Have you done/considered something kinky JUST because the guy is hot?

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    Aug 09, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
    I met one guy through a mutual facebook friend is just unbelievably hot. He hits all the right notes. Just about anyone would find him attractive. Handsome.. built.. intelligent... however he's not into average sex.

    Upon flirting with him he told me he was kinky.. i thought that meant whips and chains.. domination.. something like that.. but then he dropped hints like "Raunchy".. i thought.. worst is that he like treasure island style cum up the ass... gallons of it... gang bangs.. when i got him to explain... he went to obvious most raunchiest kinikest think one can think of... SHIT.

    He is a shit bottom. He liked to eat it and be smothered in it. He likes "shit talk" hehe... He belongs to shit boards.. he's heavily invested hardcore in this fetish. He also explains it well.

    I didn't want to run from him.. i wanted to actually get into head..so i did.. and even allowed him to share his world scat.. because i wanted to try to understand why would someone be into that.

    My kinky factor is pretty normal.. peeing ON someone or getting peed on.. sweat and slight verbal... is as kinky as i can get. I wouldn't mind tying someone up.. or even the puppy play scene is a slight turn on from afar.


    But shit.. eh...

    but did i mention he was HOT?


    In other incidences . i've embraced someones Crushing fantasy .. not because i fully liked it.. but because it got him off and it was interesting enough to hear him explain why he likes to get crushed and squeezed. Not something i would request in sex... i'm fairly open minded. When i crushed him.. i actually found something in that i liked. Plus it wasn't on the level of poo.


    I surprised myself by deciding to apease the shit guy with ONE THING.. god i can't believe i'm admitting this.. but whatever..

    he wanted a shit video in return for underwear from him.. and so i took a 30 second video of me on the stool faceless with grunting and sent it. The furthest i could go.. because i could not in good conscious send someone a shitty brief. which is what he wanted.

    Afterward.. i laughed at how just fucking weird it was. But amused that i did it.. because it was funny to me. Almost like a college dare.


    so how far would go for someone? Would you step out of your comfort zone? have you? and for what?
  • Beeftastic

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    Aug 09, 2012 11:26 AM GMT
    Um, yeah, that is pretty far out of my comfort zone! I can't handle that kind of raunch. I've done a lot of scenes, just to try them out and found that most of them don't do much for me. Watersports could be fun in the shower, where you can both get clean as soon as things cool off. Enemas have a certain appeal if things are clean already.

    I was with one guy that made a big deal about having on knee high socks. He was very embarrassed about how weird his fetish was, and said he had a number of experiences where guys ridiculed him and told him he was crazy for it. I thought that was pretty lame, if you like a guy and all it takes to get him crazy horny is to let him wear knee high socks, I think you have an easy job ahead of you icon_smile.gif

    Guys that like to wear girlie things in bed can be tolerated (and once or twice kind of hot) if they are hot and muscular, as long as there no wigs or makeup or fake nails.

    Guys that like to be pushed around and called bad things, as long as it's clearly defined as role play it's cool, though I don't think I'd like that in someone that I was dating for any amount of time.

    Bondage can be pretty fun, but really for me gets old fairly quick if it's something regular.

    The worst thing I have done is gotten into some pretty graphic and denigrating race play with a black guy, using every and any combination of words and tableaus that a white guy should never use. But he wanted it bad, and he would get so incredibly turned on by the experience. In fact, I think he was one of the most turned on guys I ever played with, this worked for him so much. So the satisfaction of giving him the fucks of his life, definitely balanced my whitebread guilt over crossing that line.

    But day to day it's the vanilla side of things that I get the most satisfaction from.
  • calibro

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    Aug 09, 2012 11:29 AM GMT
    i once made a guy in texas go to a vegetarian restaurant with me because he thought i was hot. shit was crazy.
  • Buddha

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    Aug 09, 2012 11:30 AM GMT
    Never ever scat, or wet for me. Regardless how hot the guy is.
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    Aug 09, 2012 11:42 AM GMT
    I associate piss and shit with two things. Flushing and washing my hands. Not sex... I would never do such a twisted grotesque act upon another human being. However on earth some people even develop these smelly, dirty bodily waste fetishes astonishes me to date! Some things in life need a fuckin' limit!

