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    Aug 10, 2008 4:55 PM GMT
    Recently I read in an article by some psychologist, that the number one fantasy, for men, is about rape!

    That each man secretly wishes to either be raped or rape someone. icon_eek.gif

    Thinking more on it, there are some thoughts of it that I admit do tickle my fancy!

    What do you guys think??
    If you agree, which part of the rape aspect would you rather be on??



    P.S. As for me, I think I would rather be raped....haha! As wierd as that sounds, it sounds hott for the guy to have such control over you....icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 10, 2008 5:00 PM GMT
    Rape = Sex you DO NOT want.

    'A Victim of Rape Fantasy' is an oxymoron.

    Even if someone forces you and you secretly liked it, it wouldn't technically be rape. Which is what most of you are thinking about when you say 'raped'. For masochists, especially, or submissive personalities, it also wouldn't count as rape since they derive pleasure from pain/abuse/authority, which makes them WANT it.

    Now imagine of the most disgusting man you can think of (according to your own criteria of attractiveness) forcing you to have sex with him - THAT is rape. And it isn't exciting.



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    Aug 10, 2008 5:21 PM GMT
    In what I am implying however, is that in some way or another you wish to rape or be raped by someone of your choice....

    And although, technically, liking to be raped wouldnt be considered real rape, I think its the whole idea of being completely taken over.

    I cannot really explain it, only because this is from an article I read. Just bear with me!
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    Aug 10, 2008 5:26 PM GMT
    Okay... I get you. was just a warning though, since I know people in real life and the internet who have been raped. It's really something no one would want. They don't even take rape jokes well.

    As for me, yep, domination fantasies, me being the dominated, no physical abuse though, that's a turn off for me. icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 10, 2008 5:51 PM GMT
    So technacally it's consentual rape, meaning domination. I think domination could be hot, providing it is not take too far. Not into the pain thing...pain is kinda a turn off lol.
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    Aug 10, 2008 7:32 PM GMT
    In some major cities, there are underground groups where one can pay someone to kidnap and rape them at random. You pay your fee, but you don't get to choose when or where it is going to happen. You can stipulate certain limits... like safe or unsafe, and how rough you want them to be.

    I'm sure it's very expensive... but sounds very hot to be on either end... I'm game ;)

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    Aug 10, 2008 9:21 PM GMT
    THe capture and release idea is HOT I can give you a discount price
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    Aug 11, 2008 1:00 AM GMT
    I fantasize periodically about abducting and raping hot guys at random. But they always give in to their pleasure during my daydreaming.
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    Aug 11, 2008 2:09 AM GMT
    BigSETXjock saidIn some major cities, there are underground groups where one can pay someone to kidnap and rape them at random. You pay your fee, but you don't get to choose when or where it is going to happen. You can stipulate certain limits... like safe or unsafe, and how rough you want them to be.

    I'm sure it's very expensive... but sounds very hot to be on either end... I'm game ;)





    OMG WHERE IS THIS HAPPENING AND HOW CAN I GET IN ON IT!?!

    I mean....uhhhh....what??
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    Aug 11, 2008 5:24 AM GMT
    which part of the rape aspect would you rather be on??

    Take me, motherfucker!
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    Aug 14, 2008 6:17 PM GMT
    MuslDrew saidI fantasize periodically about abducting and raping hot guys at random. But they always give in to their pleasure during my daydreaming.


    want my address?
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    Aug 14, 2008 6:24 PM GMT
    hey, I have always liked the idea of being rape or forced sex.

    Recently had a 3way were this was kind of lived out and was very hot! Had a smile on my face for a week after.
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    Aug 14, 2008 6:47 PM GMT
    in a controlled (consensual) situation I think most of us would find it stimulating.

    I def think it could be hot to have a guy dominate me sexually. icon_razz.gif


    I never really desired it before, but dated a guy for a while that had a very deep voice and loved to tell me what he wanted to do to me over the phone and then was verbal during sex and Beeeiiong!!!
    Hello, I think we have a winner! icon_wink.gif

    But just as role play sort-of-thing, not an all the time event. Mix it up!!

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    Aug 14, 2008 6:48 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidI think it's hot to fantasize about it. Of course this is for fantasy type play and I only think of the type of guys that turn me on. I would always tear into my bottoms like I was raping them. They loved it. I'd hold them down and/or hold their mouth shut. Get verbally abusive.
    It's a winning combination of rapist traits that keeps 'em coming back for more.

    I didn't know that my fantasies were so readily shared by other men. I like to bottom more these days so I think about being on the receiving end. And even gang rapes. icon_twisted.gif


    Holy cow...I could only imagine what something like that would be with you, SIGN ME UP!! icon_biggrin.gif

    But yeah, someone having total control over you, HOT.
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    Aug 17, 2008 12:17 AM GMT
    I had a guy who wanted me to play the rape victim, it was OK but he got way too rough and I threw him out, the jerk! He tore my good shirt!

