How do I tell a guy I'm not interested in him anymore because he doesn't want to come out

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    Aug 10, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    I was thinking

    "If I wanted a pussy I'd get a chick"
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    Aug 10, 2012 3:53 AM GMT
    Tell him he's only half a man if he can't stand up for himself.
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    Aug 10, 2012 3:53 AM GMT
    Dj1990 saidI was thinking

    "If I wanted a pussy I'd get a chick"



    by saying "I'm not interested in you anymore because you don't want to come out" icon_smile.gif


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    Aug 10, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    BlackCat90 said
    Dj1990 saidI was thinking

    "If I wanted a pussy I'd get a chick"



    by saying "I'm not interested in you anymore because you don't want to come out" icon_smile.gif




    Hmm interesting
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    Aug 10, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    BlackCat90 said
    Dj1990 saidI was thinking

    "If I wanted a pussy I'd get a chick"



    by saying "I'm not interested in you anymore because you don't want to come out" icon_smile.gif




    This, but do it on a billboard.
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    Aug 10, 2012 4:38 AM GMT
    Dude, you are a Troll in your own life; or at least the life you want us to think you lead. Fail*
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    Aug 10, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    You were never interested in him to begin with .. just tell him you are moving on
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    Aug 10, 2012 4:48 AM GMT
    Dj1990 saidI was thinking

    "If I wanted a pussy I'd get a chick"


    pretty much what you should say. It's waste of time and a dead end concept for you... ask him "why the hell do want me to begin with?" In reality you could never REALLY be together..and the relationship will always be one ended..

    closeted men who try to date our selfish creatures.. especially when the lies comes.. covering up for their insecurities.. the fact that they often will not introduce you to their families.. it's a horrible thing. My first boyfriend ever was closeted..and 3 years i went along with it because i did not know better. Three years wasted..and three years somewhat abused.. because of the psychological toll. I only have myself to blame. Good thing you know better at your age.. then i did at 17 through 20.
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    Aug 10, 2012 10:19 AM GMT
    How do I tell a guy I'm not interested in him anymore because he doesn't want to come out

    BlackCat90 saidby saying "I'm not interested in you anymore because you don't want to come out" icon_smile.gif

    That's basically what I told a closeted guy. I said I really liked him, but I was out myself and didn't like playing closet games, making it difficult for me to be with him, and much less fun.

    I told him I didn't like having to make up stories to others about why we did things together, I didn't like not being able to touch him in public, I didn't like that I couldn't sleep over at his house because he worried a relative or friend might drop over early the next morning. (At least he'd sleep over at my place, but I had to find room in my garage to hide his car overnight)

    Bottom line: too much hassle, when that wasn't how I lived. I told him to get himself another closeted guy like himself who'd make a better match, they might find living a double life together a nice bonding experience. icon_razz.gif
  • Karl

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    Aug 10, 2012 10:27 AM GMT
    oops , BC beat me to it. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Aug 10, 2012 10:45 AM GMT
    You didn't have 'the talk' when you started dating? I hope you let him down gently. Mean breakups suck.
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    Aug 10, 2012 3:35 PM GMT
    i would say:

    "i paid a price in coming out, and it was worth it. i threw away the receipt, and i'm not returning the merchandise because i love it. i wish you the best"

    it's just like any number of other deal breakers in life
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    Aug 10, 2012 6:11 PM GMT
    BlackCat90 said
    Dj1990 saidI was thinking

    "If I wanted a pussy I'd get a chick"



    by saying "I'm not interested in you anymore because you don't want to come out" icon_smile.gif



    Bonus points if you can say that when a bunch of his friends or family are around.