I asked for this guy's number and he said "no"

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    Jul 30, 2012 12:29 AM GMT
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    Jul 30, 2012 12:31 AM GMT
    how'd you ask lol
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    Jul 30, 2012 1:14 AM GMT
    At least you had the guts to ask. Be proud of that.
  • jeremylk7

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    Jul 30, 2012 1:32 AM GMT
    Fuck him then! icon_twisted.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 30, 2012 1:34 AM GMT
    I usually give them my cell # - and they never call.....icon_cry.gif
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    Jul 30, 2012 1:45 AM GMT
    Yes, it hurts sometimes doesn't it? Makes you feel worthless and as though something you hold high about yourself was just smashed to pieces.

    I'll tell ya... I'm 41 and I have been around the block with guys quite a bit. It seems half the time I got men who were far better than I was and half the time I went with guys far less than I was. I lost myself and who I was in the process.

    Looking back now I have no regrets because I was simply the person in the middle. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses including you. There's no need to cut yourself short because this guy did not see the magnificent parts of who you are.

    Life is really a learning experience and how fortunate we are to have the chance to experience it. Enjoy sometime alone getting to know you when you begin feeling depressed by what may seem unfair at times. It will make you a stronger person! And if you feel you are already spending too much time alone, don't jump out at people in desperation because often it shows your weaknesses before your strengths.

    Today I just look back on many of the foolish things I've done and the lucky breaks I have had as well. In the end I will not find myself able to deny that life was truly fair to me. It has been a wonderful ride in all of it's happiness and pain. I was blessed by some random opportunity to form within my Mother's womb and to be raised by such wonderful people.

    So what if people can't see the greater side of you and me, it doesn't mean nobody ever will. You just have to let go and enjoy whatever other opportunities are there to enjoy and let the others come around when they may. Peace man.
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    Jul 30, 2012 1:52 AM GMT
    Boland92 saidicon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif

    Aim lower. Dont get above yourself.
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    Jul 30, 2012 2:35 AM GMT
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  • Pontifex

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    Jul 30, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
    Boland92 saidicon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif




    Someone had to do it...
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    Jul 30, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
    Boland92 saidicon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    You must really fucking suck. I've had 100% success rate for the past 5 years asking for phone numbers. icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 30, 2012 4:12 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Boland92 saidicon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    You must really fucking suck. I've had 100% success rate for the past 5 years asking for phone numbers. icon_cool.gif


    Please for the love of god leave the room. you are suffocating me with your ego. COUGH COUGH. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 30, 2012 4:13 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Boland92 saidicon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    You must really fucking suck. I've had 100% success rate for the past 5 years asking for phone numbers. icon_cool.gif


    I thought I got his number but it was for the suicide prevention hotline.
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    Jul 30, 2012 5:35 AM GMT
    I often say no. I try and be sweet and say something cute like, "this time, I will have to say, no fucking way." Or even worse, "again with the kvetching, I said no, I will not giving you my number already..."
    No means no.
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    Jul 30, 2012 7:58 AM GMT
    oh look life.... lets go join that!
  • jeremylk7

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    Jul 30, 2012 11:45 AM GMT
    The truth is, if you don't keep putting yourself out there like that you won't find the guy of your dreams. Keep trying. It was only one person.
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    Jul 30, 2012 12:38 PM GMT
    You win some you lose some!..
    Did he have a big ass..??..icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 01, 2012 7:53 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidYou win some you lose some!..
    Did he have a big ass..??..icon_biggrin.gif


    MY EXACT QUESTIONicon_eek.gif