Would you date a Virgin

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    Aug 15, 2012 3:32 AM GMT
    so some people wouldn't like a virgin b/c most think that they'll get clingy after they lose it...

    but whatever... i doubt all virgins are like that......


    IDK if i should tell people i'm a virgin... or if i shouldn't even answer it if they ask me


    I'm in college so ummm yeah haha
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    Aug 15, 2012 3:35 AM GMT
    Considering I'm an "asshole virgin" it would be hypocritical for me to say no.

    I've fucked but never liked it. And I don't wanna be fucked.

    In fact, even after accomplishing all my childhood dreams (career and hobbies), my relationship dream would be to date a fellow asshole virgin who wants to neither give nor take a dick up the ass. It would be a dream come true to date a guy who's perfectly happy with groping and masturbation. icon_wink.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 15, 2012 3:36 AM GMT
    you could pick up a one night stand in a different city and just be done with it ... either way you're going to loose it
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    Aug 15, 2012 3:37 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidConsidering I'm an "asshole virgin" it would be hypocritical for me to say no.

    I've fucked but never liked it. And I don't wanna be fucked.

    In fact, even after accomplishing all my childhood dreams (career and hobbies), my relationship dream would be to date a fellow asshole virgin who wants to neither give nor take a dick up the ass. It would be a dream come true to date a guy who's perfectly happy with groping and masturbation. icon_wink.gif


    Curious??? Late bloomer?
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    Aug 15, 2012 3:37 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidyou could pick up a one night stand in a different city and just be done with it ... either way you're going to loose it


    I'll eventually get pounded during my years in college ? lol
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    Aug 15, 2012 3:38 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidConsidering I'm an "asshole virgin" it would be hypocritical for me to say no.

    I've fucked but never liked it. And I don't wanna be fucked.

    In fact, even after accomplishing all my childhood dreams (career and hobbies), my relationship dream would be to date a fellow asshole virgin who wants to neither give nor take a dick up the ass. It would be a dream come true to date a guy who's perfectly happy with groping and masturbation. icon_wink.gif


    I'll be good with that.... lol
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    Aug 15, 2012 3:40 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidyou could pick up a one night stand in a different city and just be done with it ... either way you're going to loose it
    That depends on how you define virginity.

    According to the popular definition (penetration) you're correct. There truly is nothing special about sex. Society/religion has tried to brainwash us otherwise, but that's just conditioning.

    When it comes to shooting a wad while doing something/someone that excites you, yeah, it's going to happen. And it's not "special." It'll happen several other times in life.
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    Aug 15, 2012 8:09 AM GMT
    ADHDguy saidso some people wouldn't like a virgin b/c most think that they'll get clingy after they lose it...

    but whatever... i doubt all virgins are like that......


    IDK if i should tell people i'm a virgin... or if i shouldn't even answer it if they ask me


    I'm in college so ummm yeah haha


    Are you kidding me? Is this a real question? Would you date a virgin you've fucked? This can't be a real question, lol
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    Aug 16, 2012 12:53 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    AMoonHawk saidyou could pick up a one night stand in a different city and just be done with it ... either way you're going to loose it

    When it comes to shooting a wad while doing something/someone that excites you, yeah, it's going to happen. And it's not "special." It'll happen several other times in life.

    It will definitely happen some time, and its not "special." But it is likely to be a lot less awkward if whoever you're gonna do it with the first time knows in advance that it's your first time.
  • Smakkyoface

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    Aug 16, 2012 1:01 AM GMT
    People ive dated usually start distancing themselves when I tell them ive never done it. Should i just craigslist some random penis and pop it already? I mean im gonna be 25 at the end of the month. or should i just not tell the person im dating that ive been too much of a nerd to experience sex?
  • Medjai

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    Aug 16, 2012 1:03 AM GMT
    I probably would. Sexual experience has little to do with who someone is...
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    Aug 16, 2012 1:28 AM GMT
    i hope someone wants to date me, damnit.
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    Aug 16, 2012 1:52 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    paulflexes saidConsidering I'm an "asshole virgin" it would be hypocritical for me to say no.

    I've fucked but never liked it. And I don't wanna be fucked.

    In fact, even after accomplishing all my childhood dreams (career and hobbies), my relationship dream would be to date a fellow asshole virgin who wants to neither give nor take a dick up the ass. It would be a dream come true to date a guy who's perfectly happy with groping and masturbation. icon_wink.gif


    Curious??? Late bloomer?
    Been "out" 21 years, and had three long-term live-in relationships during which time I topped.

