women, doesn't mean I hate them.
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    Jul 29, 2012 7:07 PM GMT
    I'm not sure if that is racist. I find I am attracted to all creeds although there are times I am "in the mood" for one rather than the others. So it seems calling this "racist" is a little extreme. Sometimes all I wanted was the guy with the biggest penis and found orientals were the smallest until I found one with one of the biggest I've ever seen... Then all I wanted was orientals. icon_lol.gif

    No, I do not find this racist.
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    Jul 29, 2012 7:18 PM GMT
    Obscure saidWhy would you quote someones profile here. That seems so....(other RJ members fill in here)

    Aress saidAdam4Adam?
    I've seen opposite profiles of black guys who refused white guys or guys of different races who refused Asians altogether.
    It would be hard to judge whether or not he is actually a racist. Just because I don't want to have sex with women, doesn't mean I hate them.


    Ive seen way more of white guys than the black guys you are speaking of.

    Who the hell cares?
  • bigtits

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    Jul 29, 2012 7:18 PM GMT
    it says I am not attracted to anyone black, I don't care how light your skin is.

    i'm gonna send him a note asking him if he'd turn down these 2 guys
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    Sustenance saidI'm not sure if that is racist. I find I am attracted to all creeds although there are times I am "in the mood" for one rather than the others. So it seems calling this "racist" is a little extreme. Sometimes all I wanted was the guy with the biggest penis and found orientals were the smallest until I found one with one of the biggest I've ever seen... Then all I wanted was orientals. icon_lol.gif

    No, I do not find this racist.


    You did had racist thoughts at the time, but you explored. May guys wont even do as little as that. They rather still have racialist thoughts.


    It was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.
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    Jul 29, 2012 7:24 PM GMT
    preference would be saying ''I like white guys''..
    Racisme would be "No black guys" or "No arabs" etc..
    + He adds ''No matter how light your skin is" which makes me think it's not totally about the collor but about his ethnicity..

    So yeah.. This guy is racist all the way
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    Jul 29, 2012 7:38 PM GMT
    Obscure said
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    Obscure said
    Sustenance saidI'm not sure if that is racist. I find I am attracted to all creeds although there are times I am "in the mood" for one rather than the others. So it seems calling this "racist" is a little extreme. Sometimes all I wanted was the guy with the biggest penis and found orientals were the smallest until I found one with one of the biggest I've ever seen... Then all I wanted was orientals. icon_lol.gif

    No, I do not find this racist.


    You did had racist thoughts at the time, but you explored. May guys wont even do as little as that. They rather still have racialist thoughts.


    It was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.


    Clearly you must be if you are saying all "orientals" have small penises. Then have the nerve lump them all into one group as some sort of fetish.


    By that standard it would be racist to say all orientals are smarter than the rest.... Sorry, it's a no go for me. Give up while you can.icon_biggrin.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 29, 2012 7:38 PM GMT
    I think racism is a term for social inequality and/or hatred toward others. Having a type you are attracted to means you are discriminating, yes, but not necessarily racist. Personally I think black men are hot, and also that you shouldn't let some poorly phrased cl ad bother you because there are plenty of fish in the sea. (:
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    Jul 29, 2012 7:56 PM GMT
    Obscure said
    Sustenance said
    Obscure said
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    Obscure said
    Sustenance saidI'm not sure if that is racist. I find I am attracted to all creeds although there are times I am "in the mood" for one rather than the others. So it seems calling this "racist" is a little extreme. Sometimes all I wanted was the guy with the biggest penis and found orientals were the smallest until I found one with one of the biggest I've ever seen... Then all I wanted was orientals. icon_lol.gif

    No, I do not find this racist.


    You did had racist thoughts at the time, but you explored. May guys wont even do as little as that. They rather still have racialist thoughts.


    It was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.


    Clearly you must be if you are saying all "orientals" have small penises. Then have the nerve lump them all into one group as some sort of fetish.


    By that standard it would be racist to say all orientals are smarter than the rest.... Sorry, it's a no go for me. Give up while you can.icon_biggrin.gif


    Actually studies show that Jews are considered to be smarter than Asians. So your reply holds no water because you both think that are Asians are smart with small penises. You just dug a bigger hole. Stop trolling, its obvious that stock was yours.


    It is stereotyping... Not racism... Keep digging..

