3rd date! We just had "lets talk"

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    Aug 01, 2012 4:08 PM GMT
    3rd date and we just hung out together for the last few days. i had 2 days off and never went home lol... this morning we both agreed to be exclusive as. monogomy is extremely important for both of us! Trying to control myself as this man is hot, tall, built, smart and so funny.
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    Aug 01, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    3rd date and you had "the talk" maybe you guys are lesbians. Have fun you barely know each other and a hot flames burns out fast.
    It's not like you're 18-22icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 01, 2012 4:53 PM GMT
    Lol well you seem to be super excited which is cool, why not?
    Look people will have rules on when is a good time to or not to have "the talk" but honestly if you both just keep an honest and open communication between each other I don't see there being any problems.

    If you feel you've committed to each too fast, talk about it with each other and work it out from there. If you're both over the moon about your unanimous decision then that's cool too.

    Wish you all the best icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 01, 2012 4:54 PM GMT
    Congrats man, all the besticon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 01, 2012 6:12 PM GMT
    NICEicon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 01, 2012 6:14 PM GMT
    MikemikeMike said3rd date and you had "the talk" maybe you guys are lesbians. Have fun you barely know each other and a hot flames burns out fast.
    It's not like you're 18-22icon_lol.gif

    Maybe older people need less time to make decisions because they have more experience with seeing past the bullshit younger people bring to the table?
    Either way, good for the OP and moving quickly to monogamy and "the talk" whatever that means.
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    Aug 01, 2012 6:23 PM GMT
    That's nice! Congrats!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 01, 2012 6:25 PM GMT
    That's great to hear man. Hope it all works out well for you. Would be nice to hear some positive relationship/dating stories for a change.
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    Aug 01, 2012 6:55 PM GMT
    sounds great... sometimes you just know!

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    Aug 01, 2012 11:16 PM GMT
    Very jealous but happy for you!
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    Aug 01, 2012 11:17 PM GMT
    Great for you. Best of luck.
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    Aug 01, 2012 11:35 PM GMT
    If both of you agreed to this, then I'm very happy for you and wish you many, many happy years. Don't forget that you are still getting to know each other and you might discover things that really turn you off. Be ready to talk about issues and don't expect him to read your mind.

    If we never hear from you again we will assume you live happily ever after.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 02, 2012 12:35 AM GMT
    You're almost 50 and you're being exclusive with a guy after the 3rd date? icon_eek.gif
    Dude.....you should know better. You know how these shotgun weddings work. Don't you? icon_confused.gif
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    Aug 02, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidYou're almost 50 and you're being exclusive with a guy after the 3rd date? icon_eek.gif
    Dude.....you should know better. You know how these shotgun weddings work. Don't you? icon_confused.gif


    leave the guy alone! just because he's 50 doesn't mean he can't have a bit of excitement and spontaneity. so what if he gets his heart broken? no risk no reward.
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    Aug 02, 2012 12:40 AM GMT
    He just wants a quick fuck when he needs it. If that's your game, go for it if he's hot. I you're looking for love, move on.
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    Aug 02, 2012 1:25 AM GMT
    Blackguy4you said
    Scruffypup saidYou're almost 50 and you're being exclusive with a guy after the 3rd date? icon_eek.gif
    Dude.....you should know better. You know how these shotgun weddings work. Don't you? icon_confused.gif


    leave the guy alone! just because he's 50 doesn't mean he can't have a bit of excitement and spontaneity. so what if he gets his heart broken? no risk no reward.



    Well, of course it's exciting, but a broken heart is hardly worth that kind of emotional pain! But hey, if it works, I'm all for it, but we both know that's very unlikely after jumping into a relationship so quickly.
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    Aug 02, 2012 1:34 AM GMT
    Well I say congrats to you.
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    Aug 02, 2012 4:52 AM GMT
    My man is a retired correctional officer/cop and trust me, he's a no BS kinda guy .. we both have a long history of being monogomus and when we met and chatted we both had instant physical attraction and then all the other pieces just fell into place. my ex of 12 years, um we moved in together after 2 weeks! After our 1st date I was already seriously interested and well sometimes you just know when the right man pops into your life !
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    Aug 02, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    MuchoMasQueMusculo said
    MikemikeMike said3rd date and you had "the talk" maybe you guys are lesbians.


    No no, babe. Lesbians commit after two dates, not three.
    You mean to tell me lesbians don't commit till after they've moved in together? (first date)
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    Aug 02, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    MuchoMasQueMusculo said
    MikemikeMike said3rd date and you had "the talk" maybe you guys are lesbians.

    No no, babe. Lesbians commit after two dates, not three.
    You mean to tell me lesbians don't commit till after they've moved in together? (first date)

    Well I've often heard it said that while a man might bring flowers on a first date, a lesbian brings a U-Haul rental truck.
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    Aug 02, 2012 5:13 AM GMT
    Congrats! That's great. I'm very happy for you.
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    Aug 02, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes said
    MuchoMasQueMusculo said
    MikemikeMike said3rd date and you had "the talk" maybe you guys are lesbians.

    No no, babe. Lesbians commit after two dates, not three.
    You mean to tell me lesbians don't commit till after they've moved in together? (first date)

    Well I've often heard it said that while a man might bring flowers on a first date, a lesbian brings a U-Haul rental truck.
    The classy lesbians use Hertz.
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    Aug 02, 2012 5:28 AM GMT
    6'3" built 250lbs... shorty got a big man! smart stupidly funny and sexy...slow and steady! The only problem we have is he likes hairy backs and I like mine shaved and smooth lol.. guess I'm not shaving my back now!
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    Aug 02, 2012 2:56 PM GMT
    Lol ..nobody said anything about moving in together , just being monogomus and dating icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 02, 2012 6:25 PM GMT
    shortmuscleguy said6'3" built 250lbs... shorty got a big man! smart stupidly funny and sexy...slow and steady! The only problem we have is he likes hairy backs and I like mine shaved and smooth lol.. guess I'm not shaving my back now!



    just shave one side of your back! problem solved... you are welcome