To friend zone someone you're infatuated with?

  • Smakkyoface

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    Aug 12, 2012 1:51 AM GMT
    How?
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    Aug 12, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    FWB

    this is a definate FWB situation.... smash the life out of him in the bedroom, and then pretend to be concerned about his poorly dog or whatever.

    sounds gd to go
  • FuriousGeorge

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    Aug 12, 2012 7:23 AM GMT
    Man, life is too short not to take reasonable risks. Sure, you could get burned by the infamous "Sorry! I want a woman!" line, but what if you don't? The worst thing you can do is overthink it. If you're into him, and he's into you, give it a shot. Take it slow, don't get too attached too quickly, and see how it goes. Also, remind him that no woman could ever suck his dick as well as you could. icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 12, 2012 8:28 AM GMT
    FuriousGeorge saidMan, life is too short not to take reasonable risks. Sure, you could get burned by the infamous "Sorry! I want a woman!" line, but what if you don't? The worst thing you can do is overthink it. If you're into him, and he's into you, give it a shot. Take it slow, don't get too attached too quickly, and see how it goes. Also, remind him that no woman could ever suck his dick as well as you could. icon_cool.gif

    He speaks the truth.
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    Aug 12, 2012 8:52 PM GMT
    So the guy is Bi..doesn't mean he's an asshole..!!
    Go for it OP..
    Proceed with caution!
  • Smakkyoface

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    Aug 13, 2012 1:07 AM GMT
    Thank you guys for your replies.

    I've decided to proceed with caution and asked him to go out next weekend. I want to wait till all the butterflies are under control so that I don't put out the second I see him lol.

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    Aug 13, 2012 1:18 AM GMT
    Gosh, yer cute. Good luck with it...just, you know, like the others said, use him and enjoy it.
  • stratavos

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    Aug 13, 2012 2:12 AM GMT
    FuriousGeorge saidMan, life is too short not to take reasonable risks. Sure, you could get burned by the infamous "Sorry! I want a woman!" line, but what if you don't? The worst thing you can do is overthink it. If you're into him, and he's into you, give it a shot. Take it slow, don't get too attached too quickly, and see how it goes. Also, remind him that no woman could ever suck his dick as well as you could. icon_cool.gif


    not to mention not all bisexuals are the same. hell change the word "bisexual to "human" and see how ridiculous the phrase is.
  • Smakkyoface

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    Aug 13, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    stratavos said
    FuriousGeorge saidMan, life is too short not to take reasonable risks. Sure, you could get burned by the infamous "Sorry! I want a woman!" line, but what if you don't? The worst thing you can do is overthink it. If you're into him, and he's into you, give it a shot. Take it slow, don't get too attached too quickly, and see how it goes. Also, remind him that no woman could ever suck his dick as well as you could. icon_cool.gif


    not to mention not all bisexuals are the same. hell change the word "bisexual to "human" and see how ridiculous the phrase is.


    I know I shouldn't relate him to my ex. But once you get burned by a hot stove, it's a bit tougher to make yourself touch it again. Especially if it left a nasty scar.
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    Aug 13, 2012 2:50 AM GMT
    How well do you really know him? Have you only talked online? My suggestion would be to meet him in person to see if you like him as much as you think you do. Then you can go from there. Being bisexual shouldn't rule him out. A 100% gay boyfriend can leave you for someone else just as easily. In the end, if you really are interested in him, you have to let him know somehow. Don't regret what might have been.

    Oh, and don't use him. If you both was a NSA type of relationship, that's one thing, but respect what he wants as much as you expect him to respect what you want.