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Hello

Hello,

Just letting you know most people will judge you negatively after reading this.Most people still have a traditional view of what defines a couple. I do think this is not as uncommon as you may imagine. Many people fantasize about seeing their significant other with another person. I think it could be due to a very sexualized culture that we live in, porn or other reasons I don't know about.


What I think is most important:

1. Does this make both of you happy short term? Long term?

2. Are you both being totally honest and safe?


Depending on the answer to those 2 questions I think will show you how healthy or unhealthy what your doing is.

Some guys are just into this?

Cheating = deception though

If you are turned on by him deceiving you, then that is a little strange imo.

If the 3 ways are good though, well if there's grass on the field...

I don't think its (and correct me if I'm wrong) the deception hes turned on by. I think its thinking about him with another guy. Which is actually not uncommon.

ummmm tell him what you just wrote here.

TrolL;dr

Hello i know, actually i had been thinking about it for a long long time... i just created the account on this page to share this.

He is my third relationship -ever- and only had five sexual friends? mates? (first sharing for three years, the second for one year and a half, my current boyfriend, the student from abroad and the guy from the threesome).

Mmmm

To answer you:

1) In the short therm: i guess we are, at least, for sure, i can say i am, he looks really happy, to say it fine. In the long term: I really don´t know, but yesterday he told me that he wants to live with me, he just bought his own house and asked me if we can live together after I finish college, so why not to try?

2) We use protection, always, we are both very worried about it. But for healthy feelings i am not cute sure, i think i am the most worried about it. I never never liked the idea of cheating, now i really don´t know. Nowadays i am wondering why do sex have to be so exclusive.

3) Cheating = deception. For 23 years I was completelly agree with you. Now i dont know. I do not if we can call it cheating, because we always tell us the "adventure" and we both agree, and most of the time we first talked it and then the things happen.

Yes, i know some people find this negative or even repulsive, but anyway ALL opinions are welcome. Be cool. Maybe i am only a newby and you could be my friend-parents saying me: "bad boy!" hahaha. The more you know the better your judgment.

Wow, being so long thinking about this alone and in just a minutes more than 60 views, amazing.

Thank guys for giving your comments.

I was nice to discover this page. I am a 26 year old PhD student, hopefully next year i graduate. I will be in europe next week, I am going to Denmark for an internship and to Spain for a scientific congress, i will be by my own and would be nice to travel with local friends :-) is there a section page to make friends by country?- i am new in here.

You WANT him to cheat on you? Nobody of course does that in the gay community. You will sure get props for loving him so much. Try hating him for spreading love and good cheer. That will win you respect in the gay community EVERY time.

SSJTrunks saidummmm tell him what you just wrote here.

This*

Uhhh,,, hummm..................

Nope.

I got nothing.

someone summarize

Jay1922 saidsomeone summarize

It went something like this.............
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3taEuL4EHAg

A tired music video that never really goes anywhere... but blah~blah~blah....

It's not cheating when you're actually supporting it..

Vitality saidYou WANT him to cheat on you? Nobody of course does that in the gay community. You will sure get props for loving him so much. Try hating him for spreading love and good cheer. That will win you respect in the gay community EVERY time.

I literally want to throw this guy's computer away. I can see through your sarcasm.If you are going to be a dick to us, then gtfo. YOU are clumping all gay people together into this stereotypical blob, and YOU are apart of it too!

God Damn.. self-hating freaks...

so you're into cuckolding...whatever floats your boat, there are online communities you can join for that, but make sure he plays safe.

Also, maybe next time put some of that info you put in replies into your original post. The way it was written with a "shocking" headline and then no actual content in the body of the post just seems like somebody trolling.