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First off, yes I am HIV positive. One of the newest stigma's I am finding are that guys come on here with toned body's and are HIV positive and the only torch they really carry for others is that "you can be just like me" rather than "this is what will happen to you if you continue ignoring your intuition".

As someone who has been HIV for over 10 years I do NOT find that HIV is this big accomplishment and where I found proof of this was in the decline of participants now attending AIDSwalk in my community. I don't blame them. We are tired of how awesome you look, how about telling about some of the morals you learned in the process, or have you?

I came on here and was bent out of shape because what I find in addition to the stigma of HIV is there are people running out and having tons of sex without worry that the condom will ever break thinking, "I'm gonna be just like that guy I saw all fit and healthy". BULLSHIT! I have been doing UNPAID volunteer work in the AIDS community for ages and I don't buy into that attention craving "donate your time to me" crap anymore.

I want to see more people step up to the plate and tell the gay community what is REALLY going on! I want to hear people get a little more honest about what this has caused them and how this has changed their perception about dating and relationships. Because if it has only improved your sex life or your overall popularity, I find that shallow considering the gay community was crying over AIDS when there were no medications back then to allow them such flamboyancy.

Take it from me, I have overcome stage 3 Testicular Cancer, Schizophrenia, AIDS/HIV, Emergency room Alcoholism behavior, and am now fighting Chronic Kidney Disease. I bet not one person on RealJock can hold a fucking candle to my health accomplishments. Case closed.

I LUV First-Poster Fridays! whoot!

dayumm saidI LUV First-Poster Fridays! whoot!

That's not a first poster, that's Stuart.

Good thread.

Ariodante said

dayumm saidI LUV First-Poster Fridays! whoot!

That's not a first poster, that's Stuart.

+1 And I dont understand why.
Why are you hiding cookiebacon?

Sex can be immoral and damaging...

especially nasty, dirty, hot sex.

Ariodante said

dayumm saidI LUV First-Poster Fridays! whoot!

That's not a first poster, that's Stuart.

Stuart made a new account for a suspiciously ranty post.

Ario came back (yay) but then hid himself again (boo).

Just another Friday on that famous telenovela, Deportista Autentico.

showme saidJust another Friday on that famous telenovela, Deportista Autentico.

Can I be the obviously-adult-actor-playing-a-child?

showme said

Ariodante said

dayumm saidI LUV First-Poster Fridays! whoot!

That's not a first poster, that's Stuart.

Stuart made a new account for a suspiciously ranty post.

Ario came back (yay) but then hid himself again (boo).

Just another Friday on that famous telenovela, Deportista Autentico.

Ay dios mio!

Really Stuart? Another profile? For this?

[sigh] I fear it's all starting all over again.

Vitality = DRAMA QUEEN

I have no idea what OP is trying to say or whats going on in this thread.

yourname2000 saidReally Stuart? Another profile? For this?

[sigh] I fear it's all starting all over again.

So what don't you like about the thread subject matter? Am I not entitled to an opinion on my OWN FUCKING DISEASE? Give me a break. You know there are a lot of people in the gay community who would like to just put a sponge in my mouth because they can't handle the truth.

I am about Truth, if you can't handle it look away. Nobody and I mean NOBODY will steer me as to what I should believe when their philosophies are the only ones that almost killed me. I will fight back with logic this time... period. I am not like the rest around here.

I'm confused - the OP is a brand-new account today, August 3rd, with 2 posts. And already the profile pic and 3 others have been approved, and the account is verified?

I didn't know it was possible for that to happen so quickly?

MadExistence saidI have no idea what OP is trying to say or whats going on in this thread.

We're all having immoral, damaging sex. Get nekkid.

Poor me. Woa is me. Blah, blah, blah. You've been playing this game for years and it's a waste of time. I know guys who are POZ for over a decade and they're not sitting online having a fucking pity party. They're living life.

You're 41 or "41." Grow up.

Here comes all the name calling and insecure trolling now... Keep coming. Talk about gay men in the closet, how about HIV men in the fucking closet. WEAK WEAK WEAK... Not my problem. I won't let your insecurity bring me down.

SoDakGuy saidPoor me. Woa is me. Blah, blah, blah. You've been playing this game for years and it's a waste of time. I know guys who are POZ for over a decade and they're not sitting online having a fucking pity party. They're living life.

You're 41 or "41." Grow up.

Poor me about what? Can't handle my argument? Nowhere do I whine about anything in it, if I do, please point it out. Truth is, you could give a fuck about the content because you are WEAK.

What SoDaGuy said. This is all just a return to the attention-whoring of the past. I think you said that you were out of your schizophrenia meds in another thread. Please restock...get grounded again. You have too much of a past reputation here for anyone to put up with much (if any) of this.

endo said

MadExistence saidI have no idea what OP is trying to say or whats going on in this thread.

We're all having immoral, damaging sex. Get nekkid.

Wow what happened to your keen argument skills you were complaining that I don't have. Your statement is fucked up. Where do I say you are ALL having immoral damaging sex. You are on MY turf now. I will run circles around all of you. None of you can argue my philosophy. NO FUCKING HEROES FOR YOU IN THE ROOM. I am on nobody's side but my own. Good luck with your little gossip parties on these threads. It's all you are good for.

yourname2000 saidYou have too much of a past reputation here for anyone to put up with much (if any) of this.

And a permanent, lifelong ban from RJ. Anyone here is free to report him at any time and he'll be deleted.

yourname2000 saidWhat SoDaGuy said. This is all just a return to the attention-whoring of the past. I think you said that you were out of your schizophrenia meds in another thread. Please restock...get grounded again. You have too much of a past reputation here for anyone to put up with much (if any) of this.

Name calling loser. Can't control him so insult him instead. I SEE THROUGH ALL OF YOU ON THIS SITE!!! I am back here with a vengeance. Don't like it then fuck off.

Vitality said

yourname2000 saidWhat SoDaGuy said. This is all just a return to the attention-whoring of the past. I think you said that you were out of your schizophrenia meds in another thread. Please restock...get grounded again. You have too much of a past reputation here for anyone to put up with much (if any) of this.

Name calling loser. Can't control him so insult him instead. I SEE THROUGH ALL OF YOU ON THIS SITE!!! I am back here with a vengeance. Don't like it then fuck off.

Ariodante said

yourname2000 saidYou have too much of a past reputation here for anyone to put up with much (if any) of this.

And a permanent, lifelong ban from RJ. Anyone here is free to report him at any time and he'll be deleted.

But the account is verified, presumably today, when the account was created, which may be a speed record. Why didn't Admin catch the permaban? There can't be too many of them, can there? I remain confused with this whole thing.

Vitality said

yourname2000 saidWhat SoDaGuy said. This is all just a return to the attention-whoring of the past. I think you said that you were out of your schizophrenia meds in another thread. Please restock...get grounded again. You have too much of a past reputation here for anyone to put up with much (if any) of this.

Name calling loser. Can't control him so insult him instead. I SEE THROUGH ALL OF YOU ON THIS SITE!!! I am back here with a vengeance. Don't like it then fuck off.

Actually - since NO one likes YOU stuart, perhaps YOU are the one who should fuck off.

Be sure to take yer little videos with ya.

Freakshow freak is a freak show.

Ariodante said

yourname2000 saidYou have too much of a past reputation here for anyone to put up with much (if any) of this.

And a permanent, lifelong ban from RJ. Anyone here is free to report him at any time and he'll be deleted.

Delete my argument "sex can be immoral and damaging" simply because you can't handle the argument. What whiners you are.