My boyfriend and craigslist

  • Liammmm

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    Aug 05, 2012 11:38 PM GMT
    Hey

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months and we are in love, or at least it seems like we are. However, my friend recently asked me to look at a craigslist ad he was going to respond to just because it was his first time and he was worried it seemed sketchy or whatever. So i looked on the site and saw the ad....but it didn't stop there. Being a horny dude, I decided to look at all the ads with pictures just for fun to see some hot pictures. I stumbled upon an ad that completely describes my boyfriend in terms of his age, height, dicks size, etc. It also had a picture of his dick. Not only does it look exactly like his dick, but the underwear he is wearing in the picture is unique in pattern and i know my boyfriend often wears them, the jeans are the exact same as my boyfriends, and his hand is in the picture....i can tell its his hand. Also ni can see some of the carpet on the ground and it matches the carpet of the house he recently moved out of. Basically I think it is him and i've had a bit of trouble trusting him to begin with...not for any reason in particular...it was always just a feeling. I would like to say i'm 100% certain its him but how can i really say that? Basically i want to bring it up to him but i don't want to seem crazy or clingy incase it isn't him. I know I have to bring it up or else it will bug me forever. I guess I just need support. How should I go about bringing it up? if its him then i have to end the relationship out of respect for myself.
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    Aug 05, 2012 11:43 PM GMT
    So, show him the ad, then have a calm reasonable talk with him. Make sure you ask him what he needs that you aren't giving him. Work it out, or not. But letting it fester isn't a good idea.

    Show him the ad.
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    Aug 05, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    Daas said...

    Show him the ad.


    And, also be ready to explain why YOU were also on Craigslist. Be forewarned that the story about your friend telling you to look at Craigslist may come across either as jealousy or as "fishy".

    The real cure is to have the hottest, wildest, freakiest sex with your bf on a regular basis. Keep him tired and worn out and nobody will have time to come home smelling like Craigslist. You should have him to the point where he is begging you to have mercy on him.
  • Liammmm

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    Aug 05, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    okay. I know thats what i need to do. i'm just really hurt and i needed someone to tell me i'm not crazy and my suspicion is warrented ya know?
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    Aug 06, 2012 1:53 AM GMT
    Why don't you just reply to the ad? Create a new email address, send him a message, some fake pix from somewhere, and see if he replies.

    It totally works! Has been working (minus the email address) since Mozart's opera, Cosi Fan Tutte. Srsly.
  • Litmop

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    Aug 06, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    You should throw his computer at him while screaming you hate him!
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    Aug 06, 2012 2:05 AM GMT
    Not hard to use an unknown email and get him to trade a face pic.
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    Aug 06, 2012 2:06 AM GMT
    OMG I am in the same situation with Ken except I found his profile here on RJ. I didn't even think to check at Craigslist! Sometimes I just want to get in my little pink Miata and drive far far away to a land nobody's ever heard of.
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    Aug 06, 2012 2:40 AM GMT
    BarbieOfKenAndBarbie saidOMG I am in the same situation with Ken except I found his profile here on RJ. I didn't even think to check at Craigslist! Sometimes I just want to get in my little pink Miata and drive far far away to a land nobody's ever heard of.


    gurl.

    You're too good for him.
  • Montague

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    Aug 06, 2012 2:42 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Daas said...

    Show him the ad.


    And, also be ready to explain why YOU were also on Craigslist. Be forewarned that the story about your friend telling you to look at Craigslist may come across either as jealousy or as "fishy".

    The real cure is to have the hottest, wildest, freakiest sex with your bf on a regular basis. Keep him tired and worn out and nobody will have time to come home smelling like Craigslist. You should have him to the point where he is begging you to have mercy on him.


    Are you married yet? icon_twisted.gif
  • calibro

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    Aug 06, 2012 3:22 AM GMT
    well, if your boyfriend is a sock account like you, there's no problem
  • mybud

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    Aug 06, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    Your bf is fucking others dudes...You don't know if he's using protection...Your whole relationship is based on a lies and bullshit and you don't want to confront him cause you'll look "clingy".....Seek help..
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    Aug 06, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    Liammmm saidHey

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months and we are in love, or at least it seems like we are. However, my friend recently asked me to look at a craigslist ad he was going to respond to just because it was his first time and he was worried it seemed sketchy or whatever. So i looked on the site and saw the ad....but it didn't stop there. Being a horny dude, I decided to look at all the ads with pictures just for fun to see some hot pictures. I stumbled upon an ad that completely describes my boyfriend in terms of his age, height, dicks size, etc. It also had a picture of his dick. Not only does it look exactly like his dick, but the underwear he is wearing in the picture is unique in pattern and i know my boyfriend often wears them, the jeans are the exact same as my boyfriends, and his hand is in the picture....i can tell its his hand. Also ni can see some of the carpet on the ground and it matches the carpet of the house he recently moved out of. Basically I think it is him and i've had a bit of trouble trusting him to begin with...not for any reason in particular...it was always just a feeling. I would like to say i'm 100% certain its him but how can i really say that? Basically i want to bring it up to him but i don't want to seem crazy or clingy incase it isn't him. I know I have to bring it up or else it will bug me forever. I guess I just need support. How should I go about bringing it up? if its him then i have to end the relationship out of respect for myself.


