What are all the Red Flags to look for?

  • rac727

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    Jul 31, 2012 7:45 PM GMT
    ok so i being a jr. gay have yet to learn all (if any) of the red flags to look for in a guy that i shouldn't be involved with if you read my previous forum post (case of the fake people) i remember someone mentioned guys who just jump into relationships quickly is a red flag what are some other red flags? icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 31, 2012 7:52 PM GMT
    Guys who don't talk dirty to you occasionally. Every guy gets horny. If they're not talking to you, who are they talking too
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 31, 2012 7:58 PM GMT
    Guy's who talk dirty to you ... they'll be hooking up with every guy in town behind your back.icon_biggrin.gif
  • FireDoor211

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    Jul 31, 2012 7:59 PM GMT
    a red flag... they only text when u're out of the room.
  • d694485

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    Jul 31, 2012 7:59 PM GMT
    Guys who don't talk to you.
  • FireDoor211

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    Jul 31, 2012 8:00 PM GMT
    Guy's who are uncomfortable being asked personal questions.
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    Jul 31, 2012 8:02 PM GMT
    FireDoor211 saida red flag... they only text when u're out of the room.


    a red flag... they're texting when u're out of the room.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 31, 2012 8:07 PM GMT
    They have a cummy smell on their breath at the bar ... and you didn't have sex with them that day yet
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    Jul 31, 2012 8:07 PM GMT
    Guys who constantly look for red flags...
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 31, 2012 8:08 PM GMT
    They always delete their call list
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 31, 2012 8:12 PM GMT
    Guys with cats. That's a HUUUUGE red flag, especially if they have more than one cat.
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    Jul 31, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    acpreppy said what are some other red flags?


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  • great_scott

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    Jul 31, 2012 8:34 PM GMT
    Guys that are unusually adamant about taking things "slow". Bright red! Probably means there's something undesirable (usually a social disease) holding them back. A for honesty though.
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    Jul 31, 2012 8:49 PM GMT
    acpreppy saidok so i being a jr. gay have yet to learn all (if any) of the red flags to look for in a guy that i shouldn't be involved with if you read my previous forum post (case of the fake people) i remember someone mentioned guys who just jump into relationships quickly is a red flag what are some other red flags? icon_smile.gif


    1) Signs of aggressive behavior
    2) Doesn't use condoms
    3) Says he doesn't have sex with gay friends
    4) Criticizes you on the first few dates
    5) Uses drugs
    6) Gossips about people a lot
    7) As already mentioned, quick to enter a "relationship"
    8 Has no goals in life
    9) Blames his life on childhood
    10) Asks for money quite often
    11) Uses the word "hate" a little too often
    12) Send me a profile and I will analyze it for you icon_lol.gif
  • FireDoor211

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    Jul 31, 2012 8:53 PM GMT
    Guys who offer up rand bits of information about where they were or what they've been doing completely unprompted.
  • d694485

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    Jul 31, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
    great_scott saidGuys that are unusually adamant about taking things "slow". Bright red! Probably means there's something undesirable (usually a social disease) holding them back. A for honesty though.


    social disease??
  • masculumpedes

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    Jul 31, 2012 8:57 PM GMT
    Guys that won't show their feet - if a guy has something wrong with their feet...chances are there's something wrong with another area of their body also. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 31, 2012 9:01 PM GMT
    sctsm saidGuys who constantly look for red flags...


    I like this one; why so judgmental? RED flags is code for elitism. If you believe you are too good for anyone you will never find anyone.
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    Jul 31, 2012 9:03 PM GMT
    Mitt Romney bumper sticker.

    Also, no firearms in the house.
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    Jul 31, 2012 9:13 PM GMT
    Says he doesn't want a relationship.

    Take him at his word. Don't try to change his mind. Chances are you'll waste time trying to.
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    Jul 31, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    They aren't out.
    Can't commit to regular meet ups.
    Cagey personality
    Talk about themselves all the time.
    Constantly check their phone.
    Self hater/homophobe.
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    Jul 31, 2012 9:31 PM GMT
    Skulls in the fridge/freezer. Seriously.

    Dave's got some, but I'm already all-in. Too late now! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    (EDIT: This is a reference to a thread from a few weeks ago: "How much are the contents of your fridge worth?")
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    Jul 31, 2012 10:15 PM GMT
    OP..why don't you try another dating format..??
    Your last forum..i concluded that you are a humble, kinda' ..laid back guy.
    Let's be honest ..How well is online dating treating you..??
    Do you have the ability to see what is real through ..these pics..and words..and promises..??
    ..Now the posters here are arming you with 1001 red flags to look for when dating...
    How can you truly enjoy your dating experience when you are looking around for all these red flags.?..
    Just putting that out there..good luck hunting...Anocxu
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    Jul 31, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
    jr gays lol
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    Jul 31, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    Obscure said
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    acpreppy saidok so i being a jr. gay have yet to learn all (if any) of the red flags to look for in a guy that i shouldn't be involved with if you read my previous forum post (case of the fake people) i remember someone mentioned guys who just jump into relationships quickly is a red flag what are some other red flags? icon_smile.gif



    3) Says he doesn't have sex with gay friends

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    I dont understand #3.



    I often find gay guys will use the word "friend" and "boyfriend" interchangeably. It shows me insecurity of sleeping around a lot... Now you have forced me to reveal the details of my secret screening process! No more questions!icon_lol.gificon_wink.gif