Jul 30, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
Do other muscular, fit gay men only date other muscular fit men? I mean I have a good physique but i'm not totally ripped. i guess to get the guys i want, i have to get more fit?
Vaughn saidI don't know. I'm slender but I get just as much attention as guys who are buff and ripped from the same sort of guys they get attention from. I'm speaking in real life not in Grindr. It's a relative thing. Don't just blame other p[eople's attractions, look at your manurisms, your pesonality and your apearance. Change your hair and your atire. Your approach.
Kyboy270 saidThey do if that can manage it! I went to the gym to get bigger so I'd have a chance with big guys. This is a superficial thing to get more attention and possibly more action, but the more guys that are interested in you gives you more options. I say get yourself in the best shape you can to maximize your possibilities.LOL Paul Wagner? Nice choice. I saw a guy on Grindr using this old pic of Jeff Gannon HAHAHA. When I told the dude he wasn't Jeff Gannon he was like how would you know. The guy was claiming to be in his 30s according to his profile and I was like uhhh Jeff is in his mid 50s and why would he be in BFE Ohio... He didn't block me but he didn't change the pic either lol.
Here's an anecdote: Once i replaced my picture on grindr with this big beautiful specimen of man.
Fifteen minutes later, this was my grindr:
I got tons of messages from guys!! I thought to myself, if i really was this sexy guy, and I had all these people sending me messages saying "you're hot", who am I going to respond to? THE BEST LOOKING ONES. Of COURSE.
The gay dating world. Harsh reality. It sucks. You have to compete!