    Sting operation... have a friend that he hasn't met set up a date. If he shows up, he's caught.
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    Aug 06, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
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    Liammmm saidHey

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months and we are in love, or at least it seems like we are. However, my friend recently asked me to look at a craigslist ad he was going to respond to just because it was his first time and he was worried it seemed sketchy or whatever. So i looked on the site and saw the ad....but it didn't stop there. Being a horny dude, I decided to look at all the ads with pictures just for fun to see some hot pictures. I stumbled upon an ad that completely describes my boyfriend in terms of his age, height, dicks size, etc. It also had a picture of his dick. Not only does it look exactly like his dick, but the underwear he is wearing in the picture is unique in pattern and i know my boyfriend often wears them, the jeans are the exact same as my boyfriends, and his hand is in the picture....i can tell its his hand. Also ni can see some of the carpet on the ground and it matches the carpet of the house he recently moved out of. Basically I think it is him and i've had a bit of trouble trusting him to begin with...not for any reason in particular...it was always just a feeling. I would like to say i'm 100% certain its him but how can i really say that? Basically i want to bring it up to him but i don't want to seem crazy or clingy incase it isn't him. I know I have to bring it up or else it will bug me forever. I guess I just need support. How should I go about bringing it up? if its him then i have to end the relationship out of respect for myself.


    Sting operation... have a friend that he hasn't met set up a date. If he shows up, he's caught.


    Oooooh I like this! Scandalous!!!
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    Aug 06, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    Hapuna said
    Brandon112586 said
    Liammmm saidHey

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months and we are in love, or at least it seems like we are. However, my friend recently asked me to look at a craigslist ad he was going to respond to just because it was his first time and he was worried it seemed sketchy or whatever. So i looked on the site and saw the ad....but it didn't stop there. Being a horny dude, I decided to look at all the ads with pictures just for fun to see some hot pictures. I stumbled upon an ad that completely describes my boyfriend in terms of his age, height, dicks size, etc. It also had a picture of his dick. Not only does it look exactly like his dick, but the underwear he is wearing in the picture is unique in pattern and i know my boyfriend often wears them, the jeans are the exact same as my boyfriends, and his hand is in the picture....i can tell its his hand. Also ni can see some of the carpet on the ground and it matches the carpet of the house he recently moved out of. Basically I think it is him and i've had a bit of trouble trusting him to begin with...not for any reason in particular...it was always just a feeling. I would like to say i'm 100% certain its him but how can i really say that? Basically i want to bring it up to him but i don't want to seem crazy or clingy incase it isn't him. I know I have to bring it up or else it will bug me forever. I guess I just need support. How should I go about bringing it up? if its him then i have to end the relationship out of respect for myself.


    Sting operation... have a friend that he hasn't met set up a date. If he shows up, he's caught.


    Oooooh I like this! Scandalous!!!

    *face palm*

    Yeah. This is called entrapment. It's what women do...
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    Aug 06, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    just make a fake account on craiglist with a hot muscle photo and try to bait him out,then u will know the true when u meet with this craiglist person,but let me tell you,be prepared,coz i think u about to crush and burn!!!!

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTw0QBYJyHFozeBF5IQWgP
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Aug 06, 2012 5:13 AM GMT
    I think being upfront about the situation is best.
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    Aug 06, 2012 5:21 AM GMT
    sting operation, all the way
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    Aug 06, 2012 5:33 AM GMT
    Brandon112586 said
    Sting operation... have a friend that he hasn't met set up a date. If he shows up, he's caught.
    Yes, that's the mature way of handling it! Just sit down with him, tell him that you're having some concerns and confront him but don't accuse him. Find out if he has a need that you're not fulfilling or a fantasy and what it is that he feels he needs outside of your relationship. Approach it maturely and see where it goes.
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    Aug 06, 2012 6:23 AM GMT
    Liammmm said My boyfriend and craigslist
    Sounds like a healthy combination.
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    Aug 06, 2012 6:24 AM GMT
    BarbieOfKenAndBarbie saidOMG I am in the same situation with Ken except I found his profile here on RJ. I didn't even think to check at Craigslist! Sometimes I just want to get in my little pink Miata and drive far far away to a land nobody's ever heard of.
    Last night Ken told me your pussy stinks.
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    Aug 06, 2012 6:31 AM GMT
    calibro saidwell, if you're boyfriend is a sock account like you, there's no problem


    Hahaha! THIS!!! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Aug 06, 2012 6:31 AM GMT
    Just go and talk to him about it.
  • Jerebear

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    Aug 06, 2012 6:39 AM GMT
    Tell him the truth, that you were horny and cruising craigslist (no one should believe your "i was doing it for a friend" bullshit) and you saw his pic and then you see how he responds and go from there.

    This is not at all complicated.
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    Aug 06, 2012 7:05 AM GMT
    Oh lord ... I agree with all the ones before me that said to caught him ....