Experienced Bottoms: are average penises enjoyable after enjoying a big penis

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    Aug 01, 2012 8:41 PM GMT
    Most guys who are new to bottoming or guys who don't bottom often, seem to prefer an average or even smaller sized penis. But for the experienced bottom, once you get past the initial pain/discomfort of taking bigger cocks (in particular bigger girths of 5.5" +), is bottoming for an average or smaller penis less enjoyable? Do you miss the full feeling of a bigger penis even if a smaller one is easier or less painful to take?
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 01, 2012 8:53 PM GMT
    It's like throwing a hotdog down a hallway, sweetie.
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    Aug 01, 2012 9:39 PM GMT
    in short no.

    bigger is better after a while.

    unless hes got some serious skills
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    Aug 02, 2012 12:10 AM GMT
    Is that a rule? I feel like there's got to be a lot of guys like me that always prefer a more "manageable" average sized cock ... Or maybe guys like me just don't bottom enough for us to stop finding bigger cocks to be a little bit painful.
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    Aug 02, 2012 1:00 AM GMT
    yourname2000Yeah..."manageable" please.

    Anal isn't the only "sport"....I want that thing in every orifice I have and my mouth is only so big.


    True. I love being able to get it all in my mouth! But, it is really hot to try to force a big one down my throat ... before I get lazy and/or sore that is.

    Still not sure though if "manageable" is preferable for the experienced bottom who picks anal as his favorite sport.
  • jackthejock

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    Aug 02, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    I don't really know, my current boyfriend is by far the biggest guy I've ever bottomed for. But I can tell you that if it's been over a week since we've done it I still need a lot of foreplay with some lube and fingers and toys before I'll bottom for him.
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    Aug 02, 2012 2:13 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidYeah..."manageable" please.

    Anal isn't the only "sport"....I want that thing in every orifice I have and my mouth is only so big. icon_biggrin.gif Actually, oral is waaaaaay more important to me than anal...and some lollipops are just too damb big. icon_evil.gif

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    i completely agree. i think though, that after being with a very well endowed man for a while, the feeling of being full becomes quite the bonus. and thereafter a "managable" member, seems relatively smaller. one that would have been managable for me a few years ago, would seem eeny weeny now after being with my partner for three years. and i think i would struggle to appreciate his bedroom artistry icon_biggrin.gif

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    Aug 02, 2012 4:00 PM GMT
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    i think though, that after being with a very well endowed man for a while, the feeling of being full becomes quite the bonus. and thereafter a "managable" member, seems relatively smaller. one that would have been managable for me a few years ago, would seem eeny weeny now after being with my partner for three years. and i think i would struggle to appreciate his bedroom artistry


    Thanks for the feedback! Sucks for me though. I don’t need to be huge just for huge’s sake; I’m fine with my size. But, I do want my partner to have the best bottoming experience possible and don't want him to be stuck with a penis that cannot stimulate him fully just because he happens to love the person that the penis is attached to. And unfortunately, it sounds like any penis smaller than the biggest he has had in the past simply cannot stimulate him fully. At least not as far as physical stimulation goes.

    Any tips for the average guy who has to follow in the big footsteps of your current well endowed partner?
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    Aug 02, 2012 6:49 PM GMT
    Well for just sex if the guy has a great physique thats what matters unless its so small he just can't get it in, then he may as well just move on. But for relationship a sculpted guy with a big dick will have my commitment more than the genitally challenged guy.
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    Aug 03, 2012 11:29 AM GMT
    jrmdavis said
    lucky_sevn
    i think though, that after being with a very well endowed man for a while, the feeling of being full becomes quite the bonus. and thereafter a "managable" member, seems relatively smaller. one that would have been managable for me a few years ago, would seem eeny weeny now after being with my partner for three years. and i think i would struggle to appreciate his bedroom artistry


    Thanks for the feedback! Sucks for me though. I don’t need to be huge just for huge’s sake; I’m fine with my size. But, I do want my partner to have the best bottoming experience possible and don't want him to be stuck with a penis that cannot stimulate him fully just because he happens to love the person that the penis is attached to. And unfortunately, it sounds like any penis smaller than the biggest he has had in the past simply cannot stimulate him fully. At least not as far as physical stimulation goes.

    Any tips for the average guy who has to follow in the big footsteps of your current well endowed partner?


    i think you misunderstand my point. or i wasnt clear.
    its not the biggest one is the best one and nothing will compare. its when you've been in a relationship and had sex most days/nights with a large one,and enjoyed the feeling of being full, a smaller one will seem less appealing.

    for at least a month or two, i was nervous with my bf because of his size and width, it was uncomfortable and painful for quite a while. but as i have gotten more able to relax, and im less worried about impressing him and more concerned with experienceing our love physically together. the pressure and then the discomfort subsides.

    dont worry, if you are really into each oter size just wont matter, unles you are really big or really small.

    but as for tips i would definately say confidence. as a bottom confidence is key for a top to me. forceful but gentle and have some tricks up your sleeve. things he wont be expecting icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 03, 2012 8:18 PM GMT
    the only man who ever made me shoot handsfree was my bf at the time who had a smaller penis....but OMG....that man had crazy skills
  • Hothouse

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    Aug 03, 2012 8:25 PM GMT
    It ain't the size, boys, it ain't the size.
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    Aug 03, 2012 11:18 PM GMT
    Hidden/Deleted Memberthe only man who ever made me shoot handsfree was my bf at the time who had a smaller penis....but OMG....that man had crazy skills


    @lucky_sevn
    Sounds like that guy had some tricks up his sleeve.

    @yourname200
    I guess a bottom really won't miss the full feeling of a huge penis if the guy he's with really connects with him mentally/emotionally, and learns over time how to push the right buttons.

    Great advice!