Gay nudist parties. How do you feel about them?

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    Aug 06, 2012 9:51 PM GMT
    Been to a CMEN pool party. Good food, some drinking and a lot of 50 - 80 years olds having sex all over the place like a sex club. I enjoy nudity but the over the top sex going on kind of makes me feel shame about gay guys. It was kind of like the empty feeling I got from going to sex clubs back when... I was thinking that this behavior is a spiritual or religious person's worst nightmare. What are your opinions?
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    Aug 07, 2012 5:49 AM GMT
    I stopped and lol'd when I saw "CMEN pool party" icon_lol.gif
  • sammaine

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    Aug 07, 2012 5:59 AM GMT
    To me, more power to them if they play safe. You said 50-80 years old. These guys have pretty much done everything in life. Married, single, divorced, bi, gay, closeted etc. Let them have their fun. Try doing the same routine stuff til you're 50. Work, work, work, work, vacation, vacation, vacation - rinse and repeat.

    If it's not your cup of tea right now, just don't go. OR go and don't participate in sex. Once you're 50-80s, you might feel differently about it. Those guys were once 20s-30s and if you saw a lot of them there, a good chance when you turn 50, you'll do the same.

    Life can be routine, I'm sure this is something that keep them going in life - man sex.




    braddomo saidBeen to a CMEN pool party. Good food, some drinking and a lot of 50 - 80 years olds having sex all over the place like a sex club. I enjoy nudity but the over the top sex going on kind of makes me feel shame about gay guys. It was kind of like the empty feeling I got from going to sex clubs back when... I was thinking that this behavior is a spiritual or religious person's worst nightmare. What are your opinions?
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    Aug 07, 2012 6:00 AM GMT
    I find it rather disheartening when gays frown on gay sex parties while straights have been having sex parties since long before homosexuality ever came into the spotlight.

    Sounds to me like someone just doesn't like being gay.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 07, 2012 6:02 AM GMT
    BTW ... it is called an orgy ... men and women (straight people) have them too

    You choose your own life style .. no one says you have to follow any specific crowd ... and btw, they also have religious churches where the majority of the congregation is gay
  • sammaine

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    Aug 07, 2012 6:08 AM GMT
    I think, he think gays should be more proper and set examples. I think. There are gays like that, probably guys like Elton John?

    I agree, straight people have orgy parties, swinger parties etc. Basically, you went to a gay sex party. I think younger guys that go are just curious and probably won't do anything unless they are super horny. It probably takes time getting use to it and more comfortable as everything in life.

    I think those parties are mainly for older guys in general - that's just my opinion. I think older guys are comfortable with their bodies and minds. And I think they just don't give a F* - they don't have much time left on earth anyway. They paid their taxes and probably took care of their families, let them have a little safe fun.




    paulflexes saidI find it rather disheartening when gays frown on gay sex parties while straights have been having sex parties since long before homosexuality ever came into the spotlight.

    Sounds to me like someone just doesn't like being gay.
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    Aug 07, 2012 6:32 AM GMT
    I'd love to have a place to hang out nekkid and not worry about orgies going on all over the place, but I doubt any gathering hosted by a club called "CMEN" is what I'd be looking for...
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    Aug 07, 2012 7:01 AM GMT
    sammaine saidIf it's not your cup of tea right now, just don't go. OR go and don't participate in sex. Once you're 50-80s, you might feel differently about it. Those guys were once 20s-30s and if you saw a lot of them there, a good chance when you turn 50, you'll do the same.
    He's 46.
  • sammaine

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    Aug 07, 2012 7:12 AM GMT
    He got 4 more years and then he'll be comfortable.

    kawaiidesu said
    sammaine saidIf it's not your cup of tea right now, just don't go. OR go and don't participate in sex. Once you're 50-80s, you might feel differently about it. Those guys were once 20s-30s and if you saw a lot of them there, a good chance when you turn 50, you'll do the same.
    He's 46.
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    Aug 07, 2012 9:52 AM GMT
    CABucky saidI'd love to have a place to hang out nekkid and not worry about orgies going on all over the place, but I doubt any gathering hosted by a club called "CMEN" is what I'd be looking for...
    Go to Haulover Beach in Miami. That's where I lost all fear of being nude in public. Even families go there with children.
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    CABucky saidI'd love to have a place to hang out nekkid and not worry about orgies going on all over the place, but I doubt any gathering hosted by a club called "CMEN" is what I'd be looking for...
    Go to Haulover Beach in Miami. That's where I lost all fear of being nude in public. Even families go there with children. The atmosphere is just like any other beach, except people don't judge you by the swim suit you wear.
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    Aug 07, 2012 9:53 AM GMT
    50-80?

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    Aug 07, 2012 10:11 AM GMT
    Claystation saidI stopped and lol'd when I saw "CMEN pool party" icon_lol.gif

    Im sure they would love to have your famous booty in their midst Clay icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 07, 2012 10:32 AM GMT
    Truth be told, most guys should keep their clothes on.