My BF made my 22nd bday UPDATE

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    Aug 07, 2012 12:05 PM GMT
    I normally don't expect anything for my bday cuz i haven't got shit in years. Yesterday my guy came over since we planned to spend the whole day together. He comes to my house with a bunch of groceries to cook me breakfast. He's really passionate about food service. Chocolatechip cheesecake pancakes, eggs and bacon.Then gave me a box that had about 24 pack orbit gum since I always chew gum when I leave the house. We then went out to the city where he surprised me with $100 and i had to splurge and I really didn't know how. Due to my past financial issues i'm extremely self conscious about spending money so I struggled shopping lol. I eventually settled on a workout bar at modells. We then took a walk through central park. Had dinner on the frying pan( a boat at the loading dock by the pier)

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    Then went to brooklyn bridge park and laid in the grass. I recommend you go there at night so you can see how the city looks from there.
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    We fell asleep on the ride back to coney island and then we took a walk on the boardwalk since that was the first place we met. 1 am he walked me home.


    I haven't had a birthday like that ever, and it was the perfect day all because this guy

    This guy made my night

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    I can't wait til november. it's payback time icon_wink.gif




    UPDATE we decided to separate a month ago due to mutual agreement and small differences and whatnot. After the storm, we been hanging out for the past few days and after a long talk decided how silly it was to break up for those reasons so we're giving it another shot
  • a303guy

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    Aug 07, 2012 12:21 PM GMT
    awwwwh! this made my morning - thanks for posting! My BF's birthday is in a couple weeks, this definitely gives me some inspiration. Nice to know that good ol-fashioned romance doesn't go out of style.
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    Aug 07, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    WOW... he sounds like a keeper. Good for you, it sounds like you deserve and truly appreciate him. That is a very good sign. Best of luck... and remember this day when the going gets tough and you want to swear at him.... ;-) I think and hope that you guys might have a long future together!
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    Aug 07, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    this is the cutest thing ever
    i'm so jealous
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    Aug 07, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    What a great boyfriend! Glad your birthday was memorable!
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    Aug 07, 2012 12:57 PM GMT
    That's awesome. Glad you have a good guy that will take time and effort to do something nice for you.

    My man's BD is in 3 weeks and I have no idea what to do. I'm stuck in CA and he's in FL icon_sad.gif
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    Aug 07, 2012 1:01 PM GMT
    Well ..Happy B-Day Tmac..!!!
    Your BF sounds like an awesome guy..!!
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  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 07, 2012 1:05 PM GMT
    Sounds like a fantastic birthday! Congrats on the day and your bf sounds like a great guy! Hope your future birthdays will be as good!

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  • Karl

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    Aug 07, 2012 1:16 PM GMT
    happy birthday <3
    you two are really cute <3
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    Aug 07, 2012 1:22 PM GMT
    tmac saidI can't wait til november. it's payback time icon_wink.gif

    This made me smile so much! Congrats, and Happy Birthday! Nobody does birthdays like gay men, when they're really into you. Looks like you found a good one.

    Yeah, I've done birthdays that were way over the top. And I've had them done for me, too, even though I don't like a fuss being made over myself. But none of my usual stories, this is all about you.

    "We fell asleep on the ride back to coney island and then we took a walk on the boardwalk since that was the first place we met. 1 am he walked me home.

    I haven't had a birthday like that ever, and it was the perfect day all because this guy

    This guy made my night"


    Wow, I think you may have found a Keeper. And tell him to join RJ is he isn't already here. We need guys like this here, and you, too. Props to both of you. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 07, 2012 1:31 PM GMT

    *reads topic 1st post, looks at pics, reads more, gets huge goofy grin*


    Very nice, tmac. I think somebody loves ya!
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    Aug 07, 2012 1:33 PM GMT
    LVmotoJock saidThat's awesome. Glad you have a good guy that will take time and effort to do something nice for you.

    My man's BD is in 3 weeks and I have no idea what to do. I'm stuck in CA and he's in FL icon_sad.gif

    Where in Florida? Maybe we can be your surrogates, your agents. And don't worry, we're too old, and too into each other, to have any kind of agenda. Nothing these 2 veterans won't do for a guy who's been on Active Duty and is still in the Reserves. Shoot me an e-mail.
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    Aug 07, 2012 2:39 PM GMT
    Thanks for all the positive feedback. I am truly grateful to have someone who would go out of their way just to make me happy. He doesn't know it yet but i'm already working on his gift even though his bday is a few months away. I want to make him smile all day, even if he has to work
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    Aug 07, 2012 2:44 PM GMT
    oh wow. you're a lucky guy to have found someone so fantastic!

    *is jealous*
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    Aug 07, 2012 2:53 PM GMT
    tmac saidThanks for all the positive feedback. I am truly grateful to have someone who would go out of their way just to make me happy. He doesn't know it yet but i'm already working on his gift even though his bday is a few months away. I want to make him smile all day, even if he has to work

    Well, think out of the box. His actual birthday may fall on an awkward day. That happens more often than not.

    So you give him a card and some token present on that day, so he knows you remembered. But then you blow him away with the real celebration on the closest weekend, or whatever his schedule allows.

    I'm doing that right now. My husband's actual birthday was almost 2 weeks ago, the middle of the week. His best friends were out of town. I gave him a card that day, and a few gifts.

    He thinks that was it. The big party is coming, when his friends will be there, that he knows nothing about. That's how these things are done. Think out of the box. This isn't a repeat of your guy's 8th birthday given by his parents anymore. You've both grown up! Think original!
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    Aug 07, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    That is really awesome, I'm glad he made your birthday great. Definitely hope I can find someone like that one day haha. Make sure to share what you did for his birthday when it happens.
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    Aug 07, 2012 5:50 PM GMT
    Happy birthday and I'm glad you found someone so amazing icon_cool.gif
  • Karl

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    Aug 07, 2012 5:53 PM GMT
    btw Im jealous now
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    Aug 07, 2012 6:05 PM GMT
    That's so sweet!

    Happy Birthday!

    Congrats!

    But, when I find a man, or he finds me; and all those Goodnesses, I'll show you how I show my Love and Appreciations!
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    Aug 07, 2012 6:14 PM GMT
    Happy Birthday and best of luck to you guys. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 07, 2012 6:16 PM GMT
    Karl saidbtw Im jealous now
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    lol, i feel the same way. This is really a great "feel good" post. Makes me realize that things like this do happen! icon_smile.gif congrats on your bday icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 08, 2012 12:16 AM GMT
    tmac saidThanks for all the positive feedback. I am truly grateful to have someone who would go out of their way just to make me happy. He doesn't know it yet but i'm already working on his gift even though his bday is a few months away. I want to make him smile all day, even if he has to work



    This is so amazing :] Definitely happy for you.
    When I have a guy I really care about, you can bet he'll be treated right (just like you)!
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    Aug 08, 2012 12:27 AM GMT
    CUTE! Really happy for you two
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    Aug 08, 2012 2:30 AM GMT
    Sounds like he's an awesome guy!
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    Aug 08, 2012 2:57 AM GMT
    Karl saidbtw Im jealous now
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    Awwwwwwwww but everyone loves you here =)