To those who had sex with women...

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    Aug 11, 2008 1:31 PM GMT
    ...Were you sexually attracted to them at the time? Or did you have sex with them because it was the "right" thing to do?

    At what point did you realize that having sex with women didn't really interest you? Was it when you accepted your homosexuality? Shortly after?
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    Aug 11, 2008 2:27 PM GMT
    ewwwwww vageens!
  • GQjock

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    Aug 11, 2008 11:03 PM GMT
    It was like...
    That was okay, but what's all the fuss
    Now with Guys .... icon_biggrin.gif Whooeee!
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    Aug 11, 2008 11:04 PM GMT
    I had a short affair with a woman some years after I came out. She was hot. It was fun. I'm still gay.
  • Timbales

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    Aug 11, 2008 11:11 PM GMT
    Only once did I have sex with a girl I wasn't sexually attracted to. I was mad at the guy I had been seeing.
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    Aug 11, 2008 11:31 PM GMT
    I did it out of duty and I was drunk. icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 11, 2008 11:44 PM GMT
    It was just the thing to do. And alcohol helped. Big time.
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    Aug 11, 2008 11:45 PM GMT
    To those who had sex with a women...

    Why?
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    Aug 11, 2008 11:49 PM GMT
    If you were a southern fried football jock growing up in the 60's and 70's it was just... expected.

    I convinced myself I was attracted, but I was never satisfied.

    Then I did it with a guy - light bulbs, fireworks going off, bands playing, tada - OH, SO THAT"S WHAT ITS ABOUT.
  • PRDGUY

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    Aug 12, 2008 12:01 AM GMT
    As said before... yes she was a hottie and aroused me... better than the hand and blow jobs i got from other buds,

    THEN, I fucked a guy... and like sucking and jerking, guys just do it better!... women can still get me aroused and charged up, but if a hot guy wanted to hook up its easy.... I'd go with him....
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    Aug 12, 2008 12:01 AM GMT
    Well....I was already out to everyone, but still felt attraction to girls.

    When one of my girl friends asked if I had even given girls a "chance", I said yes, but not sexually. So then she offered me to have sex with her. Because I was mutually attracted to her, I accepted and we did the nasty several times after that.

    I noticed it just wasnt anything that there was nothing really there when we did it, I stopped. When I do it with guys that I am attracted to, however, the whole experience is a LOT different.
  • Timbales

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    Aug 12, 2008 12:04 AM GMT
    AMT87 saidTo those who had sex with a women...

    Why?


    because I liked it
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    Aug 12, 2008 12:43 AM GMT
    I had an ongoing sexual affair with a married woman for many years. She and I were workout partners as well...and one of my best workout partners I ever had. She knew I was gay at the time. One night she was drunk, I was drunk, and we had sex. It was okay. Then it was a few months after the first time and we did it again. And kept it going for way too long. She was my best friend as well. But she could never see me happy with another man...although she was married and had two kids.

    Anyways...it was nice. She told me I was very good at it, which I took as a compliment. But something was always lacking to me. It was the opportunity to flip. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 12, 2008 12:46 AM GMT
    I was and am still attracted to women. Sleeping with someone because its "the right thing to do" makes no sense. I would never have sex simply because its expected, that goes for males or females.
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    Aug 12, 2008 1:07 AM GMT
    sexually attracted to women, have sex with women...why, because it feels good.
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    Aug 12, 2008 1:12 AM GMT
    It's simply sex, a different kind of sex and feeling and sensation and no matter what anyone says when your dick is feeling good it'll let loose!!! Anyways, I'm not turned off by a woman sexually, however I am MUCH MORE strongly attracted to MEN!!!
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    Aug 12, 2008 1:18 AM GMT
    i had sex with a girl.

    twice infact.

    the first time i was sober so i had no excuses.
    second time totally corked.
    i wasnt so much attracted to her physically, it was mostly an emotional and intellectual attraction.

    she's now my best friend.

    never again will it happen though.
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    Aug 12, 2008 1:19 AM GMT
    Done pussy around 4000x more than boy butt. The jury is still out which one is better.
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    Aug 12, 2008 1:24 AM GMT
    from age of 17 to 19 got laid at least 4 times a week with a girl, almost got married;

    moved back home, tried sex with boys, from 19 to now strictly boys.


    Last week had opportunity to score with a girl again, and even with the lubie dubie foreplay, dick said NO! icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 12, 2008 1:30 AM GMT
    Since I got spat out of one. I've never wanted to go back!
  • upsguy68

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    Aug 12, 2008 1:47 AM GMT
    I have always been attracted to GUYS! But being from a small town, where heterosexuality is expected, I tried it with a female(3 or 4 times). It really was just to make sure that heterosexuality was NOT for ME!!
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    Aug 12, 2008 1:50 AM GMT
    Im with Chizzad, Im like 70/30 gay/bi but def prefer guys...but have been there and done that.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 12, 2008 2:37 AM GMT
    Why do I hear so often from persons who are sexually attracted to either sex that they resent "labels"?

    If you're bi, you're bi. What's wrong with that?
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    Aug 12, 2008 2:48 AM GMT
    whats wrong with that? nothing....unless you're on realjock.

    check the threads, elvis...many of them don't believe we even exist.
  • swimbikerun

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    Aug 12, 2008 2:48 AM GMT
    I had a girlfriend once a long time ago. Sex was good but it's amazing with a guy.
    I never had a double-orgasm with her!