Would you delete your account on Realjock if you have a boy friend? Update " pls guys read my reply to him "

  • kemoze

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    Aug 13, 2012 10:03 PM GMT
    Today I was talking with the guy I am seeing and he asked me about my accounts on the Internet and I told him that I have one at Realjock then he wanted me to delete it but I refused because I get a lot of advice and information from this site..,, so I think I won't talk to him again because he says either him or Realjock.,, I just met him on Friday I still don't know him that much...,,,

    Would you guys delete your account on Realjock if you have a boy friend?
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    Aug 13, 2012 10:49 PM GMT
    After 3 days he's making demands? Amber light flashing!!

    WARNING, WILL ROBINSON, WARNING!! DANGER! DANGER!
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    Aug 13, 2012 10:49 PM GMT
    In a minute.
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    Aug 13, 2012 10:51 PM GMT
    I have a partner and never deleted any account.
    Specially Realjock, as it's a gay fitness site, not a dating one.
    Of course, any activity with other guy guys, (online or real life), is an opportunity to meet someone.
    But does it mean your boyfriend don't want you to ever meet an other gay man ?
    It look like he think you will cheat on him given the opportunity. That's not trust.
  • Splendidus_1

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    Aug 13, 2012 10:58 PM GMT
    Relationships where there are ultimatums make me shiver, to say the least.

    Seriously, even if you go like "It's either that rock, or me" , I'm going to choose the rock and smack you in the head with it.

    If there's no trust, then it's a matter of time 'till the relationship goes kaboom.
  • Asmodeus

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    Aug 13, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    i'd rather keep the account over a guy!
  • Profire

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    Aug 13, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
    There is no way I would delete my account here if my bf gave me an ultimatum.

    I don't use this site as a hook up site; it's a gay fitness site.

    Actually, when I started dating my bf, I told him about this site and thought he may sign up.
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
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    You Again !!??? Someone Please Make Him Stop!!
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:13 PM GMT
    Profire saidThere is no way I would delete my account here if my bf gave me an ultimatum.

    I don't use this site as a hook up site; it's a gay fitness site.

    +1
  • stratavos

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    Aug 13, 2012 11:14 PM GMT
    mileshelvetica saidAfter 3 days he's making demands? Amber light flashing!!

    WARNING, WILL ROBINSON, WARNING!! DANGER! DANGER!


    this early it's an issue, and you did explain it's an exercise based fourm, right?
    if this ultimatum was appearing after a month or 2, it's more reasonable, because you can pull some strings as well.
  • waccamatt

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    Aug 13, 2012 11:18 PM GMT
    I don't do well with ultimatums, especially after 3 days. After 3 days you don't know if you want to pursue a long term relationship with someone.
  • Pyre85

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    Aug 13, 2012 11:19 PM GMT
    I have a boyfriend of two years and made this account recently. He's not overjoyed, but just told me to be careful and that he trusts me. He's really busy with work and our schedules are often at odds, meaning we don't see as much of eachother as wed like, I find this a much needed input of gay society. (I live in the sticks, not many guys out in my neck of the woods. SFs not far, but I'm too broke to get out much lol)
    Bottom line, it's not that big of a deal as long as there is trust in the relationship. Not only does he need to trust you enough to believe your not hooking up on here, but you need to be able to trust yourself. If you think that its a threat to your relationship in any way (as in youd be attracted to other guys here and tempted to stray) I'd drop it. But like you, I find this is a decidedly better atmosphere than most gay networking sites, and am committed enough to my boy to be tempted no further than drooling at all hot bodies. He let's me look, I just can't touch xD
  • O5vx

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    Aug 13, 2012 11:20 PM GMT
    This boyfriend of yours seem like a lower, a bum
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:20 PM GMT
    dude sounds like an asshole. Tell him to fuck off.
  • demasi

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    Aug 13, 2012 11:22 PM GMT
    boyfriends are temporary
    real jock is forever
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:25 PM GMT
    A control freak in only 3 days. He did you a favor showing his cards so soon.
  • Karl

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    Aug 13, 2012 11:27 PM GMT
    no way I delete my account.
    I use RJ to meet friends , RJ is an other Facebook of mine lol.
    It's also a fitness site.
    Why do I have to delete my account if I have a bf icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:28 PM GMT
    I think your man is bringing his past (bad) experiences to his new relationship...
    Or maybe he thinks RJ is just another hookup site..

    Anyways to answer your question:

    No I wouldn't.. Not that I'll be choosing a site over my boyfriend (that's just ridiculous) but because if I'd agree I'd be admitting that I'm doing something wrong when I'm actually not...


  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Aug 13, 2012 11:31 PM GMT
    just put "Sorry guys im taken" as your "Guys im looking to meet"
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 13, 2012 11:32 PM GMT
    I "created my account" on RJ when while involved with my partner. He knew, he's visited, No issues.
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:34 PM GMT
    This is your fourth thread here since the 10th, each containing some word of caution about this guy. When you first meet someone and are giddy with excitement you should be doing nothing more than ignoring minor annoying habits like chewing food with his mouth open. The type of concerns you already have usually come about as the relationship begins to develop. I don't like to be discouraging with a budding relationship, but with as many red flags as you in just a short time, I'd be very cautious.
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:41 PM GMT



    No! I wouldn't expect him to want me to delete my account just because he knows I'm with him... I'd then only use RJ to maintain the friendships I have made through this site.
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:41 PM GMT
    Bro's before hoe's, Brah
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    kemoze saidToday I was talking with the guy I am seeing and he asked me about my accounts on the Internet and I told him that I have one at Realjock then he wanted me to delete it but I refused because I get a lot of advice and information from this site..,, so I think I won't talk to him again because he says either him or Realjock.,, I just met him on Friday I still don't know him that much...,,,

    Would you guys delete your account on Realjock if you have a boy friend?


    Not worth it. You can't even consider him a boyfriend yet. You are dating, which means that you can see whomever you want still. If he's trying to control you to that extent now, it'll only get worse. If you'd been together for a while, that would a reasonable topic of discussion.
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidBro's before hoe's, Brah


    I think you mean bro hoes.