    Never enjoyed it. That's why I ditched them.

    Anal sex is notoriously dangerous, and I ain't about to do something I never enjoyed in the first place knowing that it's dangerous.

    BTW, anal sex is not an exclusive gay act. Straight guys have done anal with their girls since the dawn of humans. Gays have only recently stolen it to be their own. In fact, in recorded history, the original homosexual seldom engaged in anal sex, but instead enjoyed each other's physiques and masturbated together. Do some research. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 16, 2012 1:58 AM GMT
    Virgin here, so i would want to date a virgin as well? experience the first time with someone who can relate.
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    Aug 16, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    Smakkyoface saidPeople ive dated usually start distancing themselves when I tell them ive never done it. Should i just craigslist some random penis and pop it already? I mean im gonna be 25 at the end of the month. or should i just not tell the person im dating that ive been too much of a nerd to experience sex?

    OMG please don't. Craigslist is all #ycyl and diseases and all that stuff. Find the right guy you trust and who understands that you're a virgin so your first time will be comfortable.
  • Smiling_Eyes

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    Aug 16, 2012 2:04 AM GMT
    I absolutely would. I don't agree with those that say "get it out of the way" like it's a plague. Be sexual when you want to be!
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    Aug 16, 2012 2:06 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidConsidering I'm an "asshole virgin" it would be hypocritical for me to say no.

    I've fucked but never liked it. And I don't wanna be fucked.

    In fact, even after accomplishing all my childhood dreams (career and hobbies), my relationship dream would be to date a fellow asshole virgin who wants to neither give nor take a dick up the ass. It would be a dream come true to date a guy who's perfectly happy with groping and masturbation. icon_wink.gif


    What about oral? If you include oral, I'm totally on board.
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    Aug 16, 2012 3:13 AM GMT
    Personally, I wouldn't. I've dated two virgins and they came with way too many stipulations about making their first time "special." Plus, they tended to judge me for being sexually active and had way too many hangups.
  • ExtraN

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    Aug 16, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    im a virgin.im 17. and i will wait my true love.........
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    Aug 16, 2012 8:35 PM GMT
    cdub341 saidPersonally, I wouldn't. I've dated two virgins and they came with way too many stipulations about making their first time "special." Plus, they tended to judge me for being sexually active and had way too many hangups.


    sadly this... virgins often have a lot of self righteous baggage... it´s a bit dull to unpack it all for them...
  • Montague

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    Aug 16, 2012 8:38 PM GMT
    I'd date them just until I pop their cherry and then post about it on facebo...icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 16, 2012 8:41 PM GMT
    I'd rather find myself a virgin. For the idea of something special growing out of it. Though, it's not something I'm looking far and wide for.
  • FireDoor211

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    Aug 16, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidConsidering I'm an "asshole virgin" it would be hypocritical for me to say no.

    I've fucked but never liked it. And I don't wanna be fucked.

    In fact, even after accomplishing all my childhood dreams (career and hobbies), my relationship dream would be to date a fellow asshole virgin who wants to neither give nor take a dick up the ass. It would be a dream come true to date a guy who's perfectly happy with groping and masturbation. icon_wink.gif


    Sometimes this sounds like a great way to go. Anal sex can get kinda gross sometimes
  • O5vx

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    Aug 16, 2012 8:52 PM GMT
    Why not, considering I am one myself.
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    Aug 16, 2012 9:04 PM GMT
    WhyWhySee said
    Trollileo saidWhy is this a question? Of course I would. I don't even enjoy sex so their prior sex life is irrelevant to me.

    It's a question that virgins always ask, because they are "holding out for true love", but secretly afraid that if or when they find true love that person won't date them because they are a virgin.


    Why this ridiculous girly notion of holding out for true love? Girls hold out for true love because they think their twats are so special the guy that gets it they will get to marry them.

    Why is there this either or mentality? Either a true love or a random hook up? Why not find someone who has had some experience and enjoys making love to a man and isn't just in it for a selfish orgasm but the experience of sharing the most pleasure two people can enjoy together.

    So to answer the OP's question: Yes, I would date a virgin and gladly take however much time it takes for them to feel comfortable enough for me to teach them how to enjoy sex with a man.