    You know what I find ironic is this case scenario:

    I'm standing in a room with an Oriental, African American, and Hispanic. If I choose one the other two can call me racist based on how I prioritize my needs? We have a right to preference and the world will be coming to an end the day they apply Affirmative Action to our sex lives.icon_rolleyes.gif

    I will stick to the guy with the biggest dick, biggest heart, or biggest wallet... Whichever I choose is my business.icon_cool.gif

    If you don't like my case scenario... tough shit. You will never own me.
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    Jul 29, 2012 8:01 PM GMT
    Obscure said
    Sustenance said
    Obscure said
    Sustenance said
    Obscure said
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    Obscure said
    Sustenance saidI'm not sure if that is racist. I find I am attracted to all creeds although there are times I am "in the mood" for one rather than the others. So it seems calling this "racist" is a little extreme. Sometimes all I wanted was the guy with the biggest penis and found orientals were the smallest until I found one with one of the biggest I've ever seen... Then all I wanted was orientals. icon_lol.gif

    No, I do not find this racist.


    You did had racist thoughts at the time, but you explored. May guys wont even do as little as that. They rather still have racialist thoughts.


    It was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.


    Clearly you must be if you are saying all "orientals" have small penises. Then have the nerve lump them all into one group as some sort of fetish.


    By that standard it would be racist to say all orientals are smarter than the rest.... Sorry, it's a no go for me. Give up while you can.icon_biggrin.gif


    Actually studies show that Jews are considered to be smarter than Asians. So your reply holds no water because you both think that are Asians are smart with small penises. You just dug a bigger hole. Stop trolling, its obvious that stock was yours.


    It is stereotyping... Not racism... Keep digging..

    You know what I find ironic is this case scenario:

    I'm standing in a room with an Oriental, African American, and Hispanic. If I choose one the other two can call me racist based on how I prioritize my needs? We have a right to preference and the world will be coming to an end the day they apply Affirmative Action to our sex lives.icon_rolleyes.gif

    I will stick to the guy with the biggest dick, biggest heart, or biggest wallet... Whichever I choose is my business.icon_cool.gif


    You still stereotyped them, TWICE.
    No one is going to call you racist for choosing one over the other, youre being called racist for generalizing a race. No one cares who you sleep with.


    Bullshit
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    Jul 29, 2012 8:08 PM GMT
    Obscure said
    Sustenance said
    Obscure said
    Sustenance said
    Obscure said
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    Obscure said
    Sustenance said
    Obscure said
    Sustenance saidI'm not sure if that is racist. I find I am attracted to all creeds although there are times I am "in the mood" for one rather than the others. So it seems calling this "racist" is a little extreme. Sometimes all I wanted was the guy with the biggest penis and found orientals were the smallest until I found one with one of the biggest I've ever seen... Then all I wanted was orientals. icon_lol.gif

    No, I do not find this racist.


    You did had racist thoughts at the time, but you explored. May guys wont even do as little as that. They rather still have racialist thoughts.


    It was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.


    Clearly you must be if you are saying all "orientals" have small penises. Then have the nerve lump them all into one group as some sort of fetish.


    By that standard it would be racist to say all orientals are smarter than the rest.... Sorry, it's a no go for me. Give up while you can.icon_biggrin.gif


    Actually studies show that Jews are considered to be smarter than Asians. So your reply holds no water because you both think that are Asians are smart with small penises. You just dug a bigger hole. Stop trolling, its obvious that stock was yours.


    It is stereotyping... Not racism... Keep digging..

    You know what I find ironic is this case scenario:

    I'm standing in a room with an Oriental, African American, and Hispanic. If I choose one the other two can call me racist based on how I prioritize my needs? We have a right to preference and the world will be coming to an end the day they apply Affirmative Action to our sex lives.icon_rolleyes.gif

    I will stick to the guy with the biggest dick, biggest heart, or biggest wallet... Whichever I choose is my business.icon_cool.gif


    You still stereotyped them, TWICE.
    No one is going to call you racist for choosing one over the other, youre being called racist for generalizing a race. No one cares who you sleep with.


    I cant disagree with your statement


    I guess were done here.


    At least until you are done using the white race in your laboratory experiments. Yes, we are done here.icon_rolleyes.gif
  • jondave

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    Jul 29, 2012 8:10 PM GMT
    May not be racist however, could have worded it a lot better.
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    Jul 29, 2012 8:21 PM GMT
    Didn't shake me at all...
    So he wont date black guys...more for me.!!
    Word it better.??
    Because of his choice of words..we all have an idea what and who this guy is!!
    Technically he did us a favor!
    To each his own..
    And you guys are right..he doesn't have to be an asshole about it..!
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    Jul 29, 2012 8:33 PM GMT
    Obscure said
    Sustenance said
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    Sustenance saidI'm not sure if that is racist. I find I am attracted to all creeds although there are times I am "in the mood" for one rather than the others. So it seems calling this "racist" is a little extreme. Sometimes all I wanted was the guy with the biggest penis and found orientals were the smallest until I found one with one of the biggest I've ever seen... Then all I wanted was orientals. icon_lol.gif

    No, I do not find this racist.