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    Aug 17, 2008 2:27 AM GMT
    BigSETXjock saidIn some major cities, there are underground groups where one can pay someone to kidnap and rape them at random. You pay your fee, but you don't get to choose when or where it is going to happen. You can stipulate certain limits... like safe or unsafe, and how rough you want them to be.

    I'm sure it's very expensive... but sounds very hot to be on either end... I'm game ;)




    I'm sure I saw that in a movie before, or a t.v. series, but yeah I'm not one to want to experience it and hope I never do.
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    Aug 17, 2008 8:46 AM GMT
    I have to admit ... sometimes the thought of it turns me on. But I don't think I would want it to happen to me ;) Just a harmless little fantasy I have from time to time... nothing more.
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    Aug 17, 2008 11:51 AM GMT
    First fantasizing about murder, then rape. Hoodiestud I am starting to worry about you. icon_eek.gif

    No I have never fantasized about being raped or raping someone. Just like I have never fantasized about prison sex, or being fisted, or being tied up and tortured. First of all I have a healthy supply of self-respect, and second of all I don't go looking for pain!
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    Aug 17, 2008 4:51 PM GMT
    AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN in MY bed......only joy, happiness and mind blowing orgasms are gonna take place.
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    Aug 18, 2008 6:15 AM GMT
    Rape is motivated by power, not sexual fulfillment. Some like dominating and some like being dominated, but to put it in terms of rape, a crime, is foolish. Another dip shit doctor, if I say so myself.
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    Aug 19, 2008 1:18 PM GMT
    I love dominating a hot bottom..shoving him around, pinning him down and holding him against the bed so he cant move. I also like getting rough, so I always like a man who can take whatever I can dish out.

    I have two friends who are dominant tops and once in awhile we'll split a hot bottom and it always seems that they like to be totally dominated and used and abused. It's funny to hear "Stop! Stop! (no, seriously, don't stop)" lol

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    Aug 19, 2008 6:28 PM GMT
    SurrealLife saidFirst fantasizing about murder, then rape. Hoodiestud I am starting to worry about you. icon_eek.gif

    No I have never fantasized about being raped or raping someone. Just like I have never fantasized about prison sex, or being fisted, or being tied up and tortured. First of all I have a healthy supply of self-respect, and second of all I don't go looking for pain!


    First off sir, I dont "fantasize" about murder or rape.
    The murder topic was just a question because like i said in a post, everyone thinks about it, but are too scared to admit or share it with anyone else cuz of being condoned for a thought.

    Not to mention, the rape question came from an article I read, so if youre beginning to "worry" about me, then maybe you shouldnt read or post to my forums??

    Just food for thought....
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    Aug 19, 2008 7:12 PM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidI love dominating a hot bottom..shoving him around, pinning him down and holding him against the bed so he cant move. I also like getting rough, so I always like a man who can take whatever I can dish out.

    I have two friends who are dominant tops and once in awhile we'll split a hot bottom and it always seems that they like to be totally dominated and used and abused. It's funny to hear "Stop! Stop! (no, seriously, don't stop)" lol



    Damn...all these dominant guys, you're driving me nuts!

    SurrealLife saidFirst fantasizing about murder, then rape. Hoodiestud I am starting to worry about you.

    No I have never fantasized about being raped or raping someone. Just like I have never fantasized about prison sex, or being fisted, or being tied up and tortured. First of all I have a healthy supply of self-respect, and second of all I don't go looking for pain!



    That's great that you have self-respect, but that doesn't mean that people who might be into things that you're not don't. I'm just sayin...
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    Aug 19, 2008 8:17 PM GMT
    rnch saidAIN'T GONNA HAPPEN in MY bed......only joy, happiness and mind blowing orgasms are gonna take place.


    Rape is about power and anger...these are not emotions that I care to play out sexually. My power comes from a million other thigs in life (including hot sex) and my anger is handled in better ways.

    I am totallt turned off when a guy wants me to "abuse" him, and I am so much against me being abused.

    Perhaps all the rape fantasy people would feel differently if they were the victim of a real rape. It's horrible....Nuff said.

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    Aug 19, 2008 8:30 PM GMT
    oh my god..seriously, no one is talking about getting raped for reals. And besides, if someone gets turned on by the thought of getting raped, why do you care? Just don't rape people...whats the big deal?

    Its a fantasy..and if the guy with the fantasy wants to get dominated then its consensual and no one is getting hurt.

    ease up...

    (I'd be happy to dominate you, hoodie).