does every gay guy know and sleep with eachother

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    Aug 06, 2012 11:48 PM GMT
    ok im obviously not on about someone in UK knowing someone in US but im new to gay world dating wise and it seems like everyone has slept with everyone else, there is a lot of gossip bitches and a lot of guys that have all slept with eachother, is it just me or does this happen everywhere????
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    Aug 06, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
    gymfreak1987 saidok im obviously not on about someone in UK knowing someone in US but im new to gay world dating wise and it seems like everyone has slept with everyone else, there is a lot of gossip bitches and a lot of guys that have all slept with eachother, is it just me or does this happen everywhere????

    Yes, we all fuck each other. It's very tiring, since there are millions of us. But if you devote yourself to it, 24/7, it can be done. Don't be a slacker!
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    Aug 06, 2012 11:55 PM GMT
    Unless they're a total slut and the gay circle in that city is small, then no. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 06, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    It's just you.
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    Aug 07, 2012 12:23 AM GMT
    Not necessarily. But I learned that if you go out and know people in a certain city or town, it is very likely you will know people who they have slept with.

    When I have feelings for a guy, I expect to meet and know people he has slept with. I had to get over the jealousy and be ok with the fact that they have slept with people they know and hang out with. It happens. Not all guys are this way but it's better to expect they will be, in my opinion.

    I can't say anything because I have slept with a couple people in my close group of friends.
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    Aug 07, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
    gymfreak1987 saidok im obviously not on about someone in UK knowing someone in US but im new to gay world dating wise and it seems like everyone has slept with everyone else, there is a lot of gossip bitches and a lot of guys that have all slept with eachother, is it just me or does this happen everywhere????


    Yeah that's how it is

    Meet a guy, sleep with him, meet his friends, sleep with them, meet their friends, sleep with them... and so on
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    Aug 07, 2012 12:28 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Yes, we all fuck each other. It's very tiring, since there are millions of us. But if you devote yourself to it, 24/7, it can be done. Don't be a slacker!

    Since you started so late, Art, you have to invest an extra hour each day and no, we don't give you credit for all the women you banged.
  • stratavos

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    Aug 07, 2012 1:22 AM GMT
    no, not everyone, but some have that as their goal. I'd be happy with knowing them, but the sleeping with is a pick and choose kinda thing ;)
  • spider

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    Aug 07, 2012 1:27 AM GMT
    Have not fucked everyone but working my way through tem!
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    Aug 07, 2012 1:29 AM GMT
    Not all of us dream of being just one of the many.
  • jackthejock

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    Aug 07, 2012 1:31 AM GMT
    well if you only go to one chat room or one bar or one coffee shop that is gay then sure it'll seem that way. Get out and get involved in some things like a gay rugby team, volunteer at a gay organization...ect
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    Aug 07, 2012 1:38 AM GMT
    "...I knew, to the quarter inch, the length and diameter of each one's penis, and exactly what they liked to do in bed. But then, so did everyone else in that room."~~Dancer from the Dance, Andrew Holleran circa 1978

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dancer_from_the_Dance
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    Aug 07, 2012 1:38 AM GMT
    Yes, I'm sure it happenes wherever there are Low - No class, Low - No standards, trash and trash boxes. Male and female, gay and straight. The same people who easily give up the goods to a perfect stranger.. but tend to wear a chasity belt with 32 locks for someone that they really like and wish to be in a relationship with. Backwards whores.

    If you want to increase your chances of dating someone who is less likely to be part of a sex chain chain chain of foolish whores, try seeking the dude(s) that everyone wants but not many can ever get.. (these are the dudes that like to keep their stock soaring by remaining high in demand and keeping their sexual encounters fairly low.) If you like him then woo him. Dudes like... like Spiritreaver. Now THAT is a man.. 10s across the board in my opinion. Personality, Brains, Body, Beauty, Class, Charisma, Sex Appeal, Confidence, and a lot more PLUS the X-factor. I'm sure he is a dude that is high in demand. Not saying to go get him particularly.. Just saying I think that he is Hubby material for another great guy for sure and the type of guy that is not likely to be an Easy Breezy Beautiful Gutter Whore.
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    Aug 07, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    bhp91126 said
    Art_Deco said
    Yes, we all fuck each other. It's very tiring, since there are millions of us. But if you devote yourself to it, 24/7, it can be done. Don't be a slacker!