    But ultimately to each his own in a world gone wild..
  • FireDoor211

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    Aug 09, 2012 11:52 AM GMT
    Im pretty vanilla on the regular. Sex with men is pretty much as out there as I get. Occasionally a threesome, but I think it's creepy when it's all guys. I experimented with all sorts of things when I was younger. If I was even remotely curious about something, I'd do it. As it turned out, I just really like vanilla ordinary sex. With men or women. I just like sex.

    However I did meet a scatopheliac who was into pig play. He offered me a substantial amount of money to do some less than favorable things. It was nothing that would hurt anyone, and I myself wasn't going to get dirty. So I figured, why not. Afterward though, I was much like you JackKash. I just wanted to get into his head and figure out why he was into this stuff. I'm more curious about what makes people tick than anything else. Can that be called a fetish? Lol
  • slimnmuscly

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    Aug 09, 2012 11:58 AM GMT
    JackKash said

    In other incidences . i've embraced someones Crushing fantasy .. not because i fully liked it.. but because it got him off and it was interesting enough to hear him explain why he likes to get crushed and squeezed. Not something i would request in sex... i'm fairly open minded. When i crushed him.. i actually found something in that i liked.


    Really? Was he hot? icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 09, 2012 1:27 PM GMT
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    Aug 09, 2012 1:34 PM GMT
    Trying to understand what he likes about it is as far as I would go with the shit thing. So far I have not done much kinky stuff, not even tying hands or anything and still sex has been a lot of fun.
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    Aug 09, 2012 2:03 PM GMT
    That would be a deal breaker for me! I couldn't kiss anyone knowing they eat shit on ocassion.
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    Aug 09, 2012 2:16 PM GMT
    Mother of god what did I just read...my first thread of the dayicon_eek.gif
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    Aug 09, 2012 2:28 PM GMT
    No....

    Not at that level. I'll push my comfort zone but, for me, that's past my line in the sand. I'm pretty sure I'd have nothing but a big soft penis (that cold, wet spaghetti kind) even seeing it let alone the smell. His hot factor would be a zero with me no matter what freak boy looked like.
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    Aug 09, 2012 2:35 PM GMT
    that is beyond my comfort zone. I'm good with trying most things once (or so I thought) but . . . . I guess I do have boundaries. Who knew.
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    Aug 09, 2012 2:56 PM GMT
    Ewwwww nooooo! I might do a little S&M but piss and shit??? No.
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    Aug 09, 2012 3:02 PM GMT
    I'm kinky and like a few things that would weird out some blokes but I agree, scat is a whole other level.

    I understand why it's a turn on for them but I just can't fuck with it. The very thought of shit combined with sex just sends my dick south.

    I do know a guy who is into it though and he's had a few 'client's' that he's prepared 'lunch boxes' for icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 09, 2012 3:02 PM GMT
    JackKash saidI met one guy through a mutual facebook friend is just unbelievably hot. He hits all the right notes. Just about anyone would find him attractive. Handsome.. built.. intelligent... however he's not into average sex.

    Upon flirting with him he told me he was kinky.. i thought that meant whips and chains.. domination.. something like that.. but then he dropped hints like "Raunchy".. i thought.. worst is that he like treasure island style cum up the ass... gallons of it... gang bangs.. when i got him to explain... he went to obvious most raunchiest kinikest think one can think of... SHIT.

    He is a shit bottom. He liked to eat it and be smothered in it. He likes "shit talk" hehe... He belongs to shit boards.. he's heavily invested hardcore in this fetish. He also explains it well.

