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At 6:30 PM on August 12, I was called into chat by a 25 year old RJ member from NYC that I have never heard of, talked with or about or seen his profile that said "number 10 is your dick size" I said hello and asked what he meant and he said "it's on your shirt... too old and too big for me"

"Good luck grandpa"

Then he left without responding when I asked why he was so insulting... he finally said " do not be so nasty" then disappeared again.


Before I reveal who this is publicly, I am curious what you guys think? I also want to give him the chance to respond before I send all this to the RJ staff.


--- Ron

I would that is very disappointing and sad on his part. Sounds like you were baited then bashed. May we all have pity on whoever this person was for he is a pathetic individual.

OUT HIM!

...and get him off of RJ

Ron

Ageism is rampant in the "CULTURE" Just hope Karma will get him back getting him back for something he can not control like HT,Eye color, or wearing glasses you knwo something petty.

I thought the number 10 was your Perasonality on a scale of 1 to 10

Best Always man

JOE

He initiated chat with you? It seems odd that someone would go out of their way to insult someone. What a shame.

I get it a lot in return where I initiate a chat with someone and they're rude. But, thankfully I've never had someone initiate a rude chat with me.

This is why I do unto others as -- well, you know...
...karma is real.
This unconscionable prick could either live long enough to be lonely and desperate.
Or wake up deformed tomorrow.
As I'm particiapting in virtual forums of this type for the first time, I'm already prepared to accept that for every 20 or so cool, mannerable guys I encounter here, there might be one or two idiots.

.....Ugh. What a creep. Caslon's got the right idea!

Oh well, one of those people, seven of us people (included you!), so far.

meninlove said .....Ugh. What a creep. Caslon's got the right idea!

Oh well, one of those people, seven of us people (included you!), so far.

Agreed.
If for nothing else, OUR protection.
I admire him taking the high road, though.

Guys, THANK YOU for your thoughts.

After I read his profile again, I can see he is a confused, sad. lonely and bitter guy.

In "Guys I want to meet" it says "Be real and sure about yourself.
I am not looking guy with many pics.
As long u are normal and not a jerk or game player.
Be yourself not a physic with his look and attitude.
I think at least they went high school. Because non of them act like educated and normal.
Most of the guys are stud or 6peck but they do not know when they become 50 yrs old no one will be there near to u.
even your 50yrs old guy will look for 20 0r 25 yrs old.
Guys come get real and serious with your emotion and feeling.
6 peck will be with u but no one will there to make u feel beeter.
Now U can fool around but at long term no use for your muscle and 6peck.
Get a life. Specialy Gym stud."


Now I think he is simply a hateful guy towards anyone older than himself.
Oh well, I even wrote to him asking why he said those things and giving him the chance to apologize or explain why he initiated a rude chat but he read it and chose not to reply so perhaps some of you might write to him.
I actually feel sorry him in some ways.

akashac360 is the guy sad case

TallGWMvballer saidAt 6:30 PM on August 12, I was called into chat by a 25 year old RJ member from NYC that I have never heard of, talked with or about or seen his profile that said "number 10 is your dick size" I said hello and asked what he meant and he said "it's on your shirt... too old and too big for me"

"Good luck grandpa"

Then he left without responding when I asked why he was so insulting... he finally said " do not be so nasty" then disappeared again.


Before I reveal who this is publicly, I am curious what you guys think? I also want to give him the chance to respond before I send all this to the RJ staff.


--- Ron

LOL I know how you feel. Jerks are quite prevalent everywhere you go in the GLBT community. I've work at 2 gay bars in the last 10 years, and I have to deal with 2 extremes, the ones who think I'm hot, and then the ones who just plain assholes. Can't people just be middle of road? Like me?

BTW, if he makes you feel like crap, why do you need our opinions? Get his sorry ASS off RJ!

"LOL I know how you feel. Jerks are quite prevalent everywhere you go in the GLBT community. I've work at 2 gay bars in the last 10 years, and I have to deal with 2 extremes, the ones who think I'm hot, and then the ones who just plain assholes. Can't people just be middle of road? Like me?

BTW, if he makes you feel like crap, why do you need our opinions? Get his sorry ASS off RJ!"


He didn't make me feel bad as much as not understanding why he initiated chat just to throw insults at someone he has never had any contact with.

As to having him sorry ass thrown off.... let's see what the moderators do here.


--- Ron

People show their true colors when they think there will be no repercussions for acting like an ass online. No one talks to one another like this in person. It's always behind a keyboard and monitor.

Damn pussies....

It amazes me how a number of young gay men could throw insults about age without realizing that they, too, will wither and wrinkle.

Insults and rudeness are Unacceptable
Whatever the reason
where it's about age race religion or lack thereof
or sexual preference

Well that's just rude.

Let's hope that he doesn't moisturise and smokes.

If that guy had any self-respect he would send you a personal e-mail apologizing for his behaviour. Confirms my belief that bitterness is just about the worse attitude to have.

I would not like him to be kicked off RJ but given a second chance. If he does it again though, adios.

Apparently English isnt his first language.

I had a guy recently initiate a chat with me, who then decided to call me a "cock whore" because I wouldn't send him nude photos or turn on my cam for him.

As painful as it was to read his profile, I found it amusing. He's quite in love with himself, and it's no surprise he's single.

I'll say it again:
Online social-networking sites may expedite friendships and hook-ups, but...
...with the exception of folks my age, as well as the dwindling number of young people who have been reared properly...
...virtual interaction is absolutely destroying basic manners.

It was probably an underage kid
The new phone prank is now internet-pranks.

Email back and say, "yeah thanks, btw I don't do boys still in diapers".

*dashes in*

Did I miss anything? Oh good it's only started.

WOW guys , referring to Mike's post!

I am amazed at how heated some of us get over things like that,

Regarding the baiting/insulting post from akashac360;
I see that jerk is still here and so far the RJ staff has not responded to my mail about our conversation, It is strange because his profile shows conflict, indecision and that he has many "friends" over 40... I have to wonder what his purpose was in calling me into chat and hurling insults.

Please guys; Email akashac360 and see what he says.

THANK YOU.



Ron

By the way; this "Grandpa" just won another Gold metal in a 6 man indoor volleyball tournament playing against teams where the average age is 30.

/me slips Mike a jar of woad and a claymore

Get 'im!

Ah goodie. Some action. Mike, it's better to fight naked. Don't paint over the good parts.

TallGWMvballer saidWOW guys , referring to Mike's post!

I am amazed at how heated some of us get over things like that,

Regarding the baiting/insulting post from akashac360;
I see that jerk is still here and so far the RJ staff has not responded to my mail about our conversation, It is strange because his profile shows conflict, indecision and that he has many "friends" over 40... I have to wonder what his purpose was in calling me into chat and hurling insults.

Please guys; Email akashac360 and see what he says.

THANK YOU.



Ron Bye the way; this "Grandpa" just won another Gold metal in a 6 man indoor volleyball tournament playing against teams where the average age is 30.

Pay no attention to that man behind the curtain.
I know you may feel pissed, but the best thing to do is let it go and let the guy stew in his own juices. Ignore him.

Sometimes the time and energy you have to spend to right a wrong is simply not worth it.

To tell you the truth, it's just a bunch of written words. I don't have the capacity to hate/be angry to someone I don't even know.

Most of us engage in real life interactions with real people. That's always better. Then there are others who are always online who feel they have a great social life but to me it's just not enough.

BTW.......BIG kudos for your volleyball victory.