Question for total Bottoms

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    Aug 11, 2012 5:09 PM GMT
    How can you be only bottom? I understand a top not wanting to bottom because being fucked in the ass can be uncomfortable and painful for some. But what's so uncomfortable to top someone? We're guys, so whatever that makes a dick ejaculate should be comfortable, so why do you refuse to top... I just don't get it.
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    Aug 11, 2012 7:47 PM GMT
    Because they dont enjoy the sensation maybe?

    Because maybe their partner is bigger than them and it is awkward and clunky to top?

    Or maybe they just prefer the bottom bunk.

    I think the better question is why you would care...
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    Aug 11, 2012 7:53 PM GMT
    Chainers saidBecause they dont enjoy the sensation maybe?

    Because maybe their partner is bigger than them and it is awkward and clunky to top?

    Or maybe they just prefer the bottom bunk.

    I think the better question is why you would care...


    all of this plus my bf is a total stud and has me clinging on for dear life most nights of the week.

    cant beat it
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    Aug 11, 2012 10:23 PM GMT
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    Aug 14, 2012 4:36 PM GMT
    I think, I am too lazy to fuck an ass. And I can seldom get hard enough.
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    Aug 14, 2012 5:14 PM GMT
    tangent:

    as a versatile man, i always find it weird when people describe themselves as "A" bottom.... or "A" top.... it makes it sound like you are just a role in a sex act, rather than a person...if your gear was out of commission, you could still get off...no doubt. it wouldn't change who you are.

    now, having said that, and having dated guys who were not versatile in either direction....i've definitely felt that i was "his" top or "his" bottom....as it relates to a specific man that i cared about.

    indefinite articles tends to dehumanize people til they sound like sex toys
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    Aug 14, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    Steduo saidHow can you be only bottom? I understand a top not wanting to bottom because being fucked in the ass can be uncomfortable and painful for some. But what's so uncomfortable to top someone? We're guys, so whatever that makes a dick ejaculate should be comfortable, so why do you refuse to top... I just don't get it.


    Maybe they don't last long when topping?
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    Aug 14, 2012 5:42 PM GMT
    This sounds like a discrimination against bottoms. And there is already enough discrimination against gays .A lot of straight men just can't get why a man fucks another in the ass..

    So.. I just don't get it.

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    Aug 14, 2012 6:09 PM GMT
    um, because everyone is different and has different preferences.

    what's it to you?
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    Aug 14, 2012 9:42 PM GMT
    Maybe OP just had a bad experience and wanted to be topped by someone who was an exclusive bottom..
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    Aug 19, 2012 12:54 AM GMT
    i dont no about other total bottoms but for me it has always been natural to have a guy inside me. maybe because i like being fem i feel more like a girl and like masc men. i guess i should have been born female.
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    Aug 19, 2012 2:00 AM GMT
    i think it's more a psychological thing for me. i'm more of a passive/submissive guy and i like the guys i date to be more dominate. that's not to say i'm fem or flamboyant. i'm "straight acting". i just like my guy to be the big spoon, the masculine one. so for me to top him makes me feel like our roles are reversed and i'm the dominate one. that doesn't feel good to me, which is why i always bottom. plus, i don't always get hard enough to top.
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    Aug 19, 2012 9:31 PM GMT
    Egro_Nadley saidtangent:

    as a versatile man, i always find it weird when people describe themselves as "A" bottom.... or "A" top.... it makes it sound like you are just a role in a sex act, rather than a person...if your gear was out of commission, you could still get off...no doubt. it wouldn't change who you are.

    now, having said that, and having dated guys who were not versatile in either direction....i've definitely felt that i was "his" top or "his" bottom....as it relates to a specific man that i cared about.

    indefinite articles tends to dehumanize people til they sound like sex toys


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    Aug 19, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    beauu saidi think it's more a psychological thing for me. i'm more of a passive/submissive guy and i like the guys i date to be more dominate. that's not to say i'm fem or flamboyant. i'm "straight acting". i just like my guy to be the big spoon, the masculine one. so for me to top him makes me feel like our roles are reversed and i'm the dominate one. that doesn't feel good to me, which is why i always bottom. plus, i don't always get hard enough to top.



    ^ What he said well some parts to an extent. I don't really have the desire to top as well