Yes, we all fuck each other. It's very tiring, since there are millions of us. But if you devote yourself to it, 24/7, it can be done. Don't be a slacker!
Since you started so late, Art, you have to invest an extra hour each day and no, we don't give you credit for all the women you banged.
I don't claim credit for the women. Rather, I'd like to forget them.
You actually hit on my game plan. When I came out at nearly 46, I realized i had lost 30 gay years, assuming I would have become active at around 16.
So OK, I understood I had fucked up. Well, I couldn't reverse the clock. Those 30 years were lost, no way I could get them back. Now what?
I figured I had at best 10 years, based on my family genetics, before I turned to shit. After that I'd be an ugly old fart, as I am today.
So I maximized those 10 years, investing that "extra hour each day" as you said. I really did, with a conscious effort to totally immerse myself in the gay community. Gawd I had fun!
The odd thing is that I enjoyed it so much that I'm still doing it today. I may have lost 30 years, but I've had 17, and maybe the whole 30 before I'm done. I'm so happy now, I hope you won't wanna deny me that.