Conversation on A4A

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    Aug 08, 2012 7:01 PM GMT
    This is a conversation I had on A4A a while ago, the guy kind of pissed me off. His profile was written where it was like he was trying to explore his feelings and he was ready to give guys a try, I was happy to hear that from a guy here so I just wanted to congratulate him and encourage him. You have to read it from the bottom going up. Tell me what you guys think.

    Me:
    (22 mins ago) Again you go back to the invalid point of me calling you gay. I already said that I don't think you are and the way you're acting, I don't want you to be gay because you'd be an embarrassment to gay men. The fact that you keep bringing that up and wanting to fight that fact constantly wanting to prove you're not interested in getting a guy to suck you off is a bit suspicious but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. Yes a gay man's objective is to get with a guy, I know this already and you make it sound so bad. You know what's really bad? A man who can't admit that he likes getting his dick sucked by men. An act that, no matter if you close your eyes and make believe it's a girl, will always be a gay act. Like I said before, it may not make you gay, but it is still definitely you engaging in something gay.

    Him:
    (27 mins ago) Closing my eyes and some mouth sucking my dick doesn't make me gay... I like getting sucked.. Just discovered that you gays give good bjs. But I don't want want a man.. That's a gay mans objective,...

    Me:
    (29 mins ago) "Company in their misery" really? I'm not miserable being gay and it's quite arrogant of you thinking that all gay men are miserable. I assumed you were gay, when you said you weren't I backed off. Plus my point was basically that you're the one on here with a dick pic looking for a guy to suck his dick. There's no other way to label that act but gay. You may not be gay but you engage in gay acts. No matter what you say or lie to yourself saying, you want guys in some degree. That may not make you gay, but stop trying to act like you're not doing something gay.

    Him:
    (34 mins ago) The arrogance of youth. 21 years and u feel that all the psychiatrists reading your Manual of life? Or is it the recurring theme of gay men always wanting company in thier misery - by trying to label all men gay?

    Me:
    (38 mins ago) how is not getting the opportunity of a lifetime of sucking some random guy's dick, random guy who is confused/bi/gay/whatever, really a big loss to me? I'd rather find someone that wants more than a blowjob, thanks for keeping a4a in business

    Him:
    (44 mins ago) Yes you should be.. Not because I say so.. But because it's your loss not mines..

    Me:
    (45 mins ago) no i'm not interested in giving random head, sorry for wasting your time

    Him:
    (48 mins ago) Has more bush right now. So that means I shouldn't shave if u we meeting me? Lol. And on that note are you interested?

    Me:
    (49 mins ago) well get a girl to suck your dick, you wouldn't be here if you didn't want a guy to suck your dick so you want guys but i see where you're coming from with labels but liking guys isn't a label.

    Him:
    (50 mins ago) Hahah .. I knowi like my dick sucked.. Not sure I am into guys or dicks.. So not sure of those labels.. You? You liked mines?

    Me:
    (52 mins ago) oh sorry, bi-sexual. End of the day, still like guys

    Him:
    (1 hr ago) What? Who said that i am gay?

    Me:
    (2 hrs ago) you keep exploring those feelings, it's great that you've decided to finally accept yourself as gay
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    Aug 08, 2012 7:07 PM GMT
    I would have just blocked him long before now. Way too much energy with a hostile, confused guy over a connection that is not going to happen. Sorry. icon_sad.gif
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    Aug 09, 2012 1:47 AM GMT
    Well I got upset because he was acting like he was so great because he wasn't "gay" and that gay guys are all miserable and he's not in that boat because he "closes his eyes" while he gets his dick sucked from a guy. I understand that people aren't all gay, and that some people don't like the labels but he kept trying to run away from the fact that getting a blowjob from a guy is something gay.

    I was going to stop talking to him until he brought up that wanting company in their misery thing.
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    Aug 09, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    The thread title has me confused. People actually "talk" there?
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    Aug 09, 2012 7:33 PM GMT
    Yeah well I had my old account there and I just don't care so I did whatever I want and tried talking. Now I know why no one talks :S He confirmed it again for me.
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    Aug 09, 2012 9:13 PM GMT
    I cant believe that you actually spent all that time chatting with that confused closet case icon_eek.gif