Aug 11, 2008 7:47 PM GMT
Hey guys just looking to see what your thoughts are on this scenario: We have a guy, which we will call John and he is living with/together with a guy we will call James. (Names changed to protect the innocent and the guilty) John is fed up with James and on the verge of leaving James but he's finding it hard to do. James continually cheats on John, and has been physically abusive. James also has not had a job in over a month, leaving the full economic burden of the house and bills on John. John is a great guy with a big heart and is probably afraid of James and that's why the trouble leaving him. Do you think in this case it is fair game to pursue John? Normally, I would call it a definite foul to pursue someone who is in a relationship, but in this case would you say its fair game or a definite foul?