    Since you started so late, Art, you have to invest an extra hour each day and no, we don't give you credit for all the women you banged.

    I don't claim credit for the women. Rather, I'd like to forget them. icon_redface.gif

    You actually hit on my game plan. When I came out at nearly 46, I realized i had lost 30 gay years, assuming I would have become active at around 16.

    So OK, I understood I had fucked up. Well, I couldn't reverse the clock. Those 30 years were lost, no way I could get them back. Now what?

    I figured I had at best 10 years, based on my family genetics, before I turned to shit. After that I'd be an ugly old fart, as I am today.

    So I maximized those 10 years, investing that "extra hour each day" as you said. I really did, with a conscious effort to totally immerse myself in the gay community. Gawd I had fun!

    The odd thing is that I enjoyed it so much that I'm still doing it today. I may have lost 30 years, but I've had 17, and maybe the whole 30 before I'm done. I'm so happy now, I hope you won't wanna deny me that.
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    Aug 07, 2012 2:33 AM GMT
    Doesn't have to be the rule. Expand your world, get out of your local community and you will find people to have sex with that hasn't already had sex with someone you know. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 07, 2012 2:50 AM GMT
    It's just you. If you meet people and they have slept with one another, why does it need to be your business?
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    Aug 07, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    tucsonguy9121 saidIt's just you. If you meet people and they have slept with one another, why does it need to be your business?


    The problem is they make it everyone else's business by being gossip queens. It happens a lot.
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    Aug 07, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    gymfreak1987 saidok im obviously not on about someone in UK knowing someone in US but im new to gay world dating wise and it seems like everyone has slept with everyone else, there is a lot of gossip bitches and a lot of guys that have all slept with eachother, is it just me or does this happen everywhere????
    Of course, don't you remember me?
  • Another_Jerem...

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    Aug 07, 2012 3:06 AM GMT
    Gay World Facts

    1. The gay community is far more stratified by race and gender than the straight communuity.

    2. Despite the anecdotes you hear about gay men settling down and having a family, monogamy in the gay community is extremely rare.

    3. The gay community is extremely superficial. This is partially because men are more visually/sexually oriented than woman, and partially as a result of the pernicious effects of a culture of objectification.

    4. The ones who do the most bitching about not being able to find Mr. Right are usually the ones who are hell bent on finding an Abercrombie lookalike to fuck in order to fuel their own narcissism.

    My advice is twofold.

    1. Learn to value traits in people that are not related to how "Hott" they are.

    2. Learn to be a real fucking person. Then maybe you won't ever be in so many positions to interact with so people you find repulsive.
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    Aug 07, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
    gymfreak1987 saidok im obviously not on about someone in UK knowing someone in US but im new to gay world dating wise and it seems like everyone has slept with everyone else, there is a lot of gossip bitches and a lot of guys that have all slept with eachother, is it just me or does this happen everywhere????


    Happily it is true. You are at the top of my "to do" list, so please remember I prefer scrambled eggs with bacon and whole wheat toast...
  • joeblizz

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    Aug 07, 2012 3:21 AM GMT
    yes, happens everywhere...

    don't hate the playa, hate the game!
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    Aug 07, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    joeblizz saidyes, happens everywhere...

    don't hate the playa, hate the game!


    Hahahahahahaa!
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    Aug 07, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    Of course you know... we're only separated by six degrees of penetration.
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    Aug 07, 2012 4:16 AM GMT
    I had met a "new" friend for coffee. We sat in front of the shop at one of their tables. Every few minutes of people watching, he would say, "Oh I know him." or "I think I slept with him" or "He was horrible in bed" or "oops, can't look, talk to me".

    *sigh* Not sure what kind of first impression he wanted to make.
  • Muscles25

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    Aug 07, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    Sometimes it's how a lot of gay men are. Probably why I prefer straight guys for friends.