    You did had racist thoughts at the time, but you explored. May guys wont even do as little as that. They rather still have racialist thoughts.


    It was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.


    Clearly you must be if you are saying all "orientals" have small penises. Then have the nerve lump them all into one group as some sort of fetish.


    By that standard it would be racist to say all orientals are smarter than the rest.... Sorry, it's a no go for me. Give up while you can.icon_biggrin.gif


    Actually studies show that Jews are considered to be smarter than Asians. So your reply holds no water because you both think that are Asians are smart with small penises. You just dug a bigger hole. Stop trolling, its obvious that stock was yours.


    It is stereotyping... Not racism... Keep digging..

    You know what I find ironic is this case scenario:

    I'm standing in a room with an Oriental, African American, and Hispanic. If I choose one the other two can call me racist based on how I prioritize my needs? We have a right to preference and the world will be coming to an end the day they apply Affirmative Action to our sex lives.icon_rolleyes.gif

    I will stick to the guy with the biggest dick, biggest heart, or biggest wallet... Whichever I choose is my business.icon_cool.gif


    You still stereotyped them, TWICE.
    No one is going to call you racist for choosing one over the other, youre being called racist for generalizing a race. No one cares who you sleep with.


    I cant disagree with your statement


    I guess were done here.


    At least until you are done using the white race in your laboratory experiments. Yes, we are done here.icon_rolleyes.gif


    There arent any white people being used a social lab experiment.
    Where did you get this silly idea from?


    From your language.
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    Jul 29, 2012 8:39 PM GMT
    Obscure said
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    Sustenance saidI'm not sure if that is racist. I find I am attracted to all creeds although there are times I am "in the mood" for one rather than the others. So it seems calling this "racist" is a little extreme. Sometimes all I wanted was the guy with the biggest penis and found orientals were the smallest until I found one with one of the biggest I've ever seen... Then all I wanted was orientals. icon_lol.gif

    No, I do not find this racist.


    You did had racist thoughts at the time, but you explored. May guys wont even do as little as that. They rather still have racialist thoughts.


    It was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.


    Clearly you must be if you are saying all "orientals" have small penises. Then have the nerve lump them all into one group as some sort of fetish.


    By that standard it would be racist to say all orientals are smarter than the rest.... Sorry, it's a no go for me. Give up while you can.icon_biggrin.gif


    Actually studies show that Jews are considered to be smarter than Asians. So your reply holds no water because you both think that are Asians are smart with small penises. You just dug a bigger hole. Stop trolling, its obvious that stock was yours.


    It is stereotyping... Not racism... Keep digging..

    You know what I find ironic is this case scenario:

    I'm standing in a room with an Oriental, African American, and Hispanic. If I choose one the other two can call me racist based on how I prioritize my needs? We have a right to preference and the world will be coming to an end the day they apply Affirmative Action to our sex lives.icon_rolleyes.gif

    I will stick to the guy with the biggest dick, biggest heart, or biggest wallet... Whichever I choose is my business.icon_cool.gif


    You still stereotyped them, TWICE.
    No one is going to call you racist for choosing one over the other, youre being called racist for generalizing a race. No one cares who you sleep with.


    I cant disagree with your statement


    I guess were done here.


    At least until you are done using the white race in your laboratory experiments. Yes, we are done here.icon_rolleyes.gif


    There arent any white people being used a social lab experiment.
    Where did you get this silly idea from?


    From your language.


    Youve thought nothing about other races being experimented on, thus they obviously important. I could derive that from your comments.


    Oh no, you are sinking.
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    Jul 29, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
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    Sustenance saidI'm not sure if that is racist. I find I am attracted to all creeds although there are times I am "in the mood" for one rather than the others. So it seems calling this "racist" is a little extreme. Sometimes all I wanted was the guy with the biggest penis and found orientals were the smallest until I found one with one of the biggest I've ever seen... Then all I wanted was orientals. icon_lol.gif

    No, I do not find this racist.


    You did had racist thoughts at the time, but you explored. May guys wont even do as little as that. They rather still have racialist thoughts.


    It was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.


    Clearly you must be if you are saying all "orientals" have small penises. Then have the nerve lump them all into one group as some sort of fetish.


    By that standard it would be racist to say all orientals are smarter than the rest.... Sorry, it's a no go for me. Give up while you can.icon_biggrin.gif


    Actually studies show that Jews are considered to be smarter than Asians. So your reply holds no water because you both think that are Asians are smart with small penises. You just dug a bigger hole. Stop trolling, its obvious that stock was yours.