    I didn't want to run from him.. i wanted to actually get into head..so i did.. and even allowed him to share his world scat.. because i wanted to try to understand why would someone be into that.

    My kinky factor is pretty normal.. peeing ON someone or getting peed on.. sweat and slight verbal... is as kinky as i can get. I wouldn't mind tying someone up.. or even the puppy play scene is a slight turn on from afar.


    But shit.. eh...

    but did i mention he was HOT?


    In other incidences . i've embraced someones Crushing fantasy .. not because i fully liked it.. but because it got him off and it was interesting enough to hear him explain why he likes to get crushed and squeezed. Not something i would request in sex... i'm fairly open minded. When i crushed him.. i actually found something in that i liked. Plus it wasn't on the level of poo.


    I surprised myself by deciding to apease the shit guy with ONE THING.. god i can't believe i'm admitting this.. but whatever..

    he wanted a shit video in return for underwear from him.. and so i took a 30 second video of me on the stool faceless with grunting and sent it. The furthest i could go.. because i could not in good conscious send someone a shitty brief. which is what he wanted.

    Afterward.. i laughed at how just fucking weird it was. But amused that i did it.. because it was funny to me. Almost like a college dare.


    so how far would go for someone? Would you step out of your comfort zone? have you? and for what?


    Ah...yeah...I'm speechless.

    To each his own, but eating shit...I think I just threw up in my mouth.
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    Aug 09, 2012 3:19 PM GMT
    CuriousOne saidThat would be a deal breaker for me! I couldn't kiss anyone knowing they eat shit on ocassion.


    Oh god...I just barfed a bit in my mouth. The thought of it is foul.

    Wait...I do kiss my dog sometimes and she does lick my face, but she is my baby girl.
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    Aug 09, 2012 3:22 PM GMT
    This thread got me thinking. Has anyone ever encountered a guy with a diaper fetish ?

    That seems pretty out there to me , the most obvious reason being the links to pedophilia but maybe I'm just way off the mark because I don't understand it.

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    Aug 09, 2012 3:25 PM GMT
    I don't think eating shit can be classified as kink. I'd call it some sort of personality disorder.
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    Aug 09, 2012 3:27 PM GMT
    I'm hear "Ginuwine - My Pony" in my head every damn time JackCash posts.
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    Aug 09, 2012 3:35 PM GMT
    uoft23 saidI don't think eating shit can be classified as kink. I'd call it some sort of personality disorder.


    agreed!

    I understand, To each their own.... but to me. It's just...


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    Daas saidI'm hear "Ginuwine - My Pony" in my head every damn time JackCash posts.



    Damn it! now i'm going to hear that every time too.
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    Aug 09, 2012 3:36 PM GMT
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    I'm just regular average-joe sex. Using RJ as an example there are guys all over the sex spectrum. Some who refuse to hook up for a fear of whatever and other end who are into scat etc.

    I avoid passing judgement on others otherwise there is no difference between me and some ignorant fuck who judges me based on my sexuality or skin color. So, as usual, I'll say it isn't for me.
  • DrobUA

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    Aug 09, 2012 3:50 PM GMT
    Yea... To each there own but I'm pretty damn vanilla when it comes to sex. The kinkiest I would consider is probably a 3some or really light bondage. If a guy want me to hold his arms behind his back while he's getting it, that's fine but once it turns into the "rape scene" I'm over it.
  • SomeSiciliano...

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    Aug 09, 2012 3:50 PM GMT

    That is one of the things on my 'No Fly List' icon_eek.gif IDGAF how 'hot' they are. It is a bio-process and I am not a 14 year old girl about it (*ewwww*ewww) but I am with Uofl23....sexualizing AND consuming feces screams major personality disorder(s).

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    Aug 09, 2012 3:54 PM GMT
    When asked on Grindr "What are you into?" I usually respond just about anything except scat and bondage (someone I just hook up with is not going to tie me up). And as for scat - no, never, no way, no how.