Aug 14, 2012 8:32 AM GMT
Every time I finally think that I couldn't meet a dude who's more of a jerk, I do--and yet, somehow, there ARE decent, kind-hearted guys out there somewhere who have found other decent, kind-hearted guys to spend quality time with...so I'm curious--are guys here in LA just particularly screwed up, or do all of you (wherever you live) run into the same problem when meeting new guys?
I don't know if there are enough adjectives to describe many of the guys I encounter, but I'd start with: selfish, self-centered, inconsiderate, heartless, hypocritical, and dishonest...just to name a few. Am I just particularly unlucky, or is this the norm? I realize that my opportunities to meet guys are somewhat limited because I'm not 'out' to most, but still--if I randomly meet a decent guy that I'm attracted to, I pursue him in a friendly way until I know the interest isn't mutual.
I will add, though, that this mainly seems to be an issue with guys under 40. The few decent guys I HAVE met through the years were all 40+. Perhaps age factors in as well?
Anyway, I appreciate anyone's thoughts or experiences...it would sure make me feel a whole lot better to know one way or the other...lol!
I don't know if there are enough adjectives to describe many of the guys I encounter, but I'd start with: selfish, self-centered, inconsiderate, heartless, hypocritical, and dishonest...just to name a few. Am I just particularly unlucky, or is this the norm? I realize that my opportunities to meet guys are somewhat limited because I'm not 'out' to most, but still--if I randomly meet a decent guy that I'm attracted to, I pursue him in a friendly way until I know the interest isn't mutual.
I will add, though, that this mainly seems to be an issue with guys under 40. The few decent guys I HAVE met through the years were all 40+. Perhaps age factors in as well?
Anyway, I appreciate anyone's thoughts or experiences...it would sure make me feel a whole lot better to know one way or the other...lol!