    It is stereotyping... Not racism... Keep digging..

    You know what I find ironic is this case scenario:

    I'm standing in a room with an Oriental, African American, and Hispanic. If I choose one the other two can call me racist based on how I prioritize my needs? We have a right to preference and the world will be coming to an end the day they apply Affirmative Action to our sex lives.icon_rolleyes.gif

    I will stick to the guy with the biggest dick, biggest heart, or biggest wallet... Whichever I choose is my business.icon_cool.gif


    You still stereotyped them, TWICE.
    No one is going to call you racist for choosing one over the other, youre being called racist for generalizing a race. No one cares who you sleep with.


    I cant disagree with your statement


    I guess were done here.


    At least until you are done using the white race in your laboratory experiments. Yes, we are done here.icon_rolleyes.gif


    There arent any white people being used a social lab experiment.
    Where did you get this silly idea from?


    From your language.


    Youve thought nothing about other races being experimented on, thus they obviously important. I could derive that from your comments.


    Oh no, you are sinking.


    Lack of defense...
    Just admit you were being racist so we can move on...


    Shout out my words to the world and see what becomes of it. You lost.
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    Jul 29, 2012 10:41 PM GMT
    partially racist, partially strong sexual preference. is it sexist to advertise "i wont do women no matter how attractive you are'? i dunno but, it seems like it is on the line to me. does sound like racism is the motive for his preference though lol
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    Jul 29, 2012 11:07 PM GMT
    It was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.[/quote]

    True.... no it wasn't racist.. sort of lol It kind of was but it wasn't anything to get all untangled over...
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    Jul 29, 2012 11:17 PM GMT
    Shell saidIt was stereotyping yes... But no, it was not racism. Sometimes I was in the mood for orientals and didn't mind their penis size. Other times I did mind. I am not going to let the word "racism" be used to manipulate my sex life... Aint gonna happen. I have never been racist.


    True.... no it wasn't racist.. sort of lol It kind of was but it wasn't anything to get all untangled over...[/quote]

    Glad someone sees the Truth.

    The way I see it, the word "racism" is not only a bad word, it is also highly abused. I do get personal about it when I am accused of it because I am the farthest thing from racist. I also am not going to explain myself away on something I am not; this is where I find the word being abused.

    But, no big deal. As you can see I just dropped it even though he wanted to take it further. I am much happier not making racism a part of my life and just moving on. icon_cool.gif
  • Timbales

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    Jul 29, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    racist - believing that your own race is inherently superior to others and that other races are inferior to your own

    prejudiced - unreasonable feelings, opinions, or attitudes, especially of a hostile nature, regarding a racial, religious, or national group.
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    Timbales saidracist - believing that your own race is inherently superior to others and that other races are inferior to your own

    prejudiced - unreasonable feelings, opinions, or attitudes, especially of a hostile nature, regarding a racial, religious, or national group.



    Thanks!!

    That was the word i was thinking of but could not remember it.. prejudice.. but not really even that.. i'm not attracted to a Chinese guy for no particular reason.. it's jus really not my preference..

    Would that make me racist? No.... it means that I have boundaries/honest preferences..and i can't help the fact that I'm not attracted to him.. hmm... i hate racism discussions...

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    Jul 30, 2012 4:49 AM GMT
    Aress saidAdam4Adam?
    I've seen opposite profiles of black guys who refused white guys or guys of different races who refused Asians altogether.
    It would be hard to judge whether or not he is actually a racist. Just because I don't want to have sex with women, doesn't mean I hate them.


    Your analogy is interesting. It would be clear that you don't want to have sex with women: reason is you're gay. This guy does not want to have anything to do with a black guy, no matter how light their skin is (make sure I added this): reason being is...? I would have given him the benefit of the doubt if it were not for his "light skinned" comment. I think this goes beyond preference.

    I believe that most of us are confused when it comes to what preference really means. The "not sleeping with women" analogy that some of you guys are using to justify this add is completely not a preference. You're all gay so that's why you don't want to sleep with women, period. A preference is something you sometimes like to give into or not give into. Example: Today I prefer strawberries but tomorrow I may prefer raisins or blueberries. Therefore, I have a preference for ALL 3 said foods sometimes. This guy is NEVER attracted to ANY black guys (no matter how light their skin is) which therefore NOT making it a preference. If he would have stated that "I'm not in the mood for black guys today," now we're talking about preference.
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    Jul 30, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    He sounds racist. It's all in his "display"... but whatever. Anyone black should just skip his ass. What the fuck ever. Dirt off my shoulder.

    He sounds like he got a lot of replies from Black guys and got annoyed.