He is very serious!! UPDATE..!!!

  • kemoze

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    Aug 12, 2012 2:24 PM GMT
    Guys i have posted before about my first date with that serious guy, we have been in contact since our first face to face contact, well today I am gonna see him at night maybe after three hours from now, I would like to mention some of his characteristics so that you guys can help me,..,

    First he is a middle easterner, speakes Egyptian accent which I do speak but he is kuwaiti from kuwait, he is highly educated and speakes English like native speakers,
    He is very hot, Arab with blue eyes, tall very muscular he is one of the hottest guys I have ever seen,

    BUT: he acts like middle easterner very jealous, controlling, possisive and he has a belief that boy friends own each other.

    He is very rich, I mean he has GMC car, works at bank and from a very rich family, when I visited him I found his place very big villa, big bed room full of everything even when I used the bathroom I was like wtf.,,

    I am a middle class person, I wanted to buy a car but I visited turkey instead
    All I have is my salary and some money I sent to my father in Egypt for any emergency.

    So guys to be honest " I like him" and today is a very important day in our relation, because we are gonna talk about everything what I like what I dislike, what he likes and what he dislikes.

    Guys he is very romantic in every sense of the word, he likes me so much. I like the way he is even though I know he has to change the middle east mentality like stop being so jealous, and the ownership belief.,,


    Actually guys I am writing this to give a feedback and see if you guys could give me some advice, I don't know if it will work or not but I really hope it does
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    Aug 12, 2012 2:38 PM GMT

    I think this may be why your other topic contained a lot of advice to ditch the guy - cultural differences.

    As you said, "he acts like middle easterner very jealous, controlling, possisive and he has a belief that boy friends own each other."
    ....which is how a lot of straight men there behave with women. If he gets like that, very calmly remind him you are another man, and that you don't own him, and so don't expect to treated that way by him or you'll withdraw.

    This does not need to be stated meanly, but rather very warmly (keeping kind concern in your voice, as you want this relationship to happen).

    So there you go, my opinion.

    I wish you every success!

    -Doug
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    Aug 12, 2012 4:25 PM GMT
    Aug 10, 2012 8:25 PM..That was the date of your fist post regarding this guy....
    That's when you said you met him...

    Aug 12, 2012 10:24 AM..this is today...
    Your second post......

    Being single freaks me out..!! This your profile headline..!!OP..you are moving too fast...
    You can't help yourself can you..??

    It would make me so happy if this worked out for you...
    But ..this could be all "Chemical"..
    Slow it down!..
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    Aug 12, 2012 10:58 PM GMT
    I couldn't get the part where you need advice icon_smile.gif everyone is like a whole new world ;) just go on and discover through your inner feelings. You are going to experience new things...see if those fit you. If they do then get serious then get married icon_biggrin.gif Love is quite simple, doesn't need much of explanation, I hope all of us experience it. On the other hand, I can discover that guy for you icon_cool.gif (Just kidding icon_smile.gif)
  • John6311

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    Aug 12, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    How is the sex? I think you need to enjoy dating him and stop over thinking it all. Only time will tell.
  • kemoze

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    Aug 13, 2012 5:27 AM GMT
    Yesterday I went to the beach to do my favorite habit which is jogging along the beach at night, I always stay 1:30 hours then I go back home, the guy I am dating asked me not to go for jogging because he would call me anytime to hang out, well I went to the beach then I got home so freaken tired had shower then slept, woke up at 2 am the guy I am dating calling me and I says " thanks for asking about me " then I answer him " what the hell are you talking about" he becomes very angry and tells me that he had a sort of accident " I don't know what exactly happened" then he blames me for not calling him and that I am selfish to schedule my day without puting him in consideration I shouted at him and told him how in hell I could know about this? And he hang the phone on me saying I have to go !!! Then texts me and says I am not listening or caring to what's going between us.

    Guys I called him during the day 1/ to say good morning
    ............2/ to tell him that I finished the work and on my way home
    ..,............................. 3/ called him directly after Iftar " the time we start eating in Ramadan " the holy month"

    So I really don't want to sound persistent not needy and he says he would call me when he finishes but I slept and he had that accident..
    He texts me later to say that he is so tired and would talk to me today..

    What I am going to do is " I won't call him nor even text him "
    I don't know if this is the right or wrong but thats what I feel like I want to do
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    Aug 13, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
    I think you are the type to do what you are going to do regardless of the advice you get here..
    What do you think you should do?
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Aug 13, 2012 6:01 AM GMT
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  • O5vx

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    Aug 13, 2012 6:23 AM GMT
    Yeahhhhhh. this is not the right guy for you. Simple. Don't contact him and don't let him contact you.
  • kemoze

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    Aug 13, 2012 6:28 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidI think you are the type to do what you are going to do regardless of the advice you get here..
    What do you think you should do?


