To me, more power to them if they play safe. You said 50-80 years old. These guys have pretty much done everything in life. Married, single, divorced, bi, gay, closeted etc. Let them have their fun. Try doing the same routine stuff til you're 50. Work, work, work, work, vacation, vacation, vacation - rinse and repeat.
If it's not your cup of tea right now, just don't go. OR go and don't participate in sex. Once you're 50-80s, you might feel differently about it. Those guys were once 20s-30s and if you saw a lot of them there, a good chance when you turn 50, you'll do the same.
Life can be routine, I'm sure this is something that keep them going in life - man sex.
braddomo saidBeen to a CMEN pool party. Good food, some drinking and a lot of 50 - 80 years olds having sex all over the place like a sex club. I enjoy nudity but the over the top sex going on kind of makes me feel shame about gay guys. It was kind of like the empty feeling I got from going to sex clubs back when... I was thinking that this behavior is a spiritual or religious person's worst nightmare. What are your opinions?