Aug 05, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
I am 28 and I live in a small college town. It's not a long time that I am out and I have not had any boyfriends or many dates.
I met an 18 year old boy (on Grindr) in this town and we exchanged numbers and after texting for a few days we met and I found him different than typical 18 year old boys, he has a job and he is mature and independent from his family.
After a couple of dates we went forward and last night we were making out for almost 2 hours. (We haven't had sex yet.)
I like him a lot, he is very handsome, cute and smart.
But,
he lives in a small one bedroom house and he has a roommate. He said he has been living with him for three months and he has recently figured out that he is gay. And that he sleeps on the couch.
Today I went through his facebook history and saw that he has several posts about that guy expressing love and it seems that they were going to marry each other a year ago. This has made me very confused. I called him and asked him if his roommate is his ex and he denied that (I didn't mention the FB posts). I don't know if I should immediately break up with him or give him time to trust me and let me know what's going on. I am very sensitive to lying and I can't easily hide the fact that I know he has lied to me, in fact now I am doubtful about the other things that he has told me.
I met an 18 year old boy (on Grindr) in this town and we exchanged numbers and after texting for a few days we met and I found him different than typical 18 year old boys, he has a job and he is mature and independent from his family.
After a couple of dates we went forward and last night we were making out for almost 2 hours. (We haven't had sex yet.)
I like him a lot, he is very handsome, cute and smart.
But,
he lives in a small one bedroom house and he has a roommate. He said he has been living with him for three months and he has recently figured out that he is gay. And that he sleeps on the couch.
Today I went through his facebook history and saw that he has several posts about that guy expressing love and it seems that they were going to marry each other a year ago. This has made me very confused. I called him and asked him if his roommate is his ex and he denied that (I didn't mention the FB posts). I don't know if I should immediately break up with him or give him time to trust me and let me know what's going on. I am very sensitive to lying and I can't easily hide the fact that I know he has lied to me, in fact now I am doubtful about the other things that he has told me.