This guys is bullying me at work

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    Jul 30, 2012 6:44 PM GMT
    He won't stop
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 30, 2012 7:03 PM GMT
    Hide a bunch of mouse traps in and around his desk, and when someone asks if you're trying to catch a mouse, say, "No, I'm trying to catch a rat."
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    Jul 30, 2012 7:05 PM GMT
    Details Op..details..!!
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    Jul 30, 2012 7:05 PM GMT
    Give him the right hook, he will stop
  • Webster666

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    Jul 30, 2012 8:08 PM GMT
    He is creating a "hostile work environment."
    Write down the exact details of each and every incident.
    Report him to management.
  • d694485

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    Jul 30, 2012 8:11 PM GMT
    He just has a crush on you.
  • Import

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    Jul 30, 2012 8:44 PM GMT
    he want's that sweet little ass
  • PBLH

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    Jul 30, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    I too agree that if you give him the right look he may stop, or he may indeed like you...
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    Jul 30, 2012 9:36 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidHe is creating a "hostile work environment."
    Write down the exact details of each and every incident.
    Report him to management.

    That won't work here in Florida, if the bullying is about the OP being gay. Only if the company itself has an internal policy preventing harassment. But there are no State laws to specifically protect gays from bullying. Republicans have declared such laws to be "special treatment" that gives an unfair advantage to gays over other citizens.
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    Jul 30, 2012 9:36 PM GMT
    I get bullied at work too, but I simply say "I'm telling mom"... And he immidiatly stops..
    I'm assuming in your case it's not your older brother?? icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 30, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    Come out as a conservative here at RJ, it will soon toughen you up, and help you deal with bullies..
  • NashRugger

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    Jul 30, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    Awesome, thanks for the details, bro.
  • FireDoor211

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    Jul 30, 2012 9:41 PM GMT
    Call a bunch of your beefy real jock buds to show up and return the favor. Nothing delights me more than throwing down with a bully. It's nice to throw in, "how's it feel to get your ass kicked by a fag!"
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    Jul 30, 2012 9:43 PM GMT
    ok but what's he doing to bully you...
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    Jul 30, 2012 9:47 PM GMT
    KICK THE PISS OUT OF HIM


    glad i could help
  • Jasonblue

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    Jul 30, 2012 9:52 PM GMT
    lucky_sevn saidKICK THE PISS OUT OF HIM


    glad i could help


    lulz - that should do the trick.

    In all seriousness, have a private conversation with him about it, he'll likely back off. (Dealt with many like this.) Sometimes they aren't even aware they're coming off as jerks.
  • drypin

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    Jul 30, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
    Take one of those ice slushies and shove against the back of his neck and then down the back of his shirt!
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    Jul 30, 2012 10:14 PM GMT
    Vogue until he vomits.
  • suedeheadscot

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    Jul 30, 2012 10:24 PM GMT
    So what the hell is this guy doing to you???!?
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    Jul 30, 2012 10:50 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidVogue until he vomits.


    LOL..LOL..
    Well we have to thank Lesbians for inventing.....
    Tire Slashing
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    Jul 30, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Webster666 saidHe is creating a "hostile work environment."
    Write down the exact details of each and every incident.
    Report him to management.

    That won't work here in Florida, if the bullying is about the OP being gay. Only if the company itself has an internal policy preventing harassment. But there are no State laws to specifically protect gays from bullying. Republicans have declared such laws to be "special treatment" that gives an unfair advantage to gays over other citizens.


    First of all, I completely agree with writing down the details and alerting him to management. No one should have to deal with that kind of bullshit at work. To be fair though, it shouldn't matter if someone is gay, straight, black, white, male, female, etc. I don't agree that gays would be given special treatment, but I don't believe there needs to be special laws. Harassment is harassment.

    I feel the same way about hate crimes. Does it really matter if a crime was motivated by prejudice versus some other reason? Creating a separate set of more extreme penalties for a subset of evidentially similar crimes makes little sense because assault is assault and murder is murder. The outcomes are pretty much the same whether it's death, injury, or psychological damage.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 30, 2012 11:03 PM GMT
    Whip out your dick and tell him to suck on it
  • nv7_

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    Jul 30, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidVogue until he vomits.


    I still love you. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 30, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    nv7_ said
    RunintheCity saidVogue until he vomits.


    I still love you. icon_biggrin.gif


    The bully would probably think it's ninja moves. If he knew it was voguing...well, we'd know why he's a bully then!
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    Jul 30, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidWhip out your dick and tell him to suck on it


    Tit for tat!