My college roommate is FAKE

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    Aug 11, 2012 8:38 PM GMT
    So I haven't spoken to him since like May when spring semester ended. Now we're getting ready to go back and I haven't as so much received a text, phone call, or FB message asking how I'm doing. Now I'm not saying we were super close during the school year but I thought we formed some type of bond. Before we went home he asked for my number and said he would call over summer and he hasn't called once. I even posted something on his Facebook and he straight up ignored it.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:16 PM GMT
    "Just because you're roommates, doesn't mean you're friends."
  • calibro

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    Aug 11, 2012 9:22 PM GMT
    he's your roommate, not your boyfriend icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:29 PM GMT
    I cant stand fake people. Don't pretend to be my friend.
  • franklinstein

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    Aug 11, 2012 9:29 PM GMT
    If you didn't exchange numbers during the school year, then you weren't close. So why care?
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    He was trying to get his room changed but was unsuccessful.....icon_cry.gif
  • MrPapo317

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    Aug 11, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    Neight said"Just because you're roommates, doesn't mean you're friends."


    This.
    Everyone is not your friend. Even tho they might seem to be.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    Boland92 saidSo I haven't spoken to him since like May when spring semester ended. Now we're getting ready to go back and I haven't as so much received a text, phone call, or FB message asking how I'm doing. Now I'm not saying we were super close during the school year but I thought we formed some type of bond. Before we went home he asked for my number and said he would call over summer and he hasn't called once. I even posted something on his Facebook and he straight up ignored it.



    Stop being so damn needy.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    Boland92 saidSo I haven't spoken to him since like May when spring semester ended. Now we're getting ready to go back and I haven't as so much received a text, phone call, or FB message asking how I'm doing. Now I'm not saying we were super close during the school year but I thought we formed some type of bond. Before we went home he asked for my number and said he would call over summer and he hasn't called once. I even posted something on his Facebook and he straight up ignored it.
    Move on. I thought I bonded with my first roommate, but we weren't as great of friends as I thought we were. If he's too busy with you, don't constantly try to be in contact with him, since it looks like you would be clingy, thus making the situation worse. If he comes around, he comes around. If he doesn't, he doesn't.

    But then again- virtually every other roommate I've had after him I wanted to deck in the face except the third one.
  • d694485

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    Aug 11, 2012 9:33 PM GMT
    Just be glad you didn't have multiple roommates that you hated.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:34 PM GMT
    Oh god.. you are only 20.. then you haven't scratched the surface..most people are fake.. you will be fake to someone at some point in time.. or will have to be "fake" to someone. The social world almost forces some people to take numbers they don't want to take. When he was your roommate he forced to be friendly with you and bond. Now that he doesn't have to.. you are obviously not preferential in terms of communication. It happens. Sometimes it sucks. But get ready. It's going to happen to you a million times more. Especially in places like work and school.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:36 PM GMT
    Where is the Original of your boyfriend... of do you have to kill all the Cylons until you find out which one was the real one first?
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    JR_RJ saidWhere is the Original of your boyfriend... of do you have to kill all the Cylons until you find out which one was the real one first?
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    wut
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    JR_RJ saidWhere is the Original of your boyfriend... of do you have to kill all the Cylons until you find out which one was the real one first?
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    hahahaha
  • trl_

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    Aug 11, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    There's no rule that says roommates have to be friends. From my experience, lots of people go off to college thinking this and it actually causes disagreements more than anything.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:39 PM GMT
    desperate times call for desperate measures.


    Hide out in his bushes, and send love notes to his mothers. GTFU
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:42 PM GMT
    JR_RJ saidWhere is the Original of your boyfriend... of do you have to kill all the Cylons until you find out which one was the real one first?
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    This has all happened before...
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:43 PM GMT
    Yeah,he is pretty fake.

    It's really sad to be that you wouldn't at least want to call someone up (AS A HUMAN BEING) and see how they've been. I think if You spend that much time with someone You should at least care about them a tiny bit. Sorry You had to deal with that man. Avoid him because those are apparently his true colors.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:44 PM GMT
    Boland92 saidSo I haven't spoken to him since like May when spring semester ended. Now we're getting ready to go back and I haven't as so much received a text, phone call, or FB message asking how I'm doing. Now I'm not saying we were super close during the school year but I thought we formed some type of bond. Before we went home he asked for my number and said he would call over summer and he hasn't called once. I even posted something on his Facebook and he straight up ignored it.

    Duh, you probably remind him of school/ college and he doesn't want to think about it while on vacay or at a summer job.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:48 PM GMT
    You're acting like a woman.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:48 PM GMT
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    Boland92 saidSo I haven't spoken to him since like May when spring semester ended. Now we're getting ready to go back and I haven't as so much received a text, phone call, or FB message asking how I'm doing. Now I'm not saying we were super close during the school year but I thought we formed some type of bond. Before we went home he asked for my number and said he would call over summer and he hasn't called once. I even posted something on his Facebook and he straight up ignored it.

    Duh, you probably remind him of school/ college and he doesn't want to think about it while on vacay or at a summer job.


    True, I know when I get off work-- I am off work, and don't want to see anybody from there or getting any phone calls asking where stuff is, etc.

    And it is kind of like the bus driver thing... when you were in school you would say hi to yours every morning while boarding, and it became a routine. If that bus driver would come to your house one day to say hi, it would be weird. I guess certain relationships are only acceptable in certain situations.
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    Aug 11, 2012 9:51 PM GMT
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    JR_RJ saidWhere is the Original of your boyfriend... of do you have to kill all the Cylons until you find out which one was the real one first?
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    This has all happened before...
    Oh shit... icon_eek.gif Back to the mothership!
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    Aug 11, 2012 10:06 PM GMT
    Like someone already said most people can be really fake. People may be nice to your face, but it doesn't mean they actually like you that much. I haven't really talked to any of my roommates since June. However, I'm pretty happy about that, as I have a whole year to spend with them.Maybe your roommate is same and just wants some time to himself.
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    Aug 11, 2012 10:10 PM GMT
    Why do gay guys always create unnecessary drama?
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    Aug 11, 2012 10:14 PM GMT
    Iceblink saidWhy do gay guys always create unnecessary drama?

    I see what you did there.icon_lol.gificon_biggrin.gif