    I think of what you guys say then I do what I think is suitable to my situation and close to your opinion.,, i take what fits me because I am totally in a different situation.,, I am in Kuwait not Canada nor us so I take what fits my situation.,, well so far I didn't call him yet and I don't think I will. And would like to know what you guys would do if you were on my shoes besides I would like to keep you guys up to date to this if you guys don't mind so icon_smile.gif
  • O5vx

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    Aug 13, 2012 6:33 AM GMT
    kemoze said
    Anocxu saidI think you are the type to do what you are going to do regardless of the advice you get here..
    What do you think you should do?


    I think of what you guys say then I do what I think is suitable to my situation and close to your opinion.,, i take what fits me because I am totally in a different situation.,, I am in Kuwait not Canada nor us so I take what fits my situation.,, well so far I didn't call him yet and I don't think I will. And would like to know what you guys would do if you were on my shoes besides I would like to keep you guys up to date to this if you guys don't mind so icon_smile.gif
    dont talk to him unless. He apologize for his awful atittude.
  • kemoze

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    Aug 13, 2012 6:43 AM GMT
    O5vx said
    kemoze said
    Anocxu saidI think you are the type to do what you are going to do regardless of the advice you get here..
    What do you think you should do?


    I think of what you guys say then I do what I think is suitable to my situation and close to your opinion.,, i take what fits me because I am totally in a different situation.,, I am in Kuwait not Canada nor us so I take what fits my situation.,, well so far I didn't call him yet and I don't think I will. And would like to know what you guys would do if you were on my shoes besides I would like to keep you guys up to date to this if you guys don't mind so icon_smile.gif
    dont talk to him unless. He apologize for his awful atittude.


    I will go with this advice. icon_smile.gif

    I won't call him what ever happens, but if he calls me I won't turn him down icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
  • O5vx

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    Aug 13, 2012 6:58 AM GMT
    kemoze said
    O5vx said
    kemoze said
    Anocxu saidI think you are the type to do what you are going to do regardless of the advice you get here..
    What do you think you should do?


    I think of what you guys say then I do what I think is suitable to my situation and close to your opinion.,, i take what fits me because I am totally in a different situation.,, I am in Kuwait not Canada nor us so I take what fits my situation.,, well so far I didn't call him yet and I don't think I will. And would like to know what you guys would do if you were on my shoes besides I would like to keep you guys up to date to this if you guys don't mind so icon_smile.gif
    dont talk to him unless. He apologize for his awful atittude.


    I will go with this advice. icon_smile.gif

    I won't call him what ever happens, but if he calls me I won't turn him down icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
    let him apologize.
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    Aug 13, 2012 2:02 PM GMT
    O5vx said
    kemoze said
    O5vx said
    kemoze said
    Anocxu saidI think you are the type to do what you are going to do regardless of the advice you get here..
    What do you think you should do?


    I think of what you guys say then I do what I think is suitable to my situation and close to your opinion.,, i take what fits me because I am totally in a different situation.,, I am in Kuwait not Canada nor us so I take what fits my situation.,, well so far I didn't call him yet and I don't think I will. And would like to know what you guys would do if you were on my shoes besides I would like to keep you guys up to date to this if you guys don't mind so icon_smile.gif
    dont talk to him unless. He apologize for his awful atittude.


    I will go with this advice. icon_smile.gif

    I won't call him what ever happens, but if he calls me I won't turn him down icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
    let him apologize.


    I agree.
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    Aug 13, 2012 2:28 PM GMT
    kemoze saidGuys i have posted before about my first date with that serious guy, we have been in contact since our first face to face contact, well today I am gonna see him at night maybe after three hours from now, I would like to mention some of his characteristics so that you guys can help me,..,

    First he is a middle easterner, speakes Egyptian accent which I do speak but he is kuwaiti from kuwait, he is highly educated and speakes English like native speakers,
    He is very hot, Arab with blue eyes, tall very muscular he is one of the hottest guys I have ever seen,

    BUT: he acts like middle easterner very jealous, controlling, possisive and he has a belief that boy friends own each other.

    He is very rich, I mean he has GMC car, works at bank and from a very rich family, when I visited him I found his place very big villa, big bed room full of everything even when I used the bathroom I was like wtf.,,

    I am a middle class person, I wanted to buy a car but I visited turkey instead
    All I have is my salary and some money I sent to my father in Egypt for any emergency.

    So guys to be honest " I like him" and today is a very important day in our relation, because we are gonna talk about everything what I like what I dislike, what he likes and what he dislikes.

    Guys he is very romantic in every sense of the word, he likes me so much. I like the way he is even though I know he has to change the middle east mentality like stop being so jealous, and the ownership belief.,,


    Actually guys I am writing this to give a feedback and see if you guys could give me some advice, I don't know if it will work or not but I really hope it does


    GOOD GRIEF I AM SERIOUSLY WORK DODGING RIGHT NOW
  • Trepeat

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    Aug 13, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    No advice for you, but I got a piece for your boyfriend:

    